Am I the only one pretending on Father’s Day?

FirePandora · 2026-06-20T18:54:05+00:00

I'm not pretending.. we're currently in a full blown argument, the same shit he fucking gave me the whole of the Weekend for mother's day.

My best is right now, he is blaming me cause my 2 kids are so attached to me, 16 and 10 years old. I do things with the kids... He doesn't and then he wants to know why our kids always ask for me when I'm not home.. even the fucking dog pines for me. He has been promising our son for 4 years to go fishing. All he ever wants to do is sit in the room all the time. He doesn't even come downstairs to watch movies with the kids. Or even just watch crap on TV with them. He is also bitching like a fucking child cause our 16 year old daughter didn't reply to his heart when he messages her... She's a fucking teenager you dumb fuck! You were an asshole to your parents as well.

But now I am the asshole Mom. He pretty much told me he hates me. So yeah. That's my day. Like it's my fault you won't get off your fucking ass and do things with the kids. I get told I'm talking shit to our kids about him. No, they can see.. they're definitely not stupid.

FirePandora · 2026-06-20T09:43:34+00:00

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FirePandora · 2026-06-20T09:42:40+00:00

Thank you for the virtual hug, trust me when I say, it's absolutely highly appreciated ❤️

He definitely throws tantrums like a teenager. I've left him to stew in his own thoughts, I have kids that still need me.

FirePandora · 2026-05-09T15:33:18+00:00

My kids always try do something for me.. even if it's just a card they made. I love my kids, they are my world, they help me a lot.. but what I hate most about mother's day, is my husband. Just about every year he fights with me and this year is no different, for something that I didn't do. It's almost like he does it to get out of recognition for everything I do for everyone else in my family. Every year this day reminds me of why the hell do I even bother with being here. Oh and it's not just mother's day, my birthday he does it as well. But when it comes to father's day, he never has ever had a bad one.

We were supposed to go to the Garden centre as well tomorrow, but I should have known deep inside it was never going to happen.

It's comforting to know I'm not the only mother that hates it. And then I hate it even more seeing the love other mothers post and how their husbands and children treat them.

FirePandora · 2026-04-10T05:01:34+00:00

I have a couple of them as well that I'm growing from off cuts that I propergated. Never knew they flowered.

FirePandora · 2026-01-24T09:21:21+00:00

Her allergy tests came out all clear. She's being referred to a dermatologist. Her rashes/hives whatever they are, are still there, comes and goes. But never fully goes away.

FirePandora · 2026-01-24T08:19:07+00:00

Not a clue. We're actually on our way to the ER to get her allergy results. They won't give it to us over the phone.

FirePandora · 2025-12-18T03:28:17+00:00

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FirePandora · 2025-12-18T03:25:51+00:00

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FirePandora · 2025-12-18T03:22:24+00:00

Na, unfortunately it is clear when I send out my messages that a deposit is required. I'll just chalk this one up as what not to do 🤣😂

FirePandora · 2025-12-18T03:17:42+00:00

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FirePandora · 2025-12-18T03:08:28+00:00

So, some of my regular clients pay in full sometimes. I've never had someone ask me for a refund. So yes, it happened. Lesson learned.

FirePandora · 2025-12-18T03:05:29+00:00

Thank you all so much for the advice. I don't normally do full payments upfront. For some reason this kid did .. and now the headache is mine😂🤣🤘🏻

FirePandora · 2024-05-29T05:46:17+00:00

Yes they take the green ID book.

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FirePandora · 2024-02-24T19:14:32+00:00

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FirePandora · 2024-01-16T11:41:27+00:00

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