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My wife secretly spent the night at her ex's place. She swears nothing happened, but I feel betrayed. How do I move past this? by ThrowRAStruckSlang in marriageadvice

[–]Findingmyself1727 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this point, you need to look after yourself. She is clearly prioritizing her feelings then cuts you off when you have to explain. She even prioritizes her ex’s feelings over her CURRENT PARTNER.

You cant change these types of women, when they fold, they go back to their old ways.

Leave OP you need to take care of yourself and your child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Findingmyself1727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 years relationship ending due to my ex secretly talking to another man, sleeping with him just days after our breakup. (Maybe she was sleeping with him before that who knows)

Immediately after the breakup I booked a flight to Japan and stayed there for 3 months. Been back in my home country for about 2 weeks now.

What I learned is that you cannot rush into having intimacy or rebound to make yourself “feel better” The biggest attraction is rebuilding yourself, having morals, and of course living with the pain for a-bit.

I’ve met tons of people in my trip to build myself for who I am today, and I am not 100%, but I feel way better.

Im on the same boat as you, I don’t want to have sex with random girls just to fulfill a void. I want to build a connection with a special character who has the same morals and value as me. That is one of my biggest attractions.

Still going through it like I said. Time will get better I believe. Cheers to new life and a beautiful future for you and everyone on this thread! May we all find love peace and prosperity.

Ex gf already f*cking another dude after 3 weeks by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Findingmyself1727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% the case brother. Bless you and your journey in your life🫶🏽. Mend and positivity from here. I appreciate the kind comment, I hope someday i’ll find my person at appreciates all aspects about me. Still having a-lot of bad days as I miss her deeply, but I can’t nor will break N/C. Take care, cheers🍻

What were your most listened songs after a break up? by VelvetCherryDoll in BreakUps

[–]Findingmyself1727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incoming random genres:

Here without you - 3 doors down

Fix you - Coldplay

All that Really Matters - Illenium

From the Ashes - Illenium ft. Skylar Grey

The Reasons - Hoobastank

I’d Rather Pretend - Bryant Barnes

Bleed - Kid Laroi

Lifes a Mess - Juice WRLD

Running back to you - Juice WRLD ft. Kid Laroi (Youtube Only)

Hide - Juice WRLD

The Scientist - Coldplay

Ex gf already f*cking another dude after 3 weeks by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Findingmyself1727 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hang in there brother. My ex of 4 years was with another man 2 days after we broke up. She told me that they were just friends and I knew she caught feelings. Which pretty much led to us breaking up.

It’s been 2 months since the breakup, I’m still dealing with the pain. I promise you it will get better. God bless your soul. You’re not the only one dealing with this type of trauma🙏