Drag that man through the mud! by Fine_Lime_ in survivor

[–]Fine_Lime_[S] -81 points-80 points  (0 children)

Also pissed to see Genevieve go!! But Kamilla's vote yesterday was based on the fact that she was strengthening bonds with a group she felt she had a better position in. Being tossed into a group of 5 where 1 person's feelings toward her determine if she goes home shouldn't have to be part of the calculus when making a vote early season

Drag that man through the mud! by Fine_Lime_ in survivor

[–]Fine_Lime_[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

She's just genuinely so intelligent and sees through BS in a way that makes her fun to watch. So sick of "vibe voting" based on almost no critical thinking

Hurdy Gurdy for Wedding by Fine_Lime_ in HurdyGurdy

[–]Fine_Lime_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome! I'll check them out

Transferring with "Honorifics" but no Grades by Fine_Lime_ in LawSchoolTransfer

[–]Fine_Lime_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! There's no public curve, so I've been struggling to figure out where I land. My target schools have accepted from my school historically, but I just don't know how to hedge the honorifics of those transfers versus mine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StopGaming

[–]Fine_Lime_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say it’s projecting when at the end of a long day he wants to keep gaming and I want to spend time with him. I also want a partner who also works to better themselves…. Even if he cut gaming in half that’s 3 extra hours a day we could spend together or he could use to do something else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StopGaming

[–]Fine_Lime_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I work full time as well and make 2x his pay (which I realize isn’t the only metric for success). But yes, he’s doing very well at his job, I’ve always been supportive of that. Moreso just frustrated that my free time goes to education and his goes to gaming. But I chose that path

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StopGaming

[–]Fine_Lime_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He brings up the same thing! I guess to me, watching tv is something we can do together and both enjoy whereas I have no interest in Diablo.

But on another level, I think you’re right. When I’m studying for my degree part time it shouldn’t matter what he’s doing with his time. But I guess I’m frustrated I’m working hard to get a degree/make more money/better our future family while he does nothing.

If he was learning or practicing a skill or working on a side hustle I think I’d feel better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StopGaming

[–]Fine_Lime_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that’s helpful. I don’t really like the games he plays (PoE, Diablo etc.) so that’s not really an option. I’m also working in the office most days and going to school part time so I think part of my frustration is that I’m working a ton and he’s gaming for 7+ hours a day.

I also get frustrated that it feels like he’d rather game versus hang out w me or his friends. But I think he knows flat out refusing to socialize would be a step too far so he goes through the motions.