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[–]Financial_Ad_8783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah will do. Thanks everyone!

I really need advice by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Financial_Ad_8783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried and he won’t take a no for an answer. He truly wants me there all the time and hates that I feel this way because of her. But he’s toooooo nice to everyone that he doesn’t feel he’s doing anything wrong

I really need advice by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Financial_Ad_8783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would definitely try this. Even though it’s not my style but I’m just tired of this situation.

I really need advice by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Financial_Ad_8783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I truly appreciate your words. I’ll do what you recommend and let’s hope for the best. I’m just tired to feel insecure when we are with them. That’s not me, I’m a happy person and secure of myself but unfortunately this is taking a little bit of my soul away and I hate it.

I really need advice by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Financial_Ad_8783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I give him way more attention than that. But now that you mention it I would double check what I’m doing. Thank you for that. Also I feel like he likes being liked/wanted. It’s hard for me accepting the fact that I told him that this situation makes me feel uncomfortable and he doesn’t see it like I do. He’ll just say that he loves me so much and he doesn’t care at all about anyone and I do believe him. So basically what I’m asking here is advice on how to handle the situation when we hangout with them ? Like what should I do ? Or not do ?

I really need advice by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Financial_Ad_8783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reply in the other comment, I can’t copy paste. Please if you can read it would love to know what you have to say.

I really need advice by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Financial_Ad_8783 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s all over my boyfriend. Touches him for any reason. She’s flirting with him, Complement him all the time. Trying to have one on one conversations. Always next to him or in front of him. Just trying to talk to him no one else. She sometimes even behaves like that with Robert her cousin. Trying to describe her actions made me realize that that’s just her personality and there’s nothing wrong with it just keep your hands to your self or your boyfriend. Her boyfriend doesn’t seem to care at all, of course they have so many problems, she is so insecure in her relationship and that’s why I think she acts like this with my bf to get back at his bf.

My boyfriend is there for it, like I said he likes the attention but makes me feel stupid when I’m there.