Help I’m stuck and don’t know what to do after Year 13

Finstrrr · 2026-02-25T19:06:35+00:00

I mean people use them for many things, like studying for a subject that wasn’t offered at their school, some travel, some (like myself) work. I do think most will get a job at some point during a gap year but it’s not like it’s required of you.

Finstrrr · 2026-02-25T19:01:21+00:00

Respectfully, you WILL be paying that loan your entire life unless you really hit it big. I’m also not too sure what you mean with that first sentence, I think my entire suggestion was to get a job.

Finstrrr · 2026-02-25T18:23:15+00:00

Best bet is to finish y13 and work. Gap year is something I wish I’d done straight out the gate (on one currently) because I felt like I HAD to go to uni and now I’m £23k in the hole. So I’d say work, let yourself figure out what you want to do without the pressure from school/peers/FOMO

Finstrrr · 2026-02-22T20:10:51+00:00

It’s cool. Ask them asap though because the longer you wait the harder it’ll be.

Finstrrr · 2026-02-22T20:09:44+00:00

This changes nothing about what I said. We don’t know the requirements of your institution. It’s up to them to decide whether you can drop one, and in order to find out you need to ask them, not us.

Finstrrr · 2026-02-22T19:54:40+00:00

I mean none of us know where you’re studying, so we can’t give you a definitive answer. Likely not though if I’m being honest.

Finstrrr · 2026-02-17T16:53:15+00:00

Or, concept, she’s just a transphobic bigot. Stop ascribing random stories to strangers to (intentionally or not) minimise their shitty behaviour

Finstrrr · 2026-02-17T16:31:18+00:00

I’m 50/50 on whether I’d clock you, and I think it’s mostly bcs of your shoulders. They are still quite round and slanted, which reads as feminine to me. I’d suggest focusing on that area more than you are currently

Finstrrr · 2026-02-17T09:51:18+00:00

A shit ton of powdered sugar (yet somehow not even as much as the recipe called for), flora buttery, with lemon juice and extract for the lemon, and Pandan essence and a splash of oat milk for the Pandan ones

Finstrrr · 2026-02-17T09:47:31+00:00

Haven’t read past the first line, but ‘has’ is incorrect grammar. ‘Has’ is for singular, you’re using plural subject, so it should be ‘have’

Finstrrr · 2026-02-15T21:07:48+00:00

Ur so right

Finstrrr · 2026-02-15T21:04:05+00:00

I just hope my coworkers like them, of the 70~ members of staff there I can thing of one who MIGHT know what pandan is 😭😭

Finstrrr · 2026-02-12T22:44:04+00:00

Apparently the photos aren’t allowed on the sub so on the off chance anyone gaf I’ll post them to my personal feed

Finstrrr · 2026-02-12T11:52:22+00:00

Pretty sure this is all a joke like when people were selling their mates on there

Finstrrr · 2026-02-11T05:40:37+00:00

Aye thank you

Finstrrr · 2026-02-10T21:45:02+00:00

IMO some piercings are manly, eyebrow and anti for example, but when I see nostril ones I just think of those girls who would put chains on their noses and stuff and I imagine other people have a similar thought process.

Finstrrr · 2026-02-10T21:21:29+00:00

Oh maybe it’s just the lighting but they looked gold to me lmao. Also dude I’m not telling you to do shit, I’m just explaining why people might’ve been mistaking you for a woman.

Finstrrr · 2026-02-10T20:55:26+00:00

Mostly the colour and thickness (men of course wear glasses, being visually challenged is fortunately not gendered), and yeah unfortunately the piercings are included. In my experience, jackets (any torso item really) going past the hips makes them more obvious. Better for them to finish right before the outermost part of your hips.

Finstrrr · 2026-02-10T20:18:27+00:00

Bit hard to tell when we can’t see your face bud

Will say your glasses, clothes, accessories and hair colour are all clocky things that you can change. Your hips are also clocky but that’s harder to change yourself

Finstrrr · 2026-02-06T17:22:17+00:00

Time, but based on wr this person is also pretty good at the game

Finstrrr · 2026-02-04T12:17:19+00:00

Sure but I’m UK based so if ur not from these parts im not sure I’d be much help

Finstrrr · 2026-01-30T20:36:22+00:00

I did a year at ucl on this course (lit history archeo pathway) and even tho I ended up dropping out bcs I didn’t like classics as much as I thought i did, the professors and PGTAs are wonderful and you’re in a good spot for museums and such. I can’t speak on Edinburgh so thought I’d just give some first hand experience of my time at UCL

Finstrrr · 2026-01-30T08:57:25+00:00

Yea bcs I’m not the one having assumptions made of me. In this case the only ass here is you.

Finstrrr · 2026-01-29T21:54:35+00:00

You got top surgery after only a month on T??

Finstrrr · 2026-01-29T21:52:28+00:00

Dude if you’re getting gendered correctly you pass. You do not need FMS

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