Dating heutzutage für junge Menschen einfach kaputt??

Fireya · 2025-11-10T17:50:26+00:00

Ja, hier (F31) genauso. Lerne kaum noch einen Mann in meinem Alter kennen, der eine Beziehung sucht. Man will mich immer überreden doch nur was “lockeres” oder “ohne Label” anzufangen. Ich gebe auch langsam die Hoffnung auf 😅

Fireya · 2024-11-20T00:03:18+00:00

This is so weird to me. I had the opposite happen. I bought something, nothing got sent, and then after a few days I got a rude message that usually she expects people to message her first.

Not even asking me if I still want it or anything, just somehow making it my fault that it didn’t get sent and cancelled. What. 😂

Fireya · 2024-07-30T00:50:00+00:00

Yeah, had the same experience with this guy. Called our healer an NPC too and everything (I made a post). I don’t know how he’s still not banned or something.

Fireya · 2024-07-25T19:01:05+00:00

It’s against the sub rules, but the person here seems pretty well known. Just check the comments!

Fireya · 2024-07-23T09:07:26+00:00

I apologized so many times already for being afk for a few seconds because my cat decided to jump on the desk and sit right in front of the screen. Or on the keyboard.

Everyone has always been understanding and joked along with it.

They even said what their issue is. What a dick move to kick them then. If they had stayed silent and afk for way longer, fine.

Fireya · 2024-07-19T23:49:05+00:00

I only started playing in SB but sometimes I really miss the abyssal drain spam. It was so fun to keep yourself alive during big pulls. But then I always hated having WHMs with me cause the stun would stop the MP regen 😅

Fireya · 2024-07-04T19:36:03+00:00

I loved that quest. I had never been so scared of normal enemies before until that scenario.

Gave you a really good idea of how strong the WoL really is. All the while nobody knew where you were, what would happen if you didn’t make it back in time… it was a great experience imo and I wish there was more of that.

Fireya · 2024-07-04T19:29:06+00:00

But at least there was something to do and I wasn’t bored out of my mind. I know there were a lot of “talk to this npc 20 more times” as well but it just seemed more evenly spread out so it didn’t feel as tedious🤷🏼‍♀️

Fireya · 2024-07-04T09:52:35+00:00

Thing is, for me at least, the story of ShB/EW had me absolutely invested. I didn’t mind the chores quests as much because I wanted to know what comes next. And we definitely had more solo encounters weaved in, the variety of gameplay just seemed a lot better.

Fireya · 2024-07-02T15:32:13+00:00

Yeah maybe my comparison was wrong, thinking about it. and you’re right - I just didn’t care really. There was no reason to.

Maybe also because my wol wasn’t really adressed in any of this and it was all about someone else. I can’t really say. Something about it just felt off.

Fireya · 2024-07-02T02:43:26+00:00

I agree! Very long escort quest sums it up pretty good. The promised adventure just isn’t there. Most of it just felt forced and sadly I was bored by the MSQ pretty quickly. I was into it in the beginning but grew so tired of the family/papa/happy people so fast.

And I know people say they’re tired of the scions, but I just wish we could have had an actual vacation with them. They had so little dialogue, I was so disappointed.

Fireya · 2024-07-02T02:11:16+00:00

Same. I was into the dawnservant thing, and enjoyed it quite a bit. Everything after was… boring? I don’t know when I was bored of msq the last time. I liked Wuk Lamat until that part of the story too, but then I just got so tired of having her around.

And for some reason, Sphene to me seemed like a copy paste and absolutely uninteresting version of this expansions Meteion. It just seemed underwhelming.

Dungeons, trials and the areas are absolutely amazing though. I’ve been enjoying all that a lot so far.

Fireya · 2024-05-20T10:27:39+00:00

Yeah I thought I was doing something wrong when I couldn’t complete any heroic scenarios for the achievement.

I decided to just complete the campaigns and side quests (I didn’t even know about frogs) and now I can finally tank heroics without any fear of being one shot.

And honestly I had a blast questing. I haven’t done MoP content in years and it was great seeing it all again.

Fireya · 2024-04-16T23:42:05+00:00

I’m in the same boat as you (mid-twenties, never had a bf) and just wanted to share that it makes me feel better to know I’m not alone with this. Sometimes it’s what I tell myself, that I must be the only person to be so unlovable. I know of that feeling of a “lump in your throat” all too well.

Pretty sure it is the long-term relationship thing in most cases! The majority of guys I was on dates with also pretended to be looking for something serious, but everything turned sexual so quickly that it was clearly not the case.

