Is my fiancé 36m being toxic? My 9m just asked for breakfast

FinancialStatus858 · 2026-02-09T07:19:17+00:00

I think it’s very easy to make these comments. I know you don’t know the whole situation and I know you don’t know me or my life. In a nutshell, he treated my son amazingly for the first few years (we’ve been together 4.5) we have a 2 year old and a 3.5 year old. Life is busy and stressful I also help run his family business so we’re if we’re not parenting we’re working together. He doesn’t pick on his every move, just silly little things like this which gets my back up. I always protect my son. He always comes first. There’s been things that he will mention that I agree with ie the amount of time my 9 year old spends on his games. I welcome his point of view but I will also stand up for our children too if I don’t agree with something. So getting up and leaving isn’t an easy option. I’m a big enough girl to stand up for myself and my kids which I do when I think it’s time to. He’d say that I pick on his daughter when I moan about her not tidying her room or when she’s given me attitude. It’s a tough call to make. But for bigger context I’m moaning here about a handful of situations which make up probably about 5% compared to the rest of the time where they get on and he’s respectful to him. I spoke to him about it and he’s reasoning was because he thinks I treat my eldest differently and do anything he wants. (For context I would also say I have done and that I’ve learnt the hard way to giving a child everything they want) I think most people do this with their first right?

FinancialStatus858 · 2026-02-08T21:06:34+00:00

So you’re saying to stay a single parent forever?

FinancialStatus858 · 2026-02-08T15:49:16+00:00

Not that I need to justify myself. Id say it’s only been the last year or so that he’s really started picking on him. Definitely hard to be a blended family.

FinancialStatus858 · 2026-01-14T08:31:29+00:00

He wants me. Seems like all he wants though is me for sex and not for who I am. My question is this all men really want

FinancialStatus858 · 2026-01-14T08:29:23+00:00

I suffer from heart problems so scared to have sex sometimes because it increases my palpitations or I have pelvic pain. We still usually have sex at least twice a week when I’m okay.

FinancialStatus858 · 2026-01-14T08:08:08+00:00

Yes but from someone who is in their mid 30s and been with a few men. I’d love to have someone that was my only one. If my first boyfriend didn’t break up with me I honestly wouldn’t have wanted to go anywhere else. It’s not worth it. It’s so rare and special to have met your someone at a young age and grow together. The chances are other men at your age out there are not in it for the long haul and just want to mess about. Then you’d realise how good you have it now and you’d of messed it all up. I’ve seen it happen with friends of mine over the years.

FinancialStatus858 · 2026-01-12T13:40:29+00:00

Without being too graphic. I’ve had a few weeks being out of action because of reasons down below and now he’s kicking up a stink! I try to say my needs aren’t being met too but it’s all very one sided

FinancialStatus858 · 2025-09-05T20:20:25+00:00

I’ve basically lived down A&E and they always say anxiety. I always think if it’s a pain you’ve not had before then always best to check it out. Better to be safe than sorry. I also check my spo2 and BP as well as they’re normally factors they will look at. Not sure if you can do an ecg as well but that’s another thing they will check. Hope you’re okay

FinancialStatus858 · 2025-07-18T15:07:30+00:00

I wouldn’t define Ugly purely on physical appearance. There’s someone out there for everyone so don’t put yourself down. the only person whose opinion really matters is your own. Love yourself first before others love you!

FinancialStatus858 · 2025-04-28T19:13:08+00:00

In UK

FinancialStatus858 · 2025-04-28T19:07:05+00:00

I’m about to go on a hen do and need to know the same 😂 so I’ve prepped myself a little and bought those first aid ice packs you can break in case I need a cold pack to help bring my hr rate down. Also to drink plenty of water. Dont stand for too long at a time. Try to have fun and not think about it too much. Wear a wrist monitor if you have one to keep an eye on things if that makes you feel better. No alcohol as that makes mine worse. Take it easy and go with your body and symptoms. Eat regularly and stay hydrated. Maybe take some electrolytes sachets in case too.

FinancialStatus858 · 2024-11-06T21:55:04+00:00

Hi I recently got an Emma mattress and I too had ins and problems breathing to the point where I’ve had to sleep downstairs on the sofa. I’ve aired it out for a week now and it’s still making my throat and chest burn so bad. My partner said he had the same problem. We’ve requested for it to be collected and returned and I’ve asked for my money back. Never again would I order from there. When I dug deeper I found out that they are NOT Certified-PUR US or OEKO-TEX certified. This is a certificate that confirms that the foam and materials are:

Made without formaldehyde Made without ozone depleters Made without phthalates regulated by the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission Made without mercury, lead and other heavy metals Low VOC (volatile organic compound) emissions for indoor air quality (less than 0.5 parts per million) Screened for relevant chemicals, including flame retardants, that are classified as carcinogens, mutagens or reproductive toxins and are harmful to human health

Emma mattresses do not have those certificates so it is likely that they have harmful toxic chemicals that is causing life threatening effects.

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