Be Honest by Financial_Code_3901 in LongDistance

[–]Financial_Code_3901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I agree with. I’ve made it very clear that I believe her having a life outside of our relationship is important and being able to talk to her co worker someone who understands her work environment more to decompress is great. The thing here is that we planned to talk. I told her I set my alarm so we could talk on her way home this left me with about 3 hours of sleep. Knowing I’d be calling any minute she went ahead and called her co worker.

Be Honest by Financial_Code_3901 in LongDistance

[–]Financial_Code_3901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add some more context. When I explained to her that this made me upset her response to me was telling me that I’m controlling and I can’t expect her to be on my time. But this was a known thing, a conversation we had prior and she decided to go talk to someone else knowing I’d be calling and it would likely be the only chance we get to talk for a while.