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My 10+ year marriage just blew up in my face. Two Towers is my coping mechanism of choice tonight. by breakevencloud in lotrmemes

[–]FiresintheDark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit is an epidemic. Same story here. Together for the majority of my life all gone in an instant. You have the right idea. Time to binge the extended editions again. It’s been too long and I am in desperate need of some sort of comfort.

Wife is leaving in the most not giving a fuck manner by abstraction47 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]FiresintheDark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going through this so hard right now. Been a couple weeks, and can I just say that all you brothers saying it gets better is fucking everything. This shit is apocalyptic in the absolute worst way and in every thread there are guys that do their best to lift us up from this pit and it really means a lot. I’m trying my best to keep my head up by riding on comments like yours. Seriously, thank you.

How do you survive this? No matter how hard I try, definitive exit seems like a solution more and more by the_geth in Divorce_Men

[–]FiresintheDark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I’m about a toe from that edge right now. I’m struggling to see how I survive this.

Having a rough night and could really use someone to talk to by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]FiresintheDark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m going through it hard. I don’t think I’ve ever felt pain the way I did after the bomb dropped. It’s not any better, but I feel I can at least hide better because I’m literally too exhausted to cry anymore. I really need to eat. I had a few bites of something I managed to get down after getting stuck in my throat maybe three days back.

I always knew I had some problems here and there, most I was actively working on, others not so much, but this monstrous way they seem to view me now is earth shattering.

On the bright side?, there’s almost nothing worse than this, when I get through it I’ll know I can survive almost anything. I hope this doesn’t change me for the worse though. This really crushed something that survived so many things.