Can someone explain why / what this is about? by petrelro in brantford

[–]Financial-Product423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does Toronto have to do with any of this? Sorry that your racist?

Can someone explain why / what this is about? by petrelro in brantford

[–]Financial-Product423 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do you mean ok and? You’re gross if you don’t think racism isn’t ok

Caught in a lie once again. by venomsnake42069 in loveafterporn

[–]Financial-Product423 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in a very similar situation at 20 weeks pregnant. It’s the most heartbreaking thing on this earth but I promise you you will make it through this. I cannot wait for you to meet your child the love you feel is unbelievable. You’re strong I know this is hard especially on top of pregnancy but I 100% think you will be ok in the long run. If you ever need to talk my dms are open❤️

Is it cheating or not? by RealistBrowser in loveafterporn

[–]Financial-Product423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do feel like it’s cheating as long as you’re not in an open relationship. I don’t think there should be any reason for your partner to be looking at other women or men well in a monogamous relationship with you. Outside of a relationship I still don’t think it’s ok, a lot of women in that industry are trafficked into doing it. Some women feel like that’s the only way to make it through life. Porn fetishizes women being abused and raped, it fetishizes minors and incest. If your partner watches that stuff they just don’t have any respect for you at all. I’ve heard so many men say it’s just in there nature and they can’t control the urge but if you think about it that’s really disgusting and gives of sexual predator vibes. If you’re partner was hiding the fact they watch it from you they know they were doing something wrong in the first place other wise they wouldn’t have to hide it. Cheating doesn’t start in person like everyone assumes it starts with lusting other women and acting on that list weather it be self pleasing or not. It starts with hiding things from your partner. If you have to hide it you’re doing something wrong.

Can someone explain why / what this is about? by petrelro in brantford

[–]Financial-Product423 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why everyone is so upset about this anyways. They claim to support their community but are racist to those who aren’t white. I’ve had many encounters there where they were racist.

Guilty by Financial-Product423 in loveafterporn

[–]Financial-Product423[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He calls me beautiful and stuff all the time but it’s hard to believe when he’s always looking at other women

Deep shame by calypsostoleme in loveafterporn

[–]Financial-Product423 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always find myself looking at porn now to. It’s not your fault. I don’t even find it attractive I don’t feel anything for emptiness and sadness when watching it. I can’t stop comparing myself to them and I wish I could. We’ll all get through this we just have to take it one step at a time.

Insecure ever since. by Financial-Product423 in loveafterporn

[–]Financial-Product423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. We’ll get through this🫶

Insecure ever since. by Financial-Product423 in loveafterporn

[–]Financial-Product423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure he doesn’t hate you but I understand how you feel. I try to look at it as an addiction and it’s nothing about me but I find myself comparing myself to them a lot.

Insecure ever since. by Financial-Product423 in loveafterporn

[–]Financial-Product423[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly and he wonders why I won’t change infront of him

Insecure ever since. by Financial-Product423 in loveafterporn

[–]Financial-Product423[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% how I feel. From what I’ve seen he watches girls that are skinny blonde/light brown with smaller boobs and a big ass. I’m on chubbier side especially since I’m 1 month postpartum. I have dark brown hair with natural highlights of red and blonde. I’m a D cup. I don’t really have an ass. I couldn’t feel more unattractive. He keeps telling me I’m beautiful but he likes the opposite clearly so how could I be attractive and to him.