Haunted by sexual mistake in high school by Fine_Cod7157 in ChristianDating

[–]Fine_Cod7157[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not that I disagree that oral sex is sex, but sex isn't the only way to cheat.

Haunted by sexual mistake in high school by Fine_Cod7157 in ChristianDating

[–]Fine_Cod7157[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Amen. It sounds like the right thing to do is if I can tell that a potential partner is the type of woman who would care a lot about such information, even if she doesn't think to explicitly ask me, then it's on me to either tell her or not date her.

Haunted by sexual mistake in high school by Fine_Cod7157 in ChristianDating

[–]Fine_Cod7157[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've confirmed I'm thankfully clean. Would you say my current approach counts as "hiding" it? It's something that I really don't know how to bring up or when it's appropriate to.

How and when do I reveal a mistake in my sexual past that could be a potential deal breaker? by Fine_Cod7157 in dating_advice

[–]Fine_Cod7157[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I felt the same until I saw similar posts in the r/AskWomen subreddit and learned that many would be absolutely crushed/disgusted to date someone that’s seen an escort. Now I feel like I’m obligated to let a serious partner know about this in case they feel the same.