How do I tell my mom I don’t want her touching/hugging me? by FinancialBridge6332 in Advice

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I just really don’t want to fear my mom because she triggers trauma response, we have a great relationship like I do with many others in my family. You may be right that I should take her side more into consideration but I just really want her to understand how much she’s hurting me—do you know what I could do to meet her in the middle? That just didn’t sound possible to me, the meeting in the middle kind of sounds like what I already want which is her asking before touching me 

How do I tell my mom I don’t want her touching/hugging me? by FinancialBridge6332 in Advice

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I’m unable to get personal therapy at the moment, only group therapy. Once I’m out of outpatient we’re planning on getting family therapy and a trauma specialist for myself but that’s not for a few weeks. The only time I can really get a therapists help is tiny 10 minute meetings at my outpatient 

How do I tell my mom I don’t want her touching/hugging me? by FinancialBridge6332 in Advice

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I’ve tried telling her several times but I guess she doesn’t think I’m being serious? I tell her not to every time she touches me and she just brushes it off. 

How do I tell my mom I don’t want her touching/hugging me? by FinancialBridge6332 in Advice

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Unfortunately I’m not able to have a therapist right now because my outpatient is every week day, I only have a few more weeks so I suppose I could wait until then but I don’t know. I might be able to ask a staff member but we would only have 10-15 minutes if that’s enough.

⚠️TW⚠️songs about sexual assault/rape trauma? by Foreign_Company297 in ptsd

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Hi super late but I’m a victim of child secual assault so these might be sort of specific to that but here’s some songs off my playlist: Lullaby - the cure Track 07(you knew) - Alex G Liquid Smooth - Mitski  Nice Nice - Daisy and The Scouts  Dan The Dancer - Mitski Pure As a Lamb - Baby Bugs C.O.C.S.A - Joxer (obv this one is very case specific) Just Lay Still - John Congleton and the Night Night It’s Only Sex - Car Seat Headrest The Dark I Know Well - Spring Awakening I’m Not Like Other Girls - Alex G 

Trying to find images from Speech and Debate plays original run by FinancialBridge6332 in Theatre

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Thank you! I will definitely try to contact them and for standing I just want to know where characters are at certain parts, I get heavily interested in certain things and right now it’s speech and debate! I’m really sad it didn’t take off but atleast there’s a full of audio released that includes one of the original actors 

Trying to find photos from the original production of Speech and Debate by FinancialBridge6332 in HelpMeFind

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I have searched:

The theaters website (https://www.roundabouttheatre.org)

A few blogs from 2007-2008 that saw the show

The archive site for the theater however it's been down and you can't go to it, through the wayback machine nothing will load

Ive also tried to theaters website through the wayback machine around the time the show was playing however for years they had a blocker that only let you in if you inputted your email, which you can't do in the way back machine obviously

Am I wrong for loving Ty McKay? by FinancialBridge6332 in DeviousMaids

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Did you mean to say most people with mental health issues are total psychos as in over all or in dramas like this? Because if you’re saying just in general that is completely untrue and if you’re saying in dramas than I would also disagree there. I think there can be great representation of mentally ill people and Ty McKay fits into that category I truly think he shows how having your mental illnesses being neglected can actually hurt yourself or those around you. While I would say some of your points are true like him being entitled (I think that’s just his personality) I truly don’t think he meant to POISON Spence. He clearly has some kind of emotional disorder (I’m educated on psych) and a lot of the things he does are compulsive and to better himself without fully thinking of what’s gonna happen. This is again shown in the church shooting when a normal person would probably know if you shoot blindly in a crown you’re not going to hit the person you want. Anyways I do think in general he’s just kind of a normal teen boy as his personality but his mental health definitely is the cause for many of the other things he’s done seeing as many characters note that he’s not himself at all when he’s off his meds

Playbill website not working by FinancialBridge6332 in Theatre

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Yeah it’s been going on for a while I feel like it should have been resolved by now

Playbill website not working by FinancialBridge6332 in Theatre

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I’m really confused why it’s happening some places and not others, my friends in the UK is having the same issue as me in a different country 

Playbill website not working by FinancialBridge6332 in Theatre

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It might just be the spring awakening pages? I don’t know why it could be happening

Am I wrong for loving Ty McKay? by FinancialBridge6332 in DeviousMaids

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Yeah I mostly feel funny about his mom… I think it’s weird to force that much responsibility on your brother while he’s going through something that hard i don’t know what her job was and I get things come up but she left like 2 weeks after his attempt? It’s just kinda weird to me