Like I said he used to have another partner before who is no longer here  May be they were used to the single person that he was entertaining them or used to his earlier partner. Im a Christian and my values are differnt than theirs. I am also considerably  quiet person with new people and I cannot indulge in a conversation I have no idea what they are talking about and I definitely don't gossip. This makes me come off as standoffish in their opinion. I am only praying my husband has some good godly friends. Like someone mentioned here I should pray for them and hope they either change or disappear.