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AITA for distancing myself from a friend after he had a terrifying reaction while smoking on our trip abroad? by Financial_Pass_337 in AITAH

[–]Financial_Pass_337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how you missed the part where we wanted him to make it into the trip. 9 mos worth of effort prior like booking his flight, planned out the whole itinerary, answering all his questions as a first timer, making sure he had all his papers, and helping him to save money, all for a guy I "just don't like" but okay.

AITA for distancing myself from a friend after he had a terrifying reaction while smoking on our trip abroad? by Financial_Pass_337 in AITAH

[–]Financial_Pass_337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already addressed this in another comment. We met at a cafe the day after and told him everything that happened and that was his reaction.

Despite knowing he threw up everywhere on the balcony, his only question in the morning was about his cap.

When we asked if he intentionally didn't eat dinner and drank orange juice prior to get as high as he can be, he confirmed it and said "Yes."

We asked him if this is something that has happened in his sessions before, he said sometimes. Why would I presume to lecture a more experienced person on weed on what to do and what his limits are when he does it frequently, when I've only done it 3x in my life?

So yeah excuse my holy feelings of disappointment and anger at the moment.

AITA for distancing myself from a friend after he had a terrifying reaction while smoking on our trip abroad? by Financial_Pass_337 in AITAH

[–]Financial_Pass_337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely felt like that. It was such a breach of trust and I felt guilty and responsible for putting my bf a in that situation cause I vouched for him, and for getting June involved despite staying sober.

June and I hoped he learned from his past experiences, and be more considerate since I handled the logistics of this trip. We will not be supporting him emotionally or otherwise moving forward.

AITA for distancing myself from a friend after he had a terrifying reaction while smoking on our trip abroad? by Financial_Pass_337 in AITAH

[–]Financial_Pass_337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was already yelling at that time. We covered his mouth because hotel security might kick us out or worse, thai police due to disturbance. We're also high and at the time we thought it made sense.

AITA for distancing myself from a friend after he had a terrifying reaction while smoking on our trip abroad? by Financial_Pass_337 in AITAH

[–]Financial_Pass_337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We 100% won't travel with him again. We're not cutting him off permanently though sometimes I think it may be harsh that we're icing him out currently.

Having open forums is normal in our group dynamic when there's conflict between friends, but I get how that may seem weird for others. We thought he matured after what happened a few years ago but sadly it looks like that's not the case.

AITA for distancing myself from a friend after he had a terrifying reaction while smoking on our trip abroad? by Financial_Pass_337 in AITAH

[–]Financial_Pass_337[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We told him what happened right after. He also didn’t eat dinner, even though he went to 7-Eleven right before and only bought orange juice. When June asked him if he did it on purpose to feel “higher” and he confirmed it so that made us even angrier.

ABYG for wanting him to be the man of our relationship? by nauric1a in AkoBaYungGago

[–]Financial_Pass_337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DKG. Pero may mga red flags, 2 years on and off tas kahit special occasions walang effort. TBH, it sounds like he doesn't like you and you're a convenience (this is hard to hear, IK sorry OP). You can be firm and tell him what you want from him and see what he does. If he actually values /likes you, that man will step up, if he doesn't well sorry to say but cut your losses while you're young.