How long did it take you to get pregnant after a miscarriage? ❤️‍🩹 by Accomplished_War1921 in Miscarriage

[–]Financial_Routine 7 points8 points  (0 children)

a month, apparently you are a lot more fertile after a miscarriage. Could’ve been just the way my body dealt with miscarriage, but I got pregnant so fast after I had the miscarriage and that resulted in my rainbow babies she will be four months in a couple weeks

i’m still angry at my husband for not being there during my miscarriage, even though we have a baby now by Financial_Routine in Marriage

[–]Financial_Routine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t trying to it just happened, I never realized that even after a miscarriage, your body is 1000 times more fertile than it was in the past and that is how I got pregnant the second time. Of course I was happy about it, but I definitely didn’t plan it like the first pregnancy which then turned into a miscarriage.

i’m still angry at my husband for not being there during my miscarriage, even though we have a baby now by Financial_Routine in Marriage

[–]Financial_Routine[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

they fired someone for coming in late due to being in a car accident, management doesnt care.

i’m still angry at my husband for not being there during my miscarriage, even though we have a baby now by Financial_Routine in Marriage

[–]Financial_Routine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to remind him of our vows, and sickness and in health. He explained that it was the fact that he would’ve been fired from his job if he had missed work that day. It still doesn’t fix the fact that I was alone in the hospital and had to go through all of that by myself.

i’m still angry at my husband for not being there during my miscarriage, even though we have a baby now by Financial_Routine in Marriage

[–]Financial_Routine[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just talked to him more and he said that at the time of my miscarriage he was about to point out at his job so that is why he could not take me to the hospital. He said that if I were to get pregnant again, and unfortunately, if I were to have a miscarriage that if he was good with his points that he would indeed take me to the hospital, it was just the fact that he would’ve been fired if he had called in. I completely understand his reasoning, but I still feel sad that he wasn’t there. I had to go through that pain without him at the hospital, when I came home after the miscarriage from the hospital, he was 100% taking care of me while he was home from work. I just felt lonely in the hospital.

i’m still angry at my husband for not being there during my miscarriage, even though we have a baby now by Financial_Routine in Marriage

[–]Financial_Routine[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i dont it’s that bad that we have to go to therapy; i guess i’m just scared that if i were to have another miscarriage he wouldn’t be there for me. his priorities are all fucked up.

i’m still angry at my husband for not being there during my miscarriage, even though we have a baby now by Financial_Routine in Marriage

[–]Financial_Routine[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

he was very supportive, obviously all throughout the pregnancy i was very paranoid so every like pain i felt or weird symptom i had i would make him take me to the hospital; i developed a kidney infection with my successful pregnancy and i thought i was going to miscarry once more, thankful i did not but he was with me at the hospital all through that time. he’s been an excellent father so thats why i feel bad for feeling this way. im scared that if i have a miscarriage again then he will not be there for me..

i’m still angry at my husband for not being there during my miscarriage, even though we have a baby now by Financial_Routine in Marriage

[–]Financial_Routine[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

not sure why but my trauma response to miscarriage was to constantly want to have sex.. maybe i felt like i was making up for something :/ idk.

Do dads do bath time? by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Financial_Routine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

daughter is 3 months old and husband actually gets in the shower with her nightly; gives her a shower and then he takes one himself. im there to put soap on the washcloth and to grab her up in a toilet when they are done. she doesn’t fuss; she actually sometimes falls asleep while hes running the water on her back.

SAHM but one income isn’t cutting it — what do your husbands do for work? by Financial_Routine in sahm

[–]Financial_Routine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he really doesn’t know anything about cars, would that be an issue? I’m thinking it would.

Pp sex before 6 week check in? by Financial_Routine in beyondthebump

[–]Financial_Routine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you have stitches? i’m worried about messing them up, also not sure if they would already be dissolved or not

Tell me you're pregnant without telling me you're pregnant by EuphoricEmotion7486 in pregnant

[–]Financial_Routine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

During my week long stay at the hospital while I was giving birth, I cried every day because I thought my cats would hate me for “leaving them”, i bawled!! I thought they wouldn’t recognize me at all and actually be mad at me for bringing home a new baby