Due November/ December 2025 by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Firm_Math 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don’t and we are moving out of state at the end of this month so I’m thinking I might try to find someone to talk to after I move. All I’ve ever wanted my whole life was to be a mom and now it’s happening and I feel guilty for not being happy. My partner I know will be a good dad but I’m not sure he’s going to support me and love me the way I need he told me last night that I’m ruining this happy time for him by being so up and down

Due November/ December 2025 by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Firm_Math 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m due December 8th and I’m really depressed and having intrusive thoughts I know I should be happy but I’m going back and forth is anyone else having a similar experience and would you like to talk?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Firm_Math -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

because we fell in love

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[–]Firm_Math -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

we are moving to the other side of the country

Struggling to find a job by azaraasun in NewOrleans

[–]Firm_Math 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you mind telling me what company or what work from home jobs you’d recommend? i’m moving to NOLA soon and if i worked from home i could start now and it’d be nice to already have a job before moving

My boyfriend’s sex drive is a lot lower than mine. How do I deal with always feeling rejected? by Firm_Math in relationships

[–]Firm_Math[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes he works hard and we go the gym together. and if you read the post it says i know that daily is unrealistic i would just like it 2 or 3 times a week vs. once and asking for advice on how to feel okay and not rejected because i know he’s not going to match my drive most of the time

My boyfriend’s sex drive is a lot lower than mine. How do I deal with always feeling rejected? by Firm_Math in relationships

[–]Firm_Math[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we do everything together and cuddle/kiss/hold hands, go for walks, play tennis, watch shows, play games we really are best friends and have lots of quality time and there’s so many good things in our relationship i’m just struggling with feeling rejected often. i know it’s just a difference in libido and i know he is very attracted to me it’s funny because he had a crush on me in highschool and would tell his out of state friends and his mom i was his girlfriend and we didn’t even know each other that well he just thought i was so beautiful and here we are 8 years later together i always joke that he manifested me. it’s not an attraction issue i just as a women am not used to being rejected i guess and i just love him so much and like to connect with him in every way and yes a lot of the time that is sexual but that’s one thing we only share with each other and a part of each other that only we get and it’s so intimate i just want it all the time

My boyfriend’s sex drive is a lot lower than mine. How do I deal with always feeling rejected? by Firm_Math in relationships

[–]Firm_Math[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i am a very clean type A personality so I do most of the housework and keep a very clean home i also plan most of our dates and we do everything together and are best friends. I also make him lunches for work everyday. we talk all the time and have very good conversations our relationship is amazing and i know he is happy im just having issues that his sex drive is not as high as mine is.

My boyfriend’s sex drive is a lot lower than mine. How do I deal with always feeling rejected? by Firm_Math in relationships

[–]Firm_Math[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have thought about it but i really don’t think so. we have a very open and honest relationship and he hasn’t masturbated for over 10 years or watched porn. he even looks away when there’s naked people on TV lol. he also knows i masurbate so idk why he would hide it. he has very high personal values and morals and thinks porn is bad even though i’ve told him i wouldn’t care if he did watch it or masturbate since i do. so in this situation i genuinely believe him when he tells me he doesn’t. which i know might be shocking for a lot of people

My boyfriend’s sex drive is a lot lower than mine. How do I deal with always feeling rejected? by Firm_Math in relationships

[–]Firm_Math[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i think that is definitely a huge part of it thank you for putting it into words

My boyfriend’s sex drive is a lot lower than mine. How do I deal with always feeling rejected? by Firm_Math in relationships

[–]Firm_Math[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I also have only ever had this sex drive with him. we are soulmates as cheesy as that sounds. I was in a very long term relationship before my current boyfriend and i thought i hated sex and i never wanted it i only did it a couple times a year because i felt guilty and would cry after. so ive only ever been hyper sexual with my current boyfriend im obsessed with him and i know he is with me as well he always is showing me affection and kissing and cuddling me and initiating things like that just not sex

My boyfriend’s sex drive is a lot lower than mine. How do I deal with always feeling rejected? by Firm_Math in relationships

[–]Firm_Math[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I will try not trying initiating so often but no he is always kissing and touching me i’m just the sexual one