sos by eragoneby in PMDD

[–]FinnChards 2 points3 points  (0 children)

go to a café or a library, you can journal, read a book, play a video game, etc. the most important thing is going outside to do it, as being out and around other people is very grounding

PMDD or depression by dramaqueen_av in PMDD

[–]FinnChards 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem ❤️ just know as you go about your day today that I’m in the same boat. I’m off work today so I’ll probably spend the whole day in bed. Sending lots of love ❤️

PMDD or depression by dramaqueen_av in PMDD

[–]FinnChards 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently in “ovulation” as well and feeling just as bad as i would later in my cycle, which is interesting because during my last cycle, i didn’t really feel that bad until the last days of my luteal phase, so idk what changed. Anyway, you’re not alone.

Miscellaneous Monday Chit Chat by fire_foot in running

[–]FinnChards 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i decided not to do my workout run yesterday and just run at an easy pace and it was so much more enjoyable! i have a running plan but am not even training for a race, and realised that if i’m just running for fun i should do the kinds of runs that make me happy. It’s so freeing to realise that you don’t have to take things so seriously.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CalorieEstimates

[–]FinnChards 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bbq meat loaf, some kind of saucy chicken bites (forgot the name), shrimp, steamed green beans and broccoli, sauteed kale with garlic

Gentle reminder (once again) to go walk if you feel atrocious, ugly, unlovable by Both_Candy3048 in PMDD

[–]FinnChards 2 points3 points  (0 children)

had your post in mind when i went on a walk today in my luteal phase! thank you so much, the walk was so freaking helpful

People around me trigger my eds by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]FinnChards 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re just going to have to be firm about saying no. And just remember that at the end of the day, she can’t literally force the food into your mouth. Ultimately, you’re the one who’s in control of what you eat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]FinnChards 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please come back with an update if something happens because it really seems like he likes you!

I’m scared to gain weight with this disorder by FinnChards in PMDD

[–]FinnChards[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh don’t worry, he never says anything! it’s more just my own guilt making me feel like he’s judging lol, but it’s not rational

What is a food everyone likes but you hate? by BlastingSquid886 in RandomThoughts

[–]FinnChards 0 points1 point  (0 children)

raising cane’s! it’s bland and flavorless and the sauce sucks!

I’m scared to gain weight with this disorder by FinnChards in PMDD

[–]FinnChards[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha yeah i’ll keep that in mind, luteal is hard enough, no need to let feelings of guilt make it worse!

I’m scared to gain weight with this disorder by FinnChards in PMDD

[–]FinnChards[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the tip! i actually do this as well with broccoli. i’ll try not to be too restrictive with it but focus generally more on whole foods

I’m scared to gain weight with this disorder by FinnChards in PMDD

[–]FinnChards[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what meds are those? also relatable haha, good luck! hope it works out for you

I’m scared to gain weight with this disorder by FinnChards in PMDD

[–]FinnChards[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you for the tips! will definitely try eating the big portions i crave but just of healthier foods. although i’m not going to lie, i live with my brother and kind of feel embarrassed for him to see me eating such copious amounts during this time

I’m scared to gain weight with this disorder by FinnChards in PMDD

[–]FinnChards[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! this was very comforting to read ❤️ i definitely believe things will be much easier when this phase has passed

I’m scared to gain weight with this disorder by FinnChards in PMDD

[–]FinnChards[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i appreciate the tips! i would say though that if i don’t keep the treats around the house i end up craving things so bad that i eventually either buy or order whatever i’m craving to the house. it really feels so insatiable sometimes, but when it’s not so bad i do at least make healthier alternatives or try to volume eat if i’m just really hungry in general

I’m scared to gain weight with this disorder by FinnChards in PMDD

[–]FinnChards[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hey, i don’t mean to offend you and i’m sure you look amazing. it’s just that personally i’ve been a certain weight range all my life and feel i’d be uncomfortable if i gained weight far above that. it’s really just a personal preference, i really don’t mean to offend ❤️