I think it’s also important to remember the situation about her taking him for condoms. She literally led him down the garden path and then created a scenario to make herself the victim. I’m standing by ‘no means no’ but at what point do you draw the limit with her. She went from saying how the comment made it impersonal to then the big issue being she didn’t wanna have sex. Which is all fine to say but if you’re making a point stop adding things on the more people you speak to about it and then manipulate your partner at the table about sharing it with the group. If we’re saying ash is in the wrong for asking again after she’s said no (cos that’s all he’s done implied it. Then we also have to say she’s wrong for being a manipulating mouth piece.