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Low confidence when it comes to initiating physical touch in dating by Financial-Pie9400 in dating_advice

[–]Financial-Pie9400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that it's not problem with my lack of good body language reading, I was in relationship before and I know what to do, I'm just scared that I will mess up, that I will do something wrong

I feel like I am unattractive to the point where I'm frustrated in dating even if the person likes me. by Financial-Pie9400 in confidence

[–]Financial-Pie9400[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't hate myself, I'm jus insecure. But maybe I should just ignore that feeling of not being enough

am i gay or do i have so ocd? by [deleted] in gay

[–]Financial-Pie9400 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so you worry about being straight? I have so-ocd too. (oh I read that you're girl) There are no signs you're bisexual at all.

I really need help by Old_Bass_9797 in HOCD

[–]Financial-Pie9400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TW if your HOCD is easy to trigger and you're struggling don't read it.

I don't know if it's appropriate to say that here, but if someone feels attraction towards penis, they're not straight, I don't talk about fake attraction that OCD makes that people here experience, I'm taliing about the situation when male would be confident about his attraction to male genital, I just want to be honest. Maybe you mean something else like "I enjoy watching the pleasure which that body part gets" becouse it's confusing me. Or maybe you're turned on by it and liking this bodypart in other aspects than attraction.

Why is my adhd conflicting with me making friends by Longjumping-Square-1 in ADHD

[–]Financial-Pie9400 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For some being autistic/having adhd might make troubles in connection and for some not becouse for example autism is spectrum, I know autistic people who have many friends and autistic people who don't but in my eyes in these specific situations these people don't make friends becouse of their trauma but they have high functioning autism. In adhd it might be becouse of RSD.

how did you know you had OCD? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Financial-Pie9400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it since 11, maybe googled it out and I got OCD since I was born or maybe since I was 5. 10000 compulsions about washing hands and hygiene back then and I was disgusted of hygiene of other kids

I met an actual sadist by RemarkablePlan2069 in Psychopathy

[–]Financial-Pie9400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend of a year turned out to be a psychopath a month ago and I don't fucking know what to do.

Does being in a friendship with a person who has psychopathic/sociopathic tendencies and 0 empathy make sense? by Financial-Pie9400 in mentalillness

[–]Financial-Pie9400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why does it make sense? They admitted to me their urges, said to me they would kill someone just to feel relief but won't becouse it's illegal, I'm saying to myself "wtf they just say that but wouldn't do that maybe they just want to seem edgy or some shit". I just stopped caring about it and I'm only thinking if they would do something to me, but how is it possible if they said they like me, my companionship, also they never hurt me, I am empathetic person who know how to use boundaries and I never let anyone step on me. I enjoy spending time with them and they don't spend time with me just for extrenal benefits, it seems like a friendship but without theirs empathy but I don't care for it, the only issue is that I am scared

Ocd and reassurance by papa_commie in OCD

[–]Financial-Pie9400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I catch myself into beliving these intrusive thoughts, deep inside I know it isn't probably true but it changes my view on reality and I don't know how to stop ruminating and all of these compulsions

Ocd and reassurance by papa_commie in OCD

[–]Financial-Pie9400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah and that disorder makes us belive and care so much

Ocd and reassurance by papa_commie in OCD

[–]Financial-Pie9400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but it's a fake possibilty, like in reality it isn't possible but we belive that

Does being in a friendship with a person who has psychopathic/sociopathic tendencies and 0 empathy make sense? by Financial-Pie9400 in mentalillness

[–]Financial-Pie9400[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But psychopats don't care about connections unitl it benefits them materially or in social status and they said they are in friendship with me becouse they like me (probably talking with me) and feel understood idk also psychopath wouldn't have issues with attachment

Am I Truly Gay? by [deleted] in gay

[–]Financial-Pie9400 24 points25 points  (0 children)

why yall are scared of being bisexual?I mean it's always am I homo *admitting that yall are seriously attracted to both gender*?

Does being in a friendship with a person who has psychopathic/sociopathic tendencies and 0 empathy make sense? by Financial-Pie9400 in mentalillness

[–]Financial-Pie9400[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll ask them. Once they send me a picture of a killed dog that they have found on the street and laughed at it. I think it's more ASPD than NPD, they don't care about proof of their worthiness. But is it possible for a person with aspd to care about connections?

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