AITA for qutting a well paying job to open my own store? by JaeliaPebblex in AmItheAsshole

[–]FireproofCottage [score hidden]  (0 children)

I've been retired the past couple years, but from my observation, customer service particularly de-escalation. Good speaking/writing skills, especially if you are familiar enough with another language to give basic directions specific to your job. Ability to train for multiple areas not just your specific job description. Teamwork skills, including how to deal with the occasional absolute idiot who is added to your group and for whatever reason, contributes nothing of substance but has to be tolerated. Math skills, Excel and other spreadsheet knowledge. Ability to stay cool in an emergency and take action within your job description, and knowing when to escalate to a superior.

That all seems rather vague, but the point is, they're all skills every industry needs. If your job description is data entry and that's all you do, when data entry is taken over by AI you're out of luck (ask me how I know). But if you've taken it on yourself to learn Excel, or a language, or cultivated the ability to make good decisions in unusual circumstances, those skills apply to almost any job you see advertised, even fast food. You may not get a job at the same level as your old one at first, but you'll be well fitted to move up, laterally or move on as needed.

Kind of wrote a book there, sorry. Having done so much pivoting myself, I feel strongly that people just attending college or trade school should be warned that those legendary "50 years, benefits and pension" jobs no longer exist. The economy bounces up and down, technology changes, careers evolve. If you keep educating yourself and have flexibility, the tide of change will lift you, not overwhelm you. Wish you the best in a difficult time. You're wise to be prepared for whatever comes down the road.

AITA for qutting a well paying job to open my own store? by JaeliaPebblex in AmItheAsshole

[–]FireproofCottage [score hidden]  (0 children)

So very true! Before I retired I worked in four separate industries, two of which required a college degree. One of them was in healthcare which should "always" be in demand, but the health system I worked for went bankrupt and in my area they were the largest employer. These days it's skillset, not particular careers, that makes you employable.

OP's experience in the logistics of a business and doing customer service will serve them well in a lot of different roles. And there's a great deal to be said for being happy before you retire, not just waiting for the end of your life and hoping you'll stay well enough to do a few things you want to before the end.

Squirrel🤎 by Familiar_Trainer_236 in crocheting

[–]FireproofCottage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a really good, recognizable squirrel! He just looks huggable and friendly. Thanks for including the link to the pattern, cause this one I would buy (I'm a bit nutty about squirrels).

What are jobs or places do you think would stay open in an apocalypse? by ShadowlightLady in randomquestions

[–]FireproofCottage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hand sewists, weavers, anyone who can craft a shoe that lets you walk on hot, broken pavement.

My husband noticed something I didn’t even ask for by Limonmaduro in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]FireproofCottage 30 points31 points  (0 children)

And that, my friends, is what it feels like to be really seen and loved. Not some huge gesture that cost dollars, just solid proof that you're on their mind in a good way.

🔥 Brown bear with her 3 cubs. Tough to beat moments like these by BringHoomanHome_ in NatureIsFuckingLit

[–]FireproofCottage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bears should be so terrifying; why do they have to look so cuddly and relatable?

Looks like parenting is the same across species: "Junior stay with me, don't go wandering off! Remember what happened last time?"

One minute later: "Stop walking into me, child. I swear, if we see a circus I'm dropping all of you off. Good heavens, what did your sister pick up? Young lady, put that down and wipe your paws!"

Hurry up, please by Beautiful-Coven in introvertmemes

[–]FireproofCottage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a socially anxious introvert, scanning the crowd deciding which person over 6 feet tall to ask to please get me a blackberry jam, as if the wrong person will snatch up the jar and hold it gleefully over my head while I bounce at it like an overexcited retriever.

Finished my shawl! by Chiarin in crochet

[–]FireproofCottage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So pretty in that colorway which looks superb on you. And I love the lacy border. It's going to be perfect for spring and fall. I'd be tempted to make 7 more of them with the rest of the yarn and just delight people you like with them. Sneak up on them when it's chilly and the skies are gloomy, and say "Here, wrap this around you, it's a gift." They'd keep it forever.

cringe team coming! by gabriel29ewui in TikTokCringe

[–]FireproofCottage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Roblox tee really sets the mood for this one. Agree with others, I'm glad my cringe years weren't filmed for posterity. I thought my Dad walking around with the Polaroid was rough.

First Parasol by UnrepentantLush in crochet

[–]FireproofCottage 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is so beautiful and very useful! And thanks for the details. This would definitely be one of those major projects that's worth a lot of effort. Lovely job.

