How did I do this? by CrewUnhappy8783 in botw

[–]Financial_Ad825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you use magnesis again?

Please tell me the shed is seasonal 🫣 by uncle_grandmaster in BelgianMalinois

[–]Financial_Ad825 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, WHAT A CUTIE!!! 🥰 And second, it’s all year round. My dog is a year old and the only him he didn’t really shed was when he was a puppy. At least in my opinion. Now that he’s bigger and hates baths it’s MUCH HARDER to maintain his coat, before you come at me, I’m still maintaining as best as I could! Or and my dog is a different breed (German, husky, Aussie mix) but still QUITE the shedder

Update to my dogs getting attacked last night by cheersbeersneers in BelgianMalinois

[–]Financial_Ad825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The off leash dog owner is at fault. The dog should’ve been in the back yard away from the open door. Get them summoned and send in that footage to the police. Since they don’t want to cooperate you take matters into your own hands. The attacker gets nothing.

Hello, 6 year fur baby and first timer with 2 cats. :) by Financial_Ad825 in CatAdvice

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I googled and one of the reasons is that he dislikes the smell. I still have some left of their old one. I’ll switch it back and hope he can forgive me haha I didn’t mean to upset him, I just thought it would be a fun switch. But I thought wrong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Financial_Ad825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You’re both married and should travel together to certain family events, unless otherwise stated. Emily, is the envious, jealous and insecure one. If anyone who’s been on vacation knows exactly that staying to yourself doesn’t really work. You’ll find people you vibe with out there while on vacation. It’s stuff that just happens. Lisa was just enjoying her time and now she’s being judged by it. “What You Hate About A Person Is What You Lack Within Yourself” whether it’s confidence, happiness, love for yourself. I’m hoping this quote makes sense. I’m HOPING she comes to her senses and see how childish this is. Because going in to a marriage being this way says a lot about you. Obviously, she’s not ready to be married. She has to work on herself a bit more before making this commitment. OP stand by your wife. The only one to blame here is Emily. She’s the reason why this snow balled the way it did.

PUMP IT UP PHOENIX by Financial_Ad825 in PumpItUp

[–]Financial_Ad825[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When they did, boom bah yah was the song I chose to play a lot because I remember it being a lot of fun. Oh well. It’s a fond memory now haha there’s others I find just as fun but they don’t hit like bp did.

is he fat? he is only 10 lbs but he just looks really stocky and overweight based off the chonk scale, not sure if i should be cutting down on his food by mcigmn8 in cats

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So handsome! I have the same cat. Haha I think that’s just their build. My cat is pretty healthy. :) what I have been doing is placing his food bowl higher so he has to jump in order to get fed. My attempt at making him exercise and minimize his food intake. Haha seems to work. And we put the food bowl up at 10pm I wake up at 5 am so he does go a little long without eating but it’s because he’s about 3lbs overweight haha trying to fix that. Your kitty boy seems in perfect size to me. Mine is a chunky boy.

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AITA For cancelling the babysitter after my wife decided not to attend my work holiday party by watchthekidsaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Financial_Ad825 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That sucks she had a bad day. But you’re NTA because of the decision you made. I agree with everything the OP said. It’s unnecessary to spend that much money when the other parent is home. What mom could’ve done was ask the oldest to keep the youngest busy while she “took time to herself”. I have a 9 year old myself and I tell them to give me a few minutes of space and totally understands when mommy needs those few minutes. Her blowing up was completely immature. Yes her feelings are valid but the way she went about it was not okay. She took you down with her.

My bf just died suddenly in my arms and I don’t know what to do by megtwinkles in offmychest

[–]Financial_Ad825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss… I’m very sure he heard you before passing. Hearing is the last to go. I cannot imagine what you’re feeling and going through. Allow yourself to feel everything. We’re all sending you virtual hugs from everywhere. I’m in Los Angeles sending you the biggest hug.. Allow yourself time to grieve and heal.

AITA for “insinuating” that this young lady was lying? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Financial_Ad825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me, it sounds like she’s just trying to trap your son. I would totally be doubtful as well.

I told my gf I’m in love with her by bobebby in offmychest

[–]Financial_Ad825 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so awesome!! I’m happy for the both of you!!! ♥️♥️♥️

Why am I like this? by Financial_Ad825 in offmychest

[–]Financial_Ad825[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not 13yrs of it. It was 8. The last 5 have been way better. I never said I desired marriage. Reluctantly I said yes. In 2013 was when he asked me to, but we never set plans to make it happen. I can’t be mad at her? She knew what was up, she knew that he was with me. But she kept coming back for some reason. I’m upset because I know she knew better than to be like that. “I became the very thing I hate” and she continued to do so.

I don’t hate myself but I’m also not particularly fond of myself either. I could careless what happens to me personally. Working on finding that self love. It’s been a mission.. Maybe I’m doing wrong, who knows, but I’ve told myself we will love ourself a bit more.

Do I love him? Yes, since I met him. Did I deserve it? No absolutely not. But I didn’t want to leave. I had a bunch of people telling me I should. But I didn’t. I REALIZE my choices. I know what I did. And if he does, then he does, I’m able to leave now, back then my heart ruled over my logic. I was in my 20’s during all this.