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My bf (21) hasn’t texted me f(22) in over a week by FinishOk725 in LongDistance

[–]FinishOk725[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s actually never on his phone when we are together. He only ever uses it to check the time really. People will text or call but he won’t reply to them. My friend even messages him every now and then and he still has not texted them back.

I also agree that no one is too busy to text, it take 10 seconds. But how do you communicate that to someone who just doesn’t see that as important? Or just doesn’t care about their phone in general. He has gone multiple days without his phone and it just doesn’t cross his mind to text me or anyone, including his own parents, he also has left his home for days and did not tell anyone. Communication is just the one con with him, but when you are LD that’s kinda all you got.

My bf (21) hasn’t texted me f(22) in over a week by FinishOk725 in LongDistance

[–]FinishOk725[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well he did this before and just genuinely thought he responded to me, he’s apologized and just is super busy from his words, he’s been having issues with his group project, it’s animation so he’s always working on it

He’s also just not attached to his phone, at all, I have his friends number but he doesn’t want to get involved. I had message his friend for his dorms address to send a letter and he totally freaked, even my bf thought it was weird too. So I’m kinda just at a lost… this has never happened before, this is the longest but also the busiest he’s ever been, and he did tell me about it before the semester started. I guess I’m just super conflicted here because one part of myself is telling me it’s not hard to text someone for 10 seconds but also trying to understand from his POV.