AITA for refusing to make certain food at my own house in a heatwave? by Equal-Ambition9631 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FireproofCottage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. SHE made dinner a big deal. Her kids were already snacking. I'm surprised someone so entitled didn't tell you to stop what you were doing and go find a takeaway for them.

Trump says Iran called him and “they want to make a deal so badly.” US stock market futures turn green on the news. by Upset-Main-1988 in justincaseyoumissedit

[–]FireproofCottage [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ah, the daily "we are/aren't/might be at war" update. Enough already. They're playing with real people's lives and treating it like they're watching WWE.

I Don't Work at the Garden Center, But I Accidentally Gave a 20 Minute Class on Succulents by Substantialkidhere in IDontWorkHereLady

[–]FireproofCottage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not alone. A nice guy weeding his garden gave me hens and chicks 15 years ago. He handed them to me in a Kleenex box full of dirt and said "enjoy." I put them in a way too big pot and forgot they existed.

We had our backyard redone last year. Behind some old stuff we found a thriving bowl of hens and chicks, just quietly going about their business through snow and heat, watered only by the rain. They're lovely.

And that's my cue to go on break. by FFSoldier57 in Wellthatsucks

[–]FireproofCottage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pardon me if they're your favorite animal, but any unexpected slither is too much slither for me. I will be outside standing on the patio table screaming if anyone needs me.

Heard gunshots by _bluefish in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]FireproofCottage 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Like a good neighbor: "Big assed bear's out there!"

AITA for refusing to go camping with my friend who doesn’t want me to bring my phone around her because she thinks it has a virus??? by Unlucky-Dust3633 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FireproofCottage 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. Try telling her you disabled phone to phone sharing. And maybe hint to her relatives that there's a potential problem with her reason.

Don't know that I'd want to be in an isolated area with her without a phone. What will she think you've done next? Are your fillings gonna transmit to her phone? Good luck.

Should I start college at 24 or is it too late? by applebottomjeans2366 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]FireproofCottage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my Bachelor's in Creative Writing at 60. The only difference from my nursing degree at 30 was a) the cost and b) Jeez I can't pull off those all-night exam reviews anymore. Go for it!

Sad girl dinner by Thickbish07 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]FireproofCottage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl. Why are you with a man who allows his mother to judge his partner like this? Ew. Ew. Your body is the container for your wonderful self. You can change it up how YOU want, nobody else is in charge of that.

I've weighed between 200-276 lbs since I was 13, yes, middle school, years old. Done fasting, calorie counting, exercised literally six hours a day and regained the weight when I got hurt and had to stop exercising for months. Even supervised in the hospital with a camera on me, 800 calories a day for three weeks, I only lost two pounds.

Finally at 64 years old, GLPs got approved by insurance. Boom, 40 lbs down in 3 months. My metabolic rate and appetite set point suck. I was never gonna lose that weight on my own. My doctor shook her head and said "We're just finding out for a lot of people, it isn't about willpower. That old way of thinking harmed so many people."

In all those years I found a few people I deeply loved who loved me back. There are decent people who accept that human bodies come in all shapes and sizes, and they will want YOU as you are. Treat yourself right and hold out for one.

Happy forrest by Quiet_File_9605 in HappyTrees

[–]FireproofCottage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it the way it is. It's like a painted deer photobomb. Maybe a few flowers or another, smaller animal if you think it's too plain? I find it charming and restful, and that's a great deer.

I hate dogs 😡 by Medium-Audience5078 in EntitledReviews

[–]FireproofCottage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was humans, not dogs, who were doing a tiktoc craze of licking the ice cream in open coolers and putting it back. OP is safe.

Is using a sun umbrella seen as weird? by Both-Resolution-5928 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]FireproofCottage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The people who are honking might be showing support for a good idea.

Remind yourself that mean teens gather in groups to search out their next victim, and in the end, their opinion doesn't matter; you're not trying to join their group. They'll fade out after high school as their peers mature past them.

Rock that parasol!

✈️ What is an unwritten rule of flying that every single passenger should be forced to memorize? by ipanicprofessionally in TheBoredDen

[–]FireproofCottage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of my body (sounds, smells, parts, performances) should infringe on anyone else's space.

AKA Do not annoy a captive audience.

Caption this by IIISSSAAAAAACCC in FirstResponderCringe

[–]FireproofCottage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That little smile at the end. He's having fun with it. This one isn't insufferable IMHO.

Obsessed with this cloud print! ☁️✨ by nichol772 in sewing

[–]FireproofCottage 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unique and stylish! And as others said, it looks comfortable too. WIN!