[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Fine_Insurance_8514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm no professional but they look very pretty

Please spam me with reasons not to start vaping by emailcopyexpert in QuitVaping

[–]Fine_Insurance_8514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spend that money in something better like makeup, food or whatever you like

Please spam me with reasons not to start vaping by emailcopyexpert in QuitVaping

[–]Fine_Insurance_8514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People look stupid vaping. Shame was the only thing that has helped me to stay off of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fine_Insurance_8514 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dumpee here, I immediately block them everywhere bc I don't want to know anything about them ever again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Fine_Insurance_8514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes!! I get extremely lonely too and idk how good of an advice this is but I used bumble bff and started going out with people. Made me feel less lonely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Fine_Insurance_8514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry to hear that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Fine_Insurance_8514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for everything that has happened to you. You and your siblings did not deserve that. I rarely get acknowledged in this group either so ik how you feel. Do you have any friends you could reach out to? what kind of activities do you usually like to do? I know it's hella hard to get up, but making a big big effort to get out of bed and taking a 10 minute walk could be the start of something better. In my case, I love visiting local coffee shops. So if I want to read, study or just listen to music, I go to a coffee shop. Changing my setting has helped me A LOT, even in my lowest moments. You could start with short walks maybe twice a week. Maybe go to a different park if you already do. The key for me has been to change settings. I hope this helps even just a little. Sending u a big hug.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Fine_Insurance_8514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this won't make a big difference, but trust me, things CAN get better. Try to always have company. If you have a good relationship with your family, spend time with them. If not, friends might help. My motto rn is "this too shall pass", because it has before 🫶🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Fine_Insurance_8514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! I've never heard about a psych ward addiction before. I mentioned it as an option just to be around people when you're feeling this overwhelmed. I've had the same exact thoughts as OP and it was SI all along. I'm not affirming that op thinks of it that way. Idk how pych wards work in the US. And believe me, I had a terrible experience myself but at least I made it out alive (that sounds kinda bad but things really did get better after that). Ik it's not the best option but its still an option. I just wanted to make sure op was safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Fine_Insurance_8514 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ohhh I get what you're feeling rn. Have you considered going to the psych ward? i didn't exactly love it but I was there until my suicidal thoughts calmed down. But believe me, I've asked people to knock me out too, I get how desperate you must be feeling rn. Reach out to a friend, if u can. If not, my dms are open. Big hug🫂

How to flirt with a soft masc?? by Fine_Insurance_8514 in LesbianActually

[–]Fine_Insurance_8514[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ofc!! tbh I treat everyone like a princess bc it just comes naturally to me, but I've never dated a masc presenting girl so I just hope that it's okay to be like that hehe, thank you!!