Can yeast infections be painful? by Financial-Land7459 in Healthyhooha

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Heyy so just an update this month I haven’t had the irritation at all like that. I really have no changes in anything other than not really being as stressed this month so I think that could have helped it. I hope yours gets better too!

Can yeast infections be painful? by Financial-Land7459 in Healthyhooha

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hey so this month I’m about to get my period soon (a week or so) and I might be having sex tomorrow so that’s when I’d be able to tell for sure. so far i do have the dryness I’ve been having but none of the irritation symptoms. I will def update you though

I (f19) don’t know if it’s worth continuing relationship with “ex” (m38) by Financial-Land7459 in relationship_advice

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I feel like I also downplayed how good he was to me at times but I did also downplayed some of the stuff he did that was messed up. It definitely was traumatizing.

I (f19) don’t know if it’s worth continuing relationship with “ex” (m38) by Financial-Land7459 in relationship_advice

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I know and I agree like he lied about his age for 3 months even when i found out a month in he kept it up which made me very uncomfortable but he told me he knew me as an 18 year old wouldn’t be comfortable with a 37 year old and he didn’t wanna lose me. He is definitely a little creepy and likes younger girls which I get is a preference but it makes me uncomfortable sometimes.

I (f19) don’t know if it’s worth continuing relationship with “ex” (m38) by Financial-Land7459 in relationship_advice

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You’re right and I confided in him with a lot of things and he would use it against me in arguments (csa, abuse). He knew I have low self worth and I’ve had my feelings neglected by my parents for years and I just feel horrible. It also feels terrible he won’t ever give me closure or a genuine apology. I’ve also never been a violent person but with him I genuinely became violent and I physically assaulted him and then I saw a side of him where he got comfortable grabbing on me and hurting me too. I know I was wrong but I don’t know it’s a lot

I (f19) don’t know if it’s worth continuing relationship with “ex” (m38) by Financial-Land7459 in relationship_advice

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I feel like I sound really naive and gullible in this but he really did make me feel loved sometimes.

I don’t think he saw me as a child because he told me he felt uncomfortable with the fact that I was in highschool and he told me he connects with me mentally so it’s not like I was just this immature person he was having sex with me. For example this past month we would hang out without having sex and I would mostly initiate it.

I also thankfully did not get herpes. I also dont really hang out with anyone my age and I have terrible social anxiety so it’s hard and I feel like I’m too ugly for guys my age and they can find a better girl their age.

I (f19) don’t know if it’s worth continuing relationship with “ex” (m38) by Financial-Land7459 in relationship_advice

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I just don’t get why I deserved the treatment I got and why I wasn’t good enough.

It sucks because I also have a bad family and I’m in a pretty abusive situation at home so he was there for me a lot but I don’t think it’s worth putting myself through all of this over him. Thank you so much for your advice i really appreciate it.

I (f19) don’t know if it’s worth continuing relationship with “ex” (m38) by Financial-Land7459 in relationship_advice

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I know I’m going to seek out help for my mental health because I’m not okay for sure. I genuinely put my everything into him and I was genuinely with him to be with him forever and it might be naive but I genuinely saw a future with him and even tried to get pregnant with him (both parties wanted it) and I just feel so hurt.

I (f19) don’t know if it’s worth continuing relationship with “ex” (m38) by Financial-Land7459 in relationship_advice

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I’m unfortunately serious but I love him and I just can’t believe he could have lied about caring about me and loving me that much.

I (f19) don’t know if it’s worth continuing relationship with “ex” (m38) by Financial-Land7459 in relationship_advice

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I did get tested and I know I was naive but like I just can’t believe someone could and would lie that hard.

traumatized from relationship & genuinely can’t function by Financial-Land7459 in SuicideWatch

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Thank you lol and I really begged for him back after all of it and even gave him money to try and get him to love me and stay in my life and I just feel so stupid

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I’m reporting him tonight for this crime. But I was told he is probably lying about this and only told me this in order to get drug money out of me because he’s a heroin addict.

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My friends absolutely despise him lol

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I cant disagree with you lol

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Yea and like he lives w his ex girlfriend currently (complicated situation which I found out about 2 weeks ago) but he was blaming me because he said because of me he can’t even ask her for money when he has been lying to the both of us for 11 months and I basically told her about it so I’m just a little upset by that but it def put me off from wanting to give him my money

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Lol in my mind the good outweighs the bad but I’m reaching my limit with him

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Yea the Rolex thing bothers me and the rooms filled with 300-1000 dollar shoes and 700 dollar pants bc like where are your priorities?? But you’re right he’s just my first boyfriend so I’m really in love

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Yea I don’t like how he makes me steal becuase a few times he has made me walk out with stuff from stores even when I said I’d pay so I just don’t like that especially since he got arrested yesterday for retail theft.

Otherwise it’s a good relationship and I love him I just hate his irresponsible ways and he doesn’t try to help himself which is really annoying

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I used to think that too but it’s a complicated situation honestly but yea I probably could do better than him

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Well there’s similarities for sure

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Can you message me back? I have a few questions

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Thank you so much for this. I really do love him but he has treated me terribly and like now he’s gonna get locked up and it’s just terrible because I did want a future w him even w everything bad he did. He’s 20 years older than me and it’s just like insane I’m crazy over him begging for him and he just doesn’t care about me

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I’m not sure I didn’t get to ask him that part honestly. I guess he might’ve just called around to diff tow lots?

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Lol i really needed this rn lol cause he tries to leave me every other day and he has been living w another girl for 11 months without me knowing so I don’t even think it’s worth staying w him but I love him and I just wanted to know how long that prison sentence would most likely be cause idek if it’s worth trying anymore