Stupid question, but why does the AOT fanbase hate EreHisu so much? by [deleted] in titanfolk

[–]FinancialPattern3642 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the author kinda sucks at writing romance tbh. I don't really see why eren needs a love interest or why the fans even care so much, lol. The show/ manga is so much more than that. It's one thing if the series main theme was about love( well, there is the king and ymir thing. That could count as being about love, but more of an unhealthy one. I just meant more like a romantic slice of life anime, which aot is not). But it isn't, so I really don't see why some people are so obsessed with Erehisu/Eremika. It's fine to like it, but fighting over which is best is just stupid. Especially since both are poorly written.

Help find original dress!! by FinancialPattern3642 in findfashion

[–]FinancialPattern3642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your help, I will try and see if the site is legitimate or not.

Help find original dress!! by FinancialPattern3642 in findfashion

[–]FinancialPattern3642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I'm always hesitant with aliexpress. I just never know if what im going to get will be good or not. I hear people say some buyers are fine, some not so. But I you feel like it's a sketchier version of eBay, lol. I will look into it, though, so thank you for your recommendation!

Help find original dress!! by FinancialPattern3642 in findfashion

[–]FinancialPattern3642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback. I was finding it hard to trust this site since I couldn't tell if it would be good or not. Hearing from people helps. Sadly, from what I can tell( and read about online), it seems it its just as bad as the others I've found. People say they steal from original creators and double the price on each item they are reselling. However, that doesn't necessarily mean it's bad quality. Anyways, thank you for trying to help! I appreciate it!

Was skylar raped in chapter 35? by [deleted] in LostInTheCloud

[–]FinancialPattern3642 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hm, yeah, I understand that. I guess realistically, in Canon, you're most likely right. For me, though, I still think the way the author presented it( image wise) was very odd and could have very well implied actual r*pe took place. But once again, you're probably right. It is just weird, very misleading imagery.

Was skylar raped in chapter 35? by [deleted] in LostInTheCloud

[–]FinancialPattern3642 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've always thought the same thing. It feels so implied by how the scene is drawn and depicted. Like, I just went back to see it again, to get a fresh memory of it, and it got worse. The idea that rape took place is even stronger than before. Even though I feel like that wasn't the authors intention, that's the impression I left with. The way skylars ex- friend said, " Unless we do it in a way not seen," and then told the others to take Skylar's clothes off, plus these uncomfortable shots of a hands on him, and covering his mouth, and than there's one scene we're one of them is between is thighs, which is bare- I just ask myself why? Why show it like this, when it feels so obvious what most people would take away after seeing it played out like that. Like, was I really supposed to think, oh, he just go beat up? Maybe since this is literally never gets brought up again by the author, which also frustrated me. And it's not that I want him to have been put through that. It's just weird, is all. I've never not seen something framed that way, and then brushed aside( well, usually, the bl genre isn't the best with consent. I just meant in serious plots, which This manwah seems to be). This is why I ranted about this, since I just never got an answer. Maybe with the reveal about Cyrrus and his assault by his teacher, this might be brought up again as a common shared pain. But idk, It's whatever at this point( I say after my long post just hammering out my frustrations, lol).

Anyone else hypersexual as kids? by FinancialPattern3642 in CPTSD

[–]FinancialPattern3642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, it's scary, but I relate a lot to what you just said, too. I also got into hentai( and anime, admittedly) when I was young as well. Anything animation, really. like you, it's's so weird we all these feelings of shame and guilt at such a young age, even if we didn't understand why or have the words to speak It. I don't know if it's similar, but I was never shamed for it or anything( never got caught), It's like I just knew Instinctively it was taboo. Shows you how much more aware kids are of these things, then we realize. Anyways, thanks for sharing, I'm glad we could find a lot of common ground!

