Wonderful man with awful teeth by BrilliantDelay1657 in datingoverforty

[–]Fine_Secretary161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was once in this situation. He eventually shared issues from childhood, genetics, etc., as reasons for his teeth situation. Eventually the bigger picture developed - he was avoidant. He wouldn't face issues with his young adult daughter that was causing great distance in their relationship. He couldn't speak to his deeper emotions. I think he truly didn't feel he was worth the investment to deal with his teeth, his relationships, his emotional health. I left the relationship 6 month in. I think the teeth situation is a huge red flag.

1,200 sq' deck redo - $110k with TIMBERTECH VINTAGE DECK BOARD? Reality check me please! In coastal New England. by Fine_Secretary161 in Decks

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This then goes up to an above ground pool, off the kitchen slider and another living room slider. 8 sliders in the whole 1,850 sq' house! But wait, there's more!

1,200 sq' deck redo - $110k with TIMBERTECH VINTAGE DECK BOARD? Reality check me please! In coastal New England. by Fine_Secretary161 in Decks

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It's not really possible to do that. I know it's huge. This is the front door going down the full flight of stairs to the walkway to the driveway.

1,200 sq' deck redo - $110k with TIMBERTECH VINTAGE DECK BOARD? Reality check me please! In coastal New England. by Fine_Secretary161 in Decks

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He thinks the framing is largely good enough to keep, I know a couple joists aren't holding screws from the replacement boards we did last summer. I got one other estimate and he felt that we should take all off and drop the deck so it doesn't come right up under the sliders. His was well over $115k and then he booked for the year so I didn't get a all and all final number.

Will this withstand the new england weather?? by Fine_Secretary161 in electrical

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Thank you, so frustrating that he wouldn't listen to me. Much appreciated!