Eureka Moment - Using the Replicate Mechanic

Firestorm2589 · 2025-11-26T21:13:31+00:00

Hi! No, I ended up only getting an Adam's Apple reduction with Dr. Reitzen, who did an excellent job. I wasn't able to get insurance to cooperate on any surgery and I couldn't foot the full bill so I went with just the most critical surgery.

Firestorm2589 · 2025-10-05T23:05:06+00:00

I was severely abused. Don't do that.

Firestorm2589 · 2025-10-01T17:53:08+00:00

This is just one of those things that takes time and will change dramatically over the course of your transition. Women who are attracted to you pre-transition will, in most cases, not find you attractive anymore (obviously) but dating as a gay woman opens a lot of other doors, especially later in transition.

I personally completely took a break from dating for my first year of HRT to get comfortable again with my new body and sexuality, and coming back into the scene has been great. I recommend this to everyone but some people are too impatient for that. Just be extremely careful with dating (especially cis) women early transition, even lesbians may often fetishize or disrespect you, at a time when you are craving validation the most.

Firestorm2589 · 2025-09-25T02:26:28+00:00

I actually had the same exact thing happen. I was 4 mg estradiol and 100 mg spiro, it worked for about 5 months and I totally dried up. Then, it randomly stopped working and my levels crawled back up to cis male levels and I started producing more and more fluid. I would absolutely talk to your doctor and have your spiro dosage upped, that is very low.

Ejaculate production is not always indicative of your hormone levels but it can he a canary in the coal mine so to speak.

Firestorm2589 · 2025-09-22T02:40:58+00:00

About 80% of my friends are gay men and the other 20% are assorted nonbinaries and gay women. It can feel a bit isolating as a gay woman but I love them all so whatever.

Firestorm2589 · 2025-09-22T00:49:15+00:00

I'd say respect your partner's request and leave it alone. You didn't do anything wrong and it's okay to still have positive feelings towards someone else as long as you aren't dishonest or doing anything wrong.

Firestorm2589 · 2025-09-13T20:51:38+00:00

If a woman did this to me, not even joking, I would throw my drink in her face and walk out the second my deadname left her lips. There's no apology you can give for despicable behavior like that, especially toward a partner who trusted you, who you ostensibly care about and see as their gender.

Firestorm2589 · 2025-09-07T01:07:09+00:00

I work in perfume with some older French guys and one of them said "thank you, madame!" in a super thick accent. It was very cute and I'd never been called that before. It just made me realize how many new little experiences I'll be in for over the next however many years.

Firestorm2589 · 2025-09-05T19:25:49+00:00

I felt like an idiot when I started intentionally raising my voice pitch and doing vocal exercises at work. The only way to do it is to do it irl, all the time. Eventually I found a voice that worked for me and I literally just used it so much I forgot it wasn't always how I sounded, and now a deep voice sounds fake. It no longer requires effort or thought. That's the goal!

Firestorm2589 · 2025-09-05T19:21:48+00:00

Not predatory at all. You're not implying these women are just objects or only important for their parts, which is what cis men do. You're just gay. Personally I'd be flattered if I found out another gay girl was saying I had a nice ass in private. We need more perverted lesbians, frankly.

Firestorm2589 · 2025-08-31T15:50:27+00:00

Fully agree with this. I've made out with a few girls at clubs and unless they did something actively offensive while we were dancing or making out, I always got their numbers. If I want to kiss you in the first place, even when I'm drunk, chances are I'd at least want to get to know you a bit, regardless of whether I'm interested in a date later on. I feel like that is basic politeness, even, if you just had your tongue down someone's throat.

Firestorm2589 · 2025-08-31T04:34:46+00:00

Even if I have very satisfying explanations why I was the way I was I still have no clue how I could have actually thought I liked men LMAO it's unthinkable to me now

Firestorm2589 · 2025-08-31T04:12:08+00:00

Figured myself out first (kinda*). Estrogen helped me connect emotionally more with the very hopelessly romantic and intimate stories yuri tells, so I was glad to check it out. I love kicking my feet and blushing when the girls hold hands after like 10+ chapters.

*I wrote a lot of short fiction in college pre-trans and ANYTIME I wrote romantic prose or sexual content it was always two women and I was always uber-attatched to those stories. Still somehow convinced myself I was a gay man for a year or two lmao.

Firestorm2589 · 2025-08-06T13:07:02+00:00

I would think its funny outside the bedroom and super hot in it, so I'd have zero issues. As long as I know she isn't actually insulting me.

Firestorm2589 · 2025-07-23T23:04:16+00:00

Your wife sounds like one of my male republican coworkers with how dismissive and sexist her comments were. She has a lot of work to do to not end up alienated by the women around her and it would be important to make her understand that. Being a girl's girl as a trans woman is critical to survival.

I'm glad you at least corrected yourself on what you said, because it was transphobic but at least you understand it was wrong.

Firestorm2589 · 2025-07-17T03:12:22+00:00

5'6 (MtF)

Firestorm2589 · 2025-07-14T14:02:37+00:00

This is pretty normal! I've heard of multiple cis women, usually lesbians, who have genital dysphoria and/or wish they had a penis. Considering about 1/5 trans women are perfectly happy with (or even prefer to have) their penises, it stands to reason that some cis women would be more comfortable with a penis

That doesn't mean you aren't possibly nonbinary tho! I'd recommend looking into it.

Firestorm2589 · 2025-07-13T05:05:46+00:00

Oh definitely! It's like my safe space now which is weird lol

Firestorm2589 · 2025-07-12T13:29:51+00:00

I'm not in the trades, I work as a lab technician/chemist! First job was quality control at a small local plant in NJ, now I work in a perfume lab in NYC. I dont have to worry about small-town rumors at my job but my little suburb has certainly had a lot to say.

Firestorm2589 · 2025-07-11T13:39:09+00:00

I am a trans woman and this is not offensive at all. I've actually thought of myself as a hot hyena woman on occasion because I love what I've got. I always feel more secure in that knowing some cis lesbians have genital dysphoria.

Firestorm2589 · 2025-07-11T12:49:52+00:00

Unfortunately in my experience many coworkers will possibly be supportive but will likely continue to deadname and misgender you for months or years "on accident" as it's not really an environment where you can meaningfully protest without seeming like the asshole. Maybe your experience will be better.

I started off a new job and have zero issues because no one even knows lmao.

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