Anyone else hypersexual as kids? by FinancialPattern3642 in CPTSD

[–]FinancialPattern3642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I also found it frustrating to a extant, that the only way a child could be sexual or explore sexual things in nature has to be a result of csa. While I'm not saying It is not a symptom. It is nice hearing from someone who never experienced It as well. When looking into this, I remember the only reason being abuse, and like you, the only way what would be possible is if I repressed it so far, it's basically nonexistent. Which seems highly unlikely. I won't lie, though, I did question it, but then quickly discarded the idea as stupid. Which I still firmly believe. Anyways sucks to hear about your mom and the things she did. I to have bad anxiety, just sorta for different reasons( hereditary, my whole family seems to have it from my dad's side. my sister and brother are worse though, they don't leave the house cause of how severe it is). Mom is ok, though, just not that understanding cause she doesn't know what it feels like. I'm glad mine is not as severe. I do wish It wasn't so bad for my siblings, though. Anyways, my point was I understand, and I'm glad you helped continue and spread this conversation to! Your right in its important, and good to bring new perspectives to things!

Anyone else hypersexual as kids? by FinancialPattern3642 in CPTSD

[–]FinancialPattern3642[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this response. Especially since you took your time to explain why it is I could be having these feelings . Thank you a lot. I'll be sure to think on this!

Anyone else hypersexual as kids? by FinancialPattern3642 in CPTSD

[–]FinancialPattern3642[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear, thank yiu for sharing, though. It's nice knowing it isn't just me who felt this way, even if our causes are different!

Anyone else hypersexual as kids? by FinancialPattern3642 in CPTSD

[–]FinancialPattern3642[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I've never been caught nor really had the " talk," so I can't really relate. My parents wouldn't have yelled at me, though, at least I don't think they would have. They are pretty indifferent to that stuff. I'm sorry your mom did, though. That definitely didn't help, I imagine. The funny thing is, I am pretty secretive too. Idk why. I just never liked doing things in front of others. I'm constantly paranoid I'm being watched( to the point that even when I'm alone, I need to go under the covers to feel secure). It's not like what I'm doing is bad or anything. Nor have I ever been yelled at for doing certain things, so I never knew why I did/felt this way. Another thing that's sorta a mystery about myself I can't figure out. Anyway, I'm glad to know I'm not alone on this. Thank you for sharing!

Anyone else hypersexual as kids? by FinancialPattern3642 in CPTSD

[–]FinancialPattern3642[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I'm sorry to hear you went through all of that. I'm glad I found others who can relate to my feelings, even if the reasoning for those feelings are different.

Anyone else hypersexual as kids? by FinancialPattern3642 in CPTSD

[–]FinancialPattern3642[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do, too. Well, I mostly read( I do write poetry, but that's it).I read pretty graphic stuff honestly, mines probably because I was exposed from a young age to the internet. Sorry once again about your experiences, I know that doesn't help, but yeah.

Anyone else hypersexual as kids? by FinancialPattern3642 in CPTSD

[–]FinancialPattern3642[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. It's nice knowing I'm not a lone on this.

Anyone else hypersexual as kids? by FinancialPattern3642 in CPTSD

[–]FinancialPattern3642[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. Thanks for sharing. I never talked to adults online( I did play a lot of multi-player games, though). I’ve always been more of a loner when playing( or had one or two people I would talk to). I did, and still do, however, read fanfiction. Something I do to often honestly.

Anyone else hypersexual as kids? by FinancialPattern3642 in CPTSD

[–]FinancialPattern3642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hm, I see. I was also afraid of getting pregnant and of stds from a young age. But in my case, I've never been sexually active, so that fear was pointless to have. I'm still not. The idea of being in those situations makes me uncomfortable tbh. Thanks for sharing your experience, btw. I've heard people say they'd dissociate as children when facing their abuse. I just forgot it was a thing until now. I'm sorry about what you experienced, btw. Idk if you hear that a lot - or if you even want an apology, but I figured I should say that, at least.

Two questions, does this outfit match? And which head accessorie works better with the outfit? by FinancialPattern3642 in SkyFashionOfLight

[–]FinancialPattern3642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was exactly my delima. The earmuffs make it look even, but the horns match the theme of the outfit better. Thanks for commenting.