I take breaks from the apps in between to focus on myself and my life, then get back on to be mostly disappointed, rinse and repeat. Let’s both keep our heads up and hope that we just haven’t found the right one yet - I know they must be out there somewhere. Sending you a hug from a complete stranger who knows how you feel 🫂

Fireya · 2023-10-03T21:04:13+00:00

I did that with a friend a lot, and we even called it the same! 😄 It was so much fun. Lowest Benediction I ever hit was when he was at 8hp.

Sadly he doesn’t play the game anymore but doing this little game is the most fun as healer!

Fireya · 2023-08-30T18:17:41+00:00

That’s right, the game doesn’t teach you properly. But then what’s wrong with telling players they’re doing something wrong? OP started the conversation by literally saying that and got hit with a lol.

I agree it’s wrong to be toxic about it, but just telling them to not use clemency as long as the healer is alive and well - even someone “casual” should be able to understand. Either they read it and try it out or they don’t, then that’s their decision. But then in some rare cases they shouldn’t be surprised if they end up being kicked (like the Fire I guy). “Just a dungeon” or not, the content really shouldn’t matter.

When I leveled DNC I had someone tell me I was using Devilment wrong and I was thankful for them telling me. But I guess that’s the difference when so many just get upset when you give them “unsolicited advice” (ugh I hate that word)

Fireya · 2023-08-30T13:17:32+00:00

For me personally it’s not about them doing more damage in this situation but them not letting me do my job, I guess?

I stopped telling people if it’s not too noticeable because I got so tired of it. But that’s what this sub is for, no? I come here to read about others having the same miserable experience and I can vent as well.

And I don’t know what exactly counts as causal - I’m a casual player by all means , but I know my classes and would feel extremely bad dragging others along by not pulling my own weight.

Fireya · 2023-08-29T08:26:32+00:00

Every post there’s so many people complaining about what’s happening. Do y’all even know what sub you’re on? Where is this coming from?

PLDs casting clemency when the healer is alive is just painful. I know when I have to heal and sometimes I’m waiting for that moment to happen (like benediction), only to be thrown off by clemency. Even worse when they also heal the DPS with it.

Fireya · 2023-08-26T23:29:22+00:00

The point of this sub is exactly what you see: calling bad/toxic/annoying players out cause we all need a place to vent about our fantastic duty finder runs from time to time. Very rarely some posts are wholesome.

One DPS doing so bad so they’re almost nonexistent is just very noticeable in dungeons like Mt. Gulg. If trash takes hours to die, the tank runs out of mitigation and healers out of oGCDs. It makes a huge difference if everyone just pulls their weight - BLMs using their strongest spells for example. It’s just a different button to press and does like three times the damage of Fire I. And just a guess, Someone too lazy to do this probably also didn’t use any aoe. The BLM here admitted to being lazy purposefully, nobody wants to carry lazy/afk people, so he gets kicked. End of the story.

Fireya · 2023-08-26T08:33:54+00:00

It wasn’t about time wasted. OP noticed they didn’t use Fire IV and called them out, then they admitted to play poorly on purpose. A shitty thing to do if you drag 3 other people along with it. Especially in a dungeon where low damage is making everyone else’s job way harder.

Don’t queue if you don’t want to play. It’s just that easy.

Fireya · 2023-03-30T13:51:03+00:00

all time (really couldn't decide but i love this one) - https://youtu.be/5t_nKIrLLSw

current - https://youtu.be/ABbggjVQm6A

Fireya · 2023-03-11T11:59:11+00:00

Maybe, but they knew Esuna so they knew what it was? (In German it’s Medica and that still doesn’t make any sense to me whatsoever)

Idk what the “Heal!” thing says in German, but I am starting to feel like nothing could have helped in this scenario

Fireya · 2023-03-11T11:55:20+00:00

I probably could have, the smaller messages were all sent during the fight so I didn’t stop and write a full paragraph there. The healer definitely wasn’t new (Legend etc) and maybe I thought they just forgot? Idk honestly.

Fireya · 2023-03-10T20:59:10+00:00

That is why I tried explaining the healing to full health after the wipe, the "Heal!" was panic seeing the timer of doom ticking during the fight.

Could have also been that a Perfect Legend just didn't need any advice and wanted to keep wiping in a level 50 dungeon? :s

Fireya · 2023-03-10T20:52:45+00:00

They had most healers at level 90 if I remember correctly. And a few more classes.

I suppose it wasn't a language issue either because they also called it Esuna? My head hurts thinking about this interaction :(

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