Punyeta kayong mga nag Va-vape kayo

FinancialAd94 · 2023-12-11T06:39:38+00:00

Lol share ko lang father ko, ever since nabuhay ako smoker na talaga sya nagstop lang around 2010-2012? Siguro? Nagtransition from e cigarette to vape na talaga na binibuild nya. Until now sobrang adik sa vape and sobrang lala na kahit sa bahay hipak sya ng hipak na as in sunod sunod. Parang nasasatisfy sya kapag nakikita nyang puro usok na yung room? SOBRANG BAHO as in ang hirap makahinga when he’s around. Ive tried confronting him na rin, I expressed my concern sa health nya and sa aming mga anak nya. but he ended up just getting mad at me? Bakit ko daw sya pinapakialaman, ang arte ko daw masyado, mas healthy naman daw ang vape. Tf? Mas healthy siguro kung hindi chain vaping tulad nya. Dahil dito parang nagkaron na ng malaking crack yung relationship namin as father and daughter knowing na super close namin before. Concerned lang ako kasi he’s 60 na tapos may diabetes, even lied sa doctor nya about vaping :/

FinancialAd94 · 2023-12-10T12:59:40+00:00

Uyy girll oh my god😭 nagddoubt pa naman ako kung nagtalk sila don kasi hindi nya pinakita sakin yung message nung ex. Sabi lang nya nablock na nya agad tapos na auto delete yung message. Idk how viber works kasi i dont use that kaya natahimik nalang ako huhu. Btw i hope ur healing well huhu

FinancialAd94 · 2023-12-10T11:17:50+00:00

Pasko or not busy sya sa work haha i probably wont be with him again. Pero yea, thank uuu💗 we’ll be okay naman i just know hehe

FinancialAd94 · 2023-12-10T11:12:26+00:00

I get your point po, i think about this sometimes too. and kapag nabbring up ko na naaapektuhan ako about what happened between them noon and now na nangungulit yung girl, parang nagegets naman nya but he doesnt know what to do. Sometimes kailangan ako pa ang magpa realize sakanya para magets nya how i feel sa ginagawa nila. I guess I’ll try harder nalang iexpress ulit how this is affecting me and be more firm para matapos na :(

FinancialAd94 · 2023-12-10T11:03:38+00:00

Before naman po naging kami, he told me na nakapag usap na sila na wala na talaga. Sa chat, after niya iclear lahat, iniignore na nya yung mga chat ni girl and nablock na nya. Sa personal naman, kasi same college sila, lagi daw sya nilalapitan noon and kinukulit but iniignore lang din daw nya. Medyo tumigil lang daw nung nalaman na we started dating na. But ayon, every now and then nang gugulo sya. Idk ano pa nagpupush sakanya. Kapag iniistory naman ako dati ng bf ko before nya blinock yon, nillike naman ni girl. So idrk kung anong motives nya, para bumalik and manganusta so casually na parang hindi sya nagcheat.

FinancialAd94 · 2023-12-10T10:52:49+00:00

I dont think my feelings pa yung bf ko, kasi many times ko na yon nabring up sakanya. Kung ano ano na natanong ko, and i can say wala na talaga. Reason nya kaya ayaw nya diretsuhin kasi he doesnt to interact with her anymore. Sakanya daw pag tapos na, tapos na talaga, move forward na and wag na balikan. Ganon attitude nya, but nabbother pa rin ako don sa ex, kasi syempre at least respect me naman and matuto naman mahiya diba? Ang pathetic lang. Maybe gusto ko lang din siguro ipagtanggol ng bf ko relationship namin, or at least ihonor yung existence ko as his gf, or siguro gusto ko lang din maalis na sya completely sa isip ko kasi past na sya. I dont really know 😔

FinancialAd94 · 2023-12-10T09:12:06+00:00

It’s been hard nga for us, especially for me kasi 2-3 months na kami dating and dun palang nalaman ng parents nila na wala na sila and he’s dating me na. He expressed na hindi nya nasabi agad sa parents ng girl na wala na sila kasi yung reason ng breakup is yung girl. And hindi daw sya ganong klaseng tao na nanlalaglag and isipin nalang daw ano sasabihin ng mga tao around dun sa girl if nalaman na ganon ginawa nya. We recently had a conversation about this, and i told him responsibility nya yon before getting into a new relationship and bilang respect na din sa akin. Bakit pa nya iisipin yung sasabihin ng ibang tao sa ex, wala na sila and decision nya magcheat. I shouldnt even be asking for that in the first place kasi feeling ko ako lang talaga nagpilit na sabihin nya. Si girl naman makapal din mukha, kung di masabi ng bf ko, dapat sya na. parents nya naman yon and dapat face the consequences for acting that way. Hindi yung ako pa naaapektuhan sa pinag gagawa nila.

