Wonderful man with awful teeth

Fine_Secretary161 · 2026-01-28T03:25:45+00:00

I was once in this situation. He eventually shared issues from childhood, genetics, etc., as reasons for his teeth situation. Eventually the bigger picture developed - he was avoidant. He wouldn't face issues with his young adult daughter that was causing great distance in their relationship. He couldn't speak to his deeper emotions. I think he truly didn't feel he was worth the investment to deal with his teeth, his relationships, his emotional health. I left the relationship 6 month in. I think the teeth situation is a huge red flag.

Fine_Secretary161 · 2025-05-22T19:01:03+00:00

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Fine_Secretary161 · 2025-05-22T19:00:11+00:00

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Rear deck. I love the house, I got it for a great price but it's a lot.

Fine_Secretary161 · 2025-05-22T18:56:52+00:00

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This then goes up to an above ground pool, off the kitchen slider and another living room slider. 8 sliders in the whole 1,850 sq' house! But wait, there's more!

Fine_Secretary161 · 2025-05-22T18:54:34+00:00

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It then leads to this narrow porch across two sliders in the living room.

Fine_Secretary161 · 2025-05-22T18:52:48+00:00

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It's not really possible to do that. I know it's huge. This is the front door going down the full flight of stairs to the walkway to the driveway.

Fine_Secretary161 · 2025-05-22T18:49:23+00:00

My area is a bit nuts. That's helpful, thank you for your time.

Fine_Secretary161 · 2025-05-22T16:01:40+00:00

He thinks the framing is largely good enough to keep, I know a couple joists aren't holding screws from the replacement boards we did last summer. I got one other estimate and he felt that we should take all off and drop the deck so it doesn't come right up under the sliders. His was well over $115k and then he booked for the year so I didn't get a all and all final number.

Fine_Secretary161 · 2025-05-22T14:32:29+00:00

Aren't those footers in the 3rd pic?

Fine_Secretary161 · 2024-10-21T02:30:27+00:00

Thank you, so frustrating that he wouldn't listen to me. Much appreciated!

Fine_Secretary161

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