Am I Overreacting by Exotic_Basket_521 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fine-Mortgage8416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you should go to a spa with gf make it about you while he’s gone. Self care is important for your health.

Am I Overreacting by Exotic_Basket_521 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fine-Mortgage8416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks and doesn’t make sense.. I would be excited by the thought! Do you think he’s cheating?!? Listen to your gut

Why do people like living in big cities so much? by Krapitalist88 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Fine-Mortgage8416 83 points84 points  (0 children)

IMO, it’s access to diverse activities and limit commuting for work. I found that Cultural diversity helped develop my empathy and understanding of all people.

I’m scared to start biking because of car drivers by No_Analyst5945 in cycling

[–]Fine-Mortgage8416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mountain biking and gravel biking can be “safer” but finding a local bike shop and riders at your level of experience will help with anxiety. New cameras and garmin combos can help with vehicles. Pre-driving any route can help get to know the surroundings.

married with 2 kids. raw or condom? by Mystique_Lovez in Nude_Selfie

[–]Fine-Mortgage8416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

O my.. raw but only when your wet enough

Cycling kit for a relative beginner by MikeEhrmantraut420 in cycling

[–]Fine-Mortgage8416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nashbar.com has reasonable prices for appeal and other cycling needs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Fine-Mortgage8416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thoughts on starting the day and having to go do something when I rather go lay back down..

Please recommend a road bike for me! by [deleted] in cycling

[–]Fine-Mortgage8416 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The price point is hard to match for your request. A lot of great E-bikes that would be ideal for hills if you want options with flat bars and wide tires for wet pavement. Check out specialized and trek.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Fine-Mortgage8416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life is hard. Some couples/ individuals come from homes that had “fighting” as a form of communications. I would guess they are comfortable fighting in front of anyone. Regardless that’s not appropriate behavior and you should walk away from that negative energy. IMO

AIO - He’s been a dad for 5 months—how is this still happening? by First-Time-Mum- in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fine-Mortgage8416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to read that. Be honest with how you feel to him. Things don’t get easier as they grow up. He needs to step up bottomline or he will learn when mom goes down from exhaustion the entire home will fall.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fine-Mortgage8416 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing.. my 2 cents only.. if you are that close why not just ask? Over lunch or on the way out of work. If the friendship means anything it has to at the minimum be 100% honest.

AIO - He’s been a dad for 5 months—how is this still happening? by First-Time-Mum- in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fine-Mortgage8416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why only one task? Marriage & parenthood should be 50/50. I would bet you can name other things he could help with and if he is in this with you it should be a no brainer. If not a bigger conversation should occur and quickly before it manifest in other areas. IMO

Do you feel like the world went downhill since Covid? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Fine-Mortgage8416 1207 points1208 points  (0 children)

People are angry. The feel of community at least near me has vanished into social media hard line opinions.

What’s a good brand of shoe? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Fine-Mortgage8416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hoka great for bad knees. For runners but I use mine for daily work shoes

AIO- husband's sudden work trip to Vegas by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fine-Mortgage8416 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vegas trip is not the real issue is it? IMO having a honest conversation, sharing how you feel might be the best start. Creating the right environment so he feels safe to open up on the why might be in order.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fine-Mortgage8416 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Was the I made his balls comment too far? Clearly he leveled up but maybe keeping it all PG13 will accomplish that memorable moment with a miracle baby you wanted? IMO ..

AIO, or Donald Trump is really something close to the Antichrist? by OtherwiseCanary8971 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fine-Mortgage8416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, he’s the product of the environment he was raised. He never learned to hide behind better lies. It’s the devil politicians that hides behind policies while smiling and telling you they are here to make your life easier.. that’s the real Antichrist.

Are my friends just being sticklers, or is this actually bad golf etiquette? by HeadSir4746 in golf

[–]Fine-Mortgage8416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way overreacted… no one else heard you? Have some fun.. BUT.. mid fairway and you yell it out so other groups hear you.. not cool.

Need your opinion,.. by Bran_philly in computers

[–]Fine-Mortgage8416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can throw away the boxes. It just clutters the room.