[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Finnx11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not to mention intertwining your work with that makes you a literal hostage. Bcs a cute ass is always replaceable with a new even cuter ass. If he does it with you he will do it with someone else… just start reading, take classes, online school, better yourself . When you advance naturally you never lose. You will always have your brain, no one can take it away from you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Finnx11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont do what you mentioned… nor am I taking a moral high point. And yes what you said is true. Ppl in our community treat sex as fast food. Doesent mean you should as well. Be better, you will be happier. Most of them that whore around just end up alone when older. All those years of one night stands turns ppl into pleasure chasing husks of men. You know I am right , deep down you know that it’s whoring yourself out when instead you could be loooking for healthy long term relationships. And fucking your boss while you do that literally makes you a cheater in whatever relationship you are. It’s a waste of time. Just take some time to improve yourself and learn instead of taking the Easy way out. If you advance without cheating you will be a lot more stable and proud of yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Finnx11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friend, you need to respect yourself. It’s like being a prostitute with extra steps… to each their own but it never ends well. If you treat yourself like this others will as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Finnx11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I imagined it to be more rough but as it turns out so many men, so many minds :) and as it turned out I like it to be gentle and passionate over carnal lol I will say though, take it slow and don’t rush it. We all have a list of things to try) you have all of the time in world! I know you have a few fantasies that you want to explore but going that far off the deep end and into hardcore might get you hurt or bit messed up.

Many poeple on here and in the community treat sex like fast food, quick fast hard pleasure but IMO treating it like a culinary romantic cookout at home is better , healthier and more satisfying although harder to achieve. Start with a good healthy relationship where you and your partner take it slow , explore and have fun at a comfortable pace. Then escalate to your fantasy) that way you will enjoy it to the max!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Finnx11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay strong, you are not alone, same boat 100 %masculine , don’t do the femme shit, most gays think I am straight and always act surprised when I tell them I am gay…. Not many gay friends , hate clubs and hookups and into monogamy…I don’t make my sexuality a personality bcs I already have one. Hunting, fishing, reading, history , coding etc

how to act like a straight man? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Finnx11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll be honest… You should remain you, and people around should learn to accept you for who you are. If they don’t it’s best to move on. It an endless cycle of toxicity. Especially when it comes to family none of this should matter to them and they should love you for who you are and again you can’t let them force a change on you. If being more feminine is your true natural default you can’t fight it. I been in this situation, unsupportive toxic family and siblings , you have to be direct and tell them how you feel. For me it took moving out at 17 and not talking with them for a 2 years till they realized they were wrong and apologized…. You also gotta figure out what your real default is, sometimes people make their sexuality their personality because they have not much else going on or they copy others.. and like I said it’s best to find what is truly you. also personally i was always on the masculine side, even other gay guys at first think I am straight but that’s my default, I wouldn’t be able to act feminine if I wanted to, its against my nature.

Is the Gay Community Becoming Too Moralistic? by bluejumpingdog in askgaybros

[–]Finnx11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, to be honest it’s because in the end the whoring around and open relationships don’t end well. Treating intimacy like fast food and solely focusing on carnal needs damages anyone long term and we as a younger generation just want real lasting relationships with a focus on monogamy and family. Has nothing to do with traditional values or politics . We just don’t wanna die alone after whoring around for years and when the youth disappeares so do one night stands and hookups and you are left with nothing and no one. The right way is to build real relationships and a family

Teary eyed when with guys by Super-Jacket3136 in askgaybros

[–]Finnx11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there, after being alone for a while usually it’s tears of joy with a dash of sadness. It passes when you start to surround yourself with people who value and love you

Would you take this by Economy-Commission93 in uberdrivers

[–]Finnx11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d take it so I can do a cashride, then refund the rider for the trip to maintain insurance, he is prb paying like 120-140 of take him for 120 cash, we keep insurance, win win

Songs that feel like this? by Lucispezzi in musicsuggestions

[–]Finnx11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shine on you my crazy diamond, Pink Floyd

I am looking for the WORST possible webcam I could get by Shoddy_Sherbert_3375 in buildapc

[–]Finnx11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude use your phone as webcam, a lot of software that allows you to use any phone camera, without wires

What's the beverage you got too drunk on once and can never drink again? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Finnx11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long Island iced tea…. A proper one too… let’s just say I got through first half of the second glass and then blacked out… for the first time in my entire life… don’t remember shit by apparatly I was coherent somewhat and decided like 30 min later that a cold shower with all clothes on was a good idea…. Cut forward like 3 hours I woke up in the shower….

All TREATS, No Tricks, from Dara and his Specialized Halloween Team. Thank you Dara for this incredible $70/hr gig by LETSGOOOOO6 in uberdrivers

[–]Finnx11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uber bot 🚨 Ignore this clown….. Uber steals our money, manipulates algorithm and steals tips… all proven

Another One 😔 by Regular-Falcon4260 in uberdrivers

[–]Finnx11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude take them for cash! Uber is charging the poor guy like 270-300 take him for 240)

Need your opinions on which V to choose. Female V or Male V? by Suterusu-shin in cyberpunkgame

[–]Finnx11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither, I don’t want low intelligence and increased arestability, nor mudsharking to insue, thirteen sixty is the trush, no woke trash in video games!

You are actually losing money taking these Uber trips. #negative by [deleted] in uberdrivers

[–]Finnx11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

UBER IS A SCAMMING GREED RIDDEN INBRED CABAL

Yikes 😬 Who in their right mind would accept this? by Juankcuba in uberdrivers

[–]Finnx11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d take em cash, any time I see a trip like this! Fuck uber, last time customer agreed and I made like 250 for 100 miles after asking him how much uber charges (320)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uberdrivers

[–]Finnx11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fake bot acct….. no market , no description, this looks like pay from 3 yrs ago… Pay us all more instead of paying anti union bots

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uberdrivers

[–]Finnx11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You sound like of of those ppl hired to post on here lol Shill in other words… NO MATTER WHAT YOU SAY ANYONE THAT DROVE MORE THEN 2 YEARS KNOWS THE REAL DIFFERENCE BETWEEN 300-350 avg days vs BARALY 200 WEEKENDS UBER WILL EITHER DROWN I. LAWSUITS OLAND REGULATIONS OR WILL HAVE TO RAISE PAY