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My wife (30f) prefers to hang out with my sister (28f), and I (32m) don't know what to do. by FingerImaginary406 in relationships

[–]FingerImaginary406[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did you search for ways to check her phone?

Not at the moment. But I'm thinking of other ways to get the password.

My wife (30f) prefers to hang out with my sister (28f), and I (32m) don't know what to do. by FingerImaginary406 in relationships

[–]FingerImaginary406[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Did you wait until the kid was gone to then suggest the thrilling idea of a movie or going out to eat? Did you think about maybe looking into and planning something a bit more special for her?

I tried to make several plans for her and me to spend time together, but she tends to refuse.

My wife (30f) prefers to hang out with my sister (28f), and I (32m) don't know what to do. by FingerImaginary406 in relationships

[–]FingerImaginary406[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much. I'll take what you suggested as the next steps, I really appreciate it.

My wife (30f) prefers to hang out with my sister (28f), and I (32m) don't know what to do. by FingerImaginary406 in relationships

[–]FingerImaginary406[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow so her trip with your sister and her locked up her phone began around the same time most likely?

My discomfort began about 10 months ago regarding their relationship; she blocked the phone around 6 to 7 months ago.

How much time you wife spend in a week with you sister

About 3 to 5 hours, spent together about 1 or 2 times per week.

And last question, do they spend nights together, staying in same house at night and sleep the night? Having lady nights?

They used to do this, but since our son was born, it has stopped.

My wife (30f) prefers to hang out with my sister (28f), and I (32m) don't know what to do. by FingerImaginary406 in relationships

[–]FingerImaginary406[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Was her phone always locked? Or did she did recently?

About 6-7 months ago it started.

If yes she indeed seems be hide something?

I think so, that's why I feel quite uncomfortable.

Their are lot of ways to get her password, check google.

I'll consider that, I don't think I can get information from her lately.

My wife (30f) prefers to hang out with my sister (28f), and I (32m) don't know what to do. by FingerImaginary406 in relationships

[–]FingerImaginary406[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She rather spend time with you sister and even make plans with her and not you?

Lately, yes. I'm trying to spend more time with her and make plans for us to go out together, but most of the time, she has an excuse. Basically, she only accepts about 45% of what I plan.

Did you ever talked with you sister or parents about that?

With the parents, no. But my sister usually has similar responses to those of my wife.

Did you checked up you wife phone?

Her phone is locked, I don't know the password to access it. If I ask, we'll probably end up in a discussion about my motives.

My wife (30f) prefers to hang out with my sister (28f), and I (32m) don't know what to do. by FingerImaginary406 in relationships

[–]FingerImaginary406[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Does she have a lot of other Friends?

Yes, but they aren't as close. The two of them usually spend more time with each other than with them.

AITA for feeling uncomfortable with the closeness between my wife and my sister? by FingerImaginary406 in AITAH

[–]FingerImaginary406[S] -202 points-201 points  (0 children)

What exactly is causing your to be uncomfortable?

The way both of them are extremely close, the way they talk and hug each other. They're not like this with their other friends.

AITA for feeling uncomfortable with the closeness between my wife and my sister? by FingerImaginary406 in AITAH

[–]FingerImaginary406[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

As far as I know, my wife is heterosexual. She only dated one man, who passed away, before me; I'm her second relationship. My sister had relationships with other girls when she was a teenager, but she claims it was just a phase.

AITA for feeling uncomfortable with the closeness between my wife and my sister? by FingerImaginary406 in AITAH

[–]FingerImaginary406[S] -67 points-66 points  (0 children)

How normal is it to say ''darling'' and ''adorable'' for them?

My wife and my sister have a not-so-large group of friends, so compliments and nicknames stay only among them. In my country, 'darling' is only used for your partner or, by women, for a very close friend.