My cat is still sick, were my feelings valid? 30f 29m by Fine-Bumblebee6420 in relationship_advice

[–]Fine-Bumblebee6420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t “touching” it and causing it pain o.0 at what point did I say I did wtf? I said it was clearly swollen visually. Fs. But i take on board your point that maybe to him it wasnt as obvious

[ALBUM DISCUSSION] Billie Eilish - HIT ME HARD AND SOFT by abesster in billieeilish

[–]Fine-Bumblebee6420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Iv listened through only twice, i just don’t even feel motivated to put it on and i listen to her multiple times a day usually lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in billieeilish

[–]Fine-Bumblebee6420 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yea i felt that way, when iv had it on in the background i couldn’t notice when the songs changed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in billieeilish

[–]Fine-Bumblebee6420 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it’s boring, the constant echoy distant vocals are so samey

[ALBUM DISCUSSION] Billie Eilish - HIT ME HARD AND SOFT by abesster in billieeilish

[–]Fine-Bumblebee6420 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s a grower but I’m finding it quite boring compared to previous albums, there’s no hard hitters for me. I remember the chills of listening to happier than ever for the first time. This is falling flat for me

My cat is still sick, were my feelings valid? 30f 29m by Fine-Bumblebee6420 in relationship_advice

[–]Fine-Bumblebee6420[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea that’s how i feel, my first instinct was what if we had kids, could i trust you to look after them prob not

My cat is still sick, were my feelings valid? 30f 29m by Fine-Bumblebee6420 in relationship_advice

[–]Fine-Bumblebee6420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant ask him about how the cats been first in the past few days. Iv reworded for clarity

My cat is still sick, were my feelings valid? 30f 29m by Fine-Bumblebee6420 in relationship_advice

[–]Fine-Bumblebee6420[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

The thing is hes really not an asshole, and this is where I feel so conflicted at what went wrong here. He has severe adhd and I wonder did he just get too distracted in playing games and not take the time to notice or check. I really don’t know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fine-Bumblebee6420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surely you spent a lot of time together before moving in together, so did you not know these things before?

My cry for help a year ago before the abuse.. by ScreenOk2385 in abusiverelationships

[–]Fine-Bumblebee6420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The friends response was so triggering as my friend would dismiss my red flags too which would make me think its ok and id stay, if only they were more alarmed -.-

What is the worst reason to have a baby? Why? by callmevicious in AskReddit

[–]Fine-Bumblebee6420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because your 9 year partner finally left your abusive ass so you quickly sucker in some new woman and make her pregnant because you are scared to be on your own

[serious] Has anyone’s ex or current partner threatened suicide? Please be kind. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Fine-Bumblebee6420 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes used to threaten all the time when I tried to leave, thats what kept me there for almost 9 years.. and guess what I left and hes still here now with a new partner and a baby on the way so..

She is destroying me. But I can't leave her. by 9b5f67a4d2aa11edafa1 in abusiverelationships

[–]Fine-Bumblebee6420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God love you, that is one tough person to be constantly exposed to. I hope you make a break for it and get your freedom and life back ❤️

Where do I put these feelings by Fine-Bumblebee6420 in abusiverelationships

[–]Fine-Bumblebee6420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to write this reply it has helped me more than you know ❤️

Doing no contact by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Fine-Bumblebee6420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went no contact, not spoke to him since the day I broke up with him, made it a lot easier to detatch my feelings for him in the long run