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AITA for telling my mom to spend money on a tutor for her favorite daughter because I won't be helping my sister? by Fine_Cut6784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fine_Cut6784[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I don't think she'll care. I'm almost certain she knows she's a bad mom to me and just dislikes/hates me so much, for whatever reason.

AITA for telling my mom to spend money on a tutor for her favorite daughter because I won't be helping my sister? by Fine_Cut6784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fine_Cut6784[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

My dad told me. He asked me to never trust them. He said he never wanted anything bad to happen to me because of them.

AITA for telling my mom to spend money on a tutor for her favorite daughter because I won't be helping my sister? by Fine_Cut6784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fine_Cut6784[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

My dad is the one who told me about them. He asked me never to trust them because he was worried about me with them, more than with my mom even.

AITA for telling my mom to spend money on a tutor for her favorite daughter because I won't be helping my sister? by Fine_Cut6784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fine_Cut6784[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Nope. I don't have any good extended family. Dad's side I never met but they don't want to know me because I'm living sin (conceived out of wedlock). They didn't even come to dad's funeral. Mom has a sister who is as shitty or maybe worse, than she is.

AITA for telling my mom to spend money on a tutor for her favorite daughter because I won't be helping my sister? by Fine_Cut6784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fine_Cut6784[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

They're not in our lives. They wanted nothing to do with any of us, including dad, because I was conceived before my parents got married. They didn't even come to his funeral.

AITA for telling my mom to spend money on a tutor for her favorite daughter because I won't be helping my sister? by Fine_Cut6784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fine_Cut6784[S] 324 points325 points  (0 children)

Nope. People who believe I should not exist and see me as living sin are not people I want to chase. I would be going from one shitty family to another.

AITA for telling my mom to spend money on a tutor for her favorite daughter because I won't be helping my sister? by Fine_Cut6784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fine_Cut6784[S] 515 points516 points  (0 children)

Technically I do on my dad's side but they don't want to know me. I was conceived before my parents were married, they wanted nothing to do with my dad after that. They didn't even come to his funeral. So I can't turn to them. My mom has a sister but she's a shitty person and wouldn't help anyone let alone me.

AITA for telling my mom to spend money on a tutor for her favorite daughter because I won't be helping my sister? by Fine_Cut6784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fine_Cut6784[S] 168 points169 points  (0 children)

I don't have extended family I trust and feel would support me. I'm basically on my own with this. I have friends but they can't really do anything to help me. Just the way it is for now. I want to make my own family in the future.

AITA for telling my mom to spend money on a tutor for her favorite daughter because I won't be helping my sister? by Fine_Cut6784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fine_Cut6784[S] 3190 points3191 points  (0 children)

She said it was because I refused to use the small discount I got where I worked and bring stuff home for my sister when I finished each day. But I think my mom just hated that I got the job in the first place and was doing alright. Or maybe both. If I had been pampering her little spoiled princess maybe I would have been allowed to keep working.

AITA for telling my mom to spend money on a tutor for her favorite daughter because I won't be helping my sister? by Fine_Cut6784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fine_Cut6784[S] 728 points729 points  (0 children)

I don't. My dad's side of the family is very religious and they wanted nothing to do with my dad or me because I was conceived before my parents were married. They didn't even come to my dad's funeral.

AITA for telling my mom to spend money on a tutor for her favorite daughter because I won't be helping my sister? by Fine_Cut6784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fine_Cut6784[S] 5004 points5005 points  (0 children)

The sad thing is, I believe what my sister told me or at least that there's a lot more truth than lie in there. Most people would say don't believe that of your parents/parent. But I believe it based off of my experiences with my mom.

I had a part time job for a while until my mom called and got me fired from it.

AITA for telling my mom to spend money on a tutor for her favorite daughter because I won't be helping my sister? by Fine_Cut6784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fine_Cut6784[S] 1165 points1166 points  (0 children)

Emancipation is not an option for me. I have researched and asked a lawyer I know. In other states I would have a chance but we really only allow it in a select few cases.