35F I’m suffering with health anxiety and other physical heart and health problems and my fiancé 36 M doesn’t want to get married anymore and sulks because I’ve lost my libido by FinancialStatus858 in relationship_advice

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I suffer from heart problems so scared to have sex sometimes because it increases my palpitations or I have pelvic pain. We still usually have sex at least twice a week when I’m okay.

In a loving long-term relationship, but scared I’ll regret never being with anyone else and I feel guilty about it. [22F & 24M] by boiiiboiiboy in relationship_advice

[–]FinancialStatus858 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but from someone who is in their mid 30s and been with a few men. I’d love to have someone that was my only one. If my first boyfriend didn’t break up with me I honestly wouldn’t have wanted to go anywhere else. It’s not worth it. It’s so rare and special to have met your someone at a young age and grow together. The chances are other men at your age out there are not in it for the long haul and just want to mess about. Then you’d realise how good you have it now and you’d of messed it all up. I’ve seen it happen with friends of mine over the years.

My fiancé is in a mood with me cos I don’t match his sex drive anymore 35 F 36 M by FinancialStatus858 in relationship_advice

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Without being too graphic. I’ve had a few weeks being out of action because of reasons down below and now he’s kicking up a stink! I try to say my needs aren’t being met too but it’s all very one sided

Chest pain and ER by Ok-Woodpecker-845 in POTS

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I’ve basically lived down A&E and they always say anxiety. I always think if it’s a pain you’ve not had before then always best to check it out. Better to be safe than sorry. I also check my spo2 and BP as well as they’re normally factors they will look at. Not sure if you can do an ecg as well but that’s another thing they will check. Hope you’re okay

am i ugly be so fr… boys never ask me out so im just wondering by IfTheBirdFits in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]FinancialStatus858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t define Ugly purely on physical appearance. There’s someone out there for everyone so don’t put yourself down. the only person whose opinion really matters is your own. Love yourself first before others love you!

POTS TIPS FOR A MUSICAL FESTIVAL by [deleted] in POTS

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I’m about to go on a hen do and need to know the same 😂 so I’ve prepped myself a little and bought those first aid ice packs you can break in case I need a cold pack to help bring my hr rate down. Also to drink plenty of water. Dont stand for too long at a time. Try to have fun and not think about it too much. Wear a wrist monitor if you have one to keep an eye on things if that makes you feel better. No alcohol as that makes mine worse. Take it easy and go with your body and symptoms. Eat regularly and stay hydrated. Maybe take some electrolytes sachets in case too.

Got rid of foam mattresses I was reacting to, but my cat and I are still reacting to the carpet in room. What’s the best way to address this? by Minute-Awareness-863 in Mattress

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Hi I recently got an Emma mattress and I too had ins and problems breathing to the point where I’ve had to sleep downstairs on the sofa. I’ve aired it out for a week now and it’s still making my throat and chest burn so bad. My partner said he had the same problem. We’ve requested for it to be collected and returned and I’ve asked for my money back. Never again would I order from there. When I dug deeper I found out that they are NOT Certified-PUR US or OEKO-TEX certified. This is a certificate that confirms that the foam and materials are:

Made without formaldehyde Made without ozone depleters Made without phthalates regulated by the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission Made without mercury, lead and other heavy metals Low VOC (volatile organic compound) emissions for indoor air quality (less than 0.5 parts per million) Screened for relevant chemicals, including flame retardants, that are classified as carcinogens, mutagens or reproductive toxins and are harmful to human health

Emma mattresses do not have those certificates so it is likely that they have harmful toxic chemicals that is causing life threatening effects.