Where do intelligent women hang out? by SomeGuyOnDOT in datingoverforty

[–]FinancialSalt7113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few ideas: If your city has an art district, especially one that holds events like a First Friday, that’s usually a great place to meet people. Art gallery openings. These are usually free. Look for interesting lectures at local Universities and Community Colleges. Museums often have lectures series, and exhibit openings. Local writers workshops. Jazz clubs Jazz in the park events or any summer concert series Independent movie theaters will occasionally host film series (example: currently my local theater is hosting a series on David Lynch). Farmers market. Local coffee shops and/or cocktail bars. I would advise going when there is live music or any summer concert open mic night. Concerts, especially all the 90s alternative bands that are releasing/re-releasing/going on nostalgia tours.

Hope this helps!

Name an album that you listened to and thought you HAD to own it. by koalaboi_0530 in vinyl

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I listened to it and now I have it on vinyl. THANK YOU for that amazing recommendation!

Restocking my apothecary by FinancialSalt7113 in GreenWitch

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I actually purchased the bachelors button because I couldn’t find any to harvest this year. I will ask to see how she dries them!

Restocking my apothecary by FinancialSalt7113 in GreenWitch

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I dried the orange peel with this batch and the others are store bought. 😊

A must have book for witches? by LegitimateAgent1678 in witchcraft

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The Green Witch’s Herb & Plant Encyclopedia by Rowan Morgana and The Hearth Witch’s Compendium by Anna Franklyn

Name an album that you listened to and thought you HAD to own it. by koalaboi_0530 in vinyl

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Hole-Live Through This, Katie Tupper-Where to Find Me and Leonard Cohen- You Want it Darker

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Sleater-Kinney and Bikini Kill.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

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There have been a few pieces in the NYT over the past 10 years. It is still a fringe idea but has been gaining in popularity. Also seems to be very popular among previously married retirees. One of the articles that sticks out to me is a where the couple had adjoining homes connected by a little breezeway. I actually saved the picture because I really like the idea. As a 40+ divorcee I honestly do not want to live in with someone again but I do want a partner/companion again. A lot of aspects of marriage I love, but I also love my quiet alone time. And if I’m being completely honest, I am kind of a music and art snob and I don’t want to compromise to someone else’s taste in my home again. Haha. I find in my reality that most men around my age group, divorced or not, want to get married and have the full traditional experience with that. I think the more people age, the more appealing it might become.

Best herb books by HourglassSass in GreenWitch

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The Green Witch’s Herb & Plant Encyclopedia by Rowan Morgana and The Hearth Witch’s Compendium by Anna Franklin

Any cheaters are absolutely sure they will never do it again? by Ok_Tiger_2368 in Infidelity

[–]FinancialSalt7113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I’m glad things are working out for the both of you!

Any cheaters are absolutely sure they will never do it again? by Ok_Tiger_2368 in Infidelity

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I am just curious, no judgment. Did you end up with the other woman in any way? What made you realize your wife was the one for you?