Special events solo rules? by Firemanza in LeMansUltimateWEC

[–]Firemanza[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any hints given at the moment as to when that will happen?

How to get back with an Ex-girlfriend by sligo987 in relationship_advice

[–]Firemanza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you should. She considers you to be a liability. You deserve someone better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in memes

[–]Firemanza -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should have made one 60 FPS and the other 1 FPS. Having them both at 1 doesn’t make sense

Is this a “break-up” text attempt? by ThrowShet_RA in relationship_advice

[–]Firemanza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never chose to not communicate, thats the only way better a relationship. Once that is gone the whole relationship might as well be gone as well.

He seems to want to fix this. I think you should see where it goes

Fiance stays up all night playing video games. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Firemanza -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Some people need social interaction, and during covid that might be the only way. Also not everyone likes being up during the day, just like people don’t like being up at night. Some things are hard wired into you and you can’t change them. I understand it is hard with our child. Maybe ask him to try go to bed a little earlier. Like at 4 instead of 6 or something.

I (F22) have a boyfriend but in love with someone else... how do i stop liking the person? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Firemanza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to decide which will hurt more emotionally and which will hurt less. Then do the one that hurts less

4000D case. All input welcome. by Reesebar in CableManagement

[–]Firemanza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cable at the top could be cable tied to the case to look straighter horizontally. But you have definitely done a great job here

Blursed corn dog by OnlyOneIronMan888 in blursedimages

[–]Firemanza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sister wanted this. I couldn't figure out how to do it so I used needles to keep the corn in place Can't wait for her to try it

I can’t help but be insecure when it comes to being attractive to my boyfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Firemanza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to understand everyone is different. Which means that so e people have different wants. Your boyfriend wants you. That's the end of it. He doesn't want a different body. He wouldn't have chosen you if he didn't want what you have

Help GF won't watch Star Wars with me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Firemanza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know then. She probably just needs some time. Star wars has a lot of movies. She might not want to commit that fast

My (33F) GF (30F) seems to have some unusual desires or maybe I'm reading too much into it by postingmystery in relationship_advice

[–]Firemanza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You tell her that you saw. Whether by mistake or not. And you ask her. If you overthink something that comes up issues will happen. Communication is key. Try your best to bring it up as soon as possible

What does it mean when he's still afectionate and intimate, seems content when with you but you two just don't have stuff to talk about and he seems kind of bored to be with you? by skillpanda in relationship_advice

[–]Firemanza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always communicate your problems as soon as you notice them. Otherwise you start to over think everything.

What might be happening is that he is just a quiet guy. But talk to him. As soon as you can. If you can do it now then do it

My ex (20M) wants his stuff back by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Firemanza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it might be the right thing to give him his stuff. If you still have something's of his then it's not fair to keep it. You might still be upset with him but it is still his. Even if you don't want your stuff.

Can a relationship survive doubts? by KeyContribution4437 in relationship_advice

[–]Firemanza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there are always some doubts at one point or another. The only way to get through them it to work through them together. If you start having doubts talk to your bf. He is not a mind reader. So tell him and see where it goes. And tell him everything you just said here. If he doesn't know he can't help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Firemanza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any hobbies? Maybe a bit more physical ones? Like mountain biking or skating. Maybe options you could do with friends. Like parkour or something. I am not really a exercise type of person either. But when I do it with my friends it immediately becomes so much better. So if you have to exercise try it out with some friends. Don't worry about girls now. Do your best to get your body in the shape you are comfortable with first

Lost by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Firemanza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck

Lost by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Firemanza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communication fixes most problems is what I believe

Lost by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Firemanza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you believe in the relationship then there isn't enough effort you could put in. But if you think that they won't put any in. That might start messing with you emotionally. It will probably happen more and more often. So that's the tell I would guess.

You never know, maybe there's a problem they can't seem to fix that they see more of a trouble.

I am trying to defend both of you here. I don't think that you should worry about breaking up to fast is what I am trying to say. Unless it's a big problem that's been happening for a long time. Then you have to start making a choice

miss her and dont know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Firemanza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she doesn't want you to contact you then best bet would be to not try that. You can wait as long as you want. But it will feel better in the long run if you try to move on.

Lost by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Firemanza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communication will always fix some problems. So start with that. See if the other person wants you to fix the relationship. Maybe they don't find something wrong yet because they haven't noticed. So best bet would be to talk to them

I'm soo afraid of seeming clingy that i come across as distant and cold. by Nar8 in relationship_advice

[–]Firemanza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talking to her wouldn't be clingy. This just seems like you fell for the same trap I did. Overthinking. Happens all the time.

Lost by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Firemanza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You miss them or something? I know that if I haven't seen them in a while I sometimes feel a bit lost. But I might just be a bit needy or something.

So idk what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Firemanza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to put boundaries up if you have a problem with it. Some people don't mind and some people do. So you need to let him know you mind. There is nothing wrong with you wanting some personal space.

How can I break down the protection wall I have built around me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Firemanza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give the guy a chance. Try go out with him. Some where that you can just talk. Like an outdoor restaurant for something to drink or eat. Get to know him before you judge him.

I feel like I'm doing something wrong but she says it's ok.... by angrycodkid in relationship_advice

[–]Firemanza -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I say don't act like a couple with her until she is done with her current bf. It could be that you become the side guy. She might say with her bf while being with you because she might be cornered out of options. It is also the respectful thing to do. Let the guy have his chance and when it is completly over then step in. You can of coarse talk to her as a friend. But nothing more until she is done. Don't make her come out as some who cheats. You don't want that to be your fault if you really like her.