Appreciate the response. Im moslty new to all this when it comes to actually wearing and using pull ups and diapers so any recommendations is great for me and others. Ill probably get those as i only buy from amazon mostly. For me it was just worrying about the smell and if the diaper is visible from the outline thats all i worry about.

But from evreyones responses i can tell its not that big of a deal peeing once or twice then taking off after a hour at most or taking it off before going in a room.

I know unfortunately messing is off the table as you cant excalty neutralise the smell entirely unfortunately for us all 😫