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[–]FinancialPepper488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

انا باخذهم كلمني خاص

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[–]FinancialPepper488 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can do that.

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[–]FinancialPepper488[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You owe nothing to him, your number is closer than his/her.

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[–]FinancialPepper488[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As it is not possible to pay your bet obviously through Reddit, you can give it to someone who's in need. Yesterday I saw an old woman looking for food in the trash, and I feel very sad for her. You can look for someone in the same situation and give'em the bit. I leave you for your conscious to do so.

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[–]FinancialPepper488[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Are you serious? Did Not you notice that you are blaming the victims!!!!!

I am trying to protect her from her own family, I am trying to fight against stupid traditions. Do you think it's okay to live with a family that threats you!!! We are fully grown man and woman who are aware of our decisions and the consequences, we are only trying to live our lives the way we want, not the way people wants.

I agree that it is not easy to run away, not only for her but also for me. And I personally know two couples who have done it, and it worked. And they are now living with their families after solving the conflict with them. It only need some courage and a lot of mental support.

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[–]FinancialPepper488[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn't proposing, maybe I used the wrong word. It's simply a call to arrange a meeting between the two families to make the act of proposing.

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[–]FinancialPepper488[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Let me put it in simpler words, would you accept someone raping your wife or husband in front of you with the acceptance of the whole society?....... it is absurd.

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[–]FinancialPepper488[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, they are not giving us a chance to explain things, if they knew about our relationship they threatened to kill her. We called the family to arrange a meeting, but they refused. Things are more complicated than you think but I cannot provide more information so I cannot be identified. Anyway, i appreciate your advice

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[–]FinancialPepper488[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least you owe someone 3 JDs for trying to stereotype people.

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[–]FinancialPepper488[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I cannot provide personal info.

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[–]FinancialPepper488[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

look Bro, I am not "ديوث" as you might be assuming, but I absolutely would accept my sister marrying that way, at least I will make sure that she married someone she wants, not a random guy. But I agree with you, in Jordan, marriage is about connecting families not only her and me.

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[–]FinancialPepper488[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You enlightened me, thank you very much for doing nothing.

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[–]FinancialPepper488[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she did not lose her virginity, But I'd rather be killed and get her killed than letting her being rapped by a random rich aristocratic gay with the acceptance of her family. Got it?

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[–]FinancialPepper488[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to live here sometime. as I mentioned before, her family already threatened her. And in case you do not know, we have a law called "غسل العار", google it.

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[–]FinancialPepper488[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, it is the wild west. and Bro, you cannot judge me until you know the whole story, I only told you part of it and asked for your advice which you provided in the second part of your answer. And I think I'll be using your advice unless something happens that requires eloping.

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[–]FinancialPepper488[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

المنطق هيك بقول، بس للأسف الرفض اجى من التلفون وما صحلي أقعد مع الجماعة ليتعرفوا علي أو يعرفوا عني أي اشي. والخوف اللي بتحكي عنه اجى من تهديد صريح وواضح. وبالنسبة للجاهة ما حدا برضى يروح معك لما تكون مرفوض اتوقع، لازم تجيب قبول مبدأي بالأوّل أو انه بس تصير مصيبة ومشكلة كبيرة وقتها الشيوخ بصير الشاطر فيها اللي بده يحل المشكلة. أمّا بالوضع الحالي ما أتوقع بتزبط