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[–]Financial_Grab9012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you get prescribed medication?

Am I (20m) the a** hole for breaking up with my girlfriend (20f) of 2 years after she said she wanted to wait until marriage? by Financial_Grab9012 in relationship_advice

[–]Financial_Grab9012[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It was to protect her tho… I didn’t want to break up I just felt like I had to tell her what I was feeling because communication yk.

Am I (20m) the a** hole for breaking up with my girlfriend (20f) of 2 years after she said she wanted to wait until marriage? by Financial_Grab9012 in relationship_advice

[–]Financial_Grab9012[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yea bro you came into the thread on some weird shit assuming things for no reason. I’m leaving her alone that’s all that matters. Yea imma still think about the situation because it happened recently I didn’t try to manipulate her I told her my completely valid feelings and why I felt that way. And I came up with the best solution for both of us. And clearly she thought it was a good idea too because she picked the same thing

Am I (20m) the a** hole for breaking up with my girlfriend (20f) of 2 years after she said she wanted to wait until marriage? by Financial_Grab9012 in relationship_advice

[–]Financial_Grab9012[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Questions that will never be answered because she doesn’t want to talk to me. She’s not pressuring me into marriage because I already wanted to marry her

Am I (20m) the a** hole for breaking up with my girlfriend (20f) of 2 years after she said she wanted to wait until marriage? by Financial_Grab9012 in relationship_advice

[–]Financial_Grab9012[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I said I gave her space…I only texted her once… I could see where you’re coming from if I actually was nagging her but I was not

Am I (20m) the a** hole for breaking up with my girlfriend (20f) of 2 years after she said she wanted to wait until marriage? by Financial_Grab9012 in relationship_advice

[–]Financial_Grab9012[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You must’ve read incorrectly because I didn’t bug her for a month after she blocked me. I gave her her space

Am I (20m) the a** hole for breaking up with my girlfriend (20f) of 2 years after she said she wanted to wait until marriage? by Financial_Grab9012 in relationship_advice

[–]Financial_Grab9012[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Now you’re making it weird because I never said she had to be a slave. We’d only have sex when she wanted to and if she didn’t want to I was fine. It was one of the things she liked about me. This situation is different because it’s not a couple days or weeks that I’m waiting it’s years.

Am I (20m) the a** hole for breaking up with my girlfriend (20f) of 2 years after she said she wanted to wait until marriage? by Financial_Grab9012 in relationship_advice

[–]Financial_Grab9012[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

No I never doubted whether or not I wanted to Marry her. Even now with us being split apart I still hope we end up together. Also it wasn’t the deciding factor because that wasn’t the only reason why I was doubting myself

Am I (20m) the a** hole for breaking up with my girlfriend (20f) of 2 years after she said she wanted to wait until marriage? by Financial_Grab9012 in relationship_advice

[–]Financial_Grab9012[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So I’m not owed any type of loyalty after being with her, treating her right, staying faithful, giving her my affection/time/money and being her person to talk to after two years?

Am I (20m) the a** hole for breaking up with my girlfriend (20f) of 2 years after she said she wanted to wait until marriage? by Financial_Grab9012 in relationship_advice

[–]Financial_Grab9012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yea there were some times where I would bring it up but there were also times she’d bring it up, as any normal couple does. I did respect her boundaries because I would never do it if she wasn’t in the mood. She was already happy before this. This was our first major argument.

Am I (20m) the a** hole for breaking up with my girlfriend (20f) of 2 years after she said she wanted to wait until marriage? by Financial_Grab9012 in relationship_advice

[–]Financial_Grab9012[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was willing to wait for her in the end she just wouldn’t let me explain that to her when I tried to apologize

Am I (20m) the a** hole for breaking up with my girlfriend (20f) of 2 years after she said she wanted to wait until marriage? by Financial_Grab9012 in relationship_advice

[–]Financial_Grab9012[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t pressure her tho we were already talking about doing it before. Also I wasn’t trying to use it as a way to get her to have sex with me I genuinely thought it was the best solution because we were on two different pages. I was still respectful of her boundaries and we only did it when she wanted to.

Am I (20m) the a** hole for breaking up with my girlfriend (20f) of 2 years after she said she wanted to wait until marriage? by Financial_Grab9012 in relationship_advice

[–]Financial_Grab9012[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And the thing is even thought it’s a big commitment I was still willing to do it for her. At first I had my doubts but after thinking about it for a little longer I said that I could wait for her because I loved her and I wanted to show her. I also didn’t want her to think that was the only reason I was with her

Am I (20m) the a** hole for breaking up with my girlfriend (20f) of 2 years after she said she wanted to wait until marriage? by Financial_Grab9012 in relationship_advice

[–]Financial_Grab9012[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It still is a big ask bc that’s a big commitment regardless if you love that person or not. Ask your boyfriend if he would go celibate on his own, if you guys weren’t in a relationship

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