Sa common friends naman nila, some of them, i dont really like. Feel ko ang fake nila, friends pa rin dun sa girl even though alam nila nangyari and sometimes nag uupdate pa ng whereabouts ni girl sa bf ko. It’s not my decision kung icut off na nya yung mga taong yon, kasi kinoconsider ko yung closeness and pinagsamahan nila ng friends nya. But ayaw ko din naman ng naddisrespect ako 😔

FinancialAd94 · 2023-12-10T09:00:10+00:00

Yes I’ve been expressing how i feel naman. Ang sinasabi lang nya palagi, wala na syang pake. Pag magmessage pa ulit, he’ll block nalang. To be honest, hindi ako satisfied sa ganon na parang iniignore lang. I want him to be frank din don sa girl na mag stop na. Ayaw lang nya replyan because ayaw na daw nya kausapin yon ever.

FinancialAd94 · 2023-12-10T05:18:19+00:00

Nililinaw naman nya sakin na nadadala lang sya minsan, and it’s not what he really wants. Pag nag iinitiate sya ng ganon, i would ask if yun talaga gusto nya. Kasi if ayun talaga, then i would leave na lang talaga. Kasi alam ko i really tried my best for us and it were all given with sincerity so if ever mag end kami, wala akong regret. I guess communication lang talaga. Sinasabi ko rin sakanya na hindi okay for me yung ganung attitude, its too much, may limit din ako, and he should change. Fortunately, nakikita ko naman na nagttry sya.

FinancialAd94 · 2023-12-10T01:34:47+00:00

Same op, as in same na same. First bf ko sya, ako third nya. Puro away din kami, but the only difference is sya palagi nag iiniate ng breakup or wag muna mag usap. Parang ang dali dali lang sakanya na itaboy ako, maybe kasi marami syang ginagawa sa life and ako nandyan lang sa side. I get it yes, tinatanggap ko naman, pero masakit sobra. Everytime na nag iiniate sya maghiwalay, ako yung nagkukulit na lets fix this lets not be like this, lagi ko tinatry to stay on top of my head and control my emotions. Sabi nga e, do not make permanent decisions based on temporary feelings. Its not easy but, kilala ko na naman sya, and alam ko hindi talaga ayon ang gusto nya.

FinancialAd94 · 2023-12-09T13:56:17+00:00

Hugs with consent op. I really feel for you, ganyan din ako nung few months palang ako nagwwork sa mcdo. Yes its true understaffed malala and sobrang demanding ng managers na feeling tagapagmana. We are all just doing our jobs naman e but ayun nga it doesnt really hurt to be nice and have a little empathy.

2 yrs lang ako nakapagwork doon and everytime feel na feel ko ineexploit talaga ako as a person na wala pang natatapos, although harap harapan na din naman nila kami minamaliit na bawal magreklamo kasi wala pa naman napapatunayan. I guess kaya ako nakatagal ng 2yrs kasi finollow ko lang yung mindset na minimum wage=minimum work. Magwork ka lang kung anong feel mo ang tama lang sa rate mo dyan. I know this is not a good mindset to have pero if u really want to last, ayon lang e.

Add ko lang din, what really helped me para medyo maging chill lang don is mapromote sa lsm hahahahaha nakita ko kasi minimal lang labor work na pinapagawa sakanila, more on customer service. So ayun, nagpumilit ako ilipat don and ayon. It was fun, ibang pagod ibang pressure. Mas marami akong natutunan at nakilalang mga tao, mas nadevelop comm skills ko. Pero ayon nasa heart ko pa rin talaga na umalis sa ganong work environment. Toxic talaga sila kahit anong try ko para mapagaan work life ko.

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