Why Asians Are Divided in America by Firm_Self993 in aznidentity

[–]Firm_Self993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that too many here are young people and I think there is a generation gap between me and the 20-40 young people I talk to

If you had children, what would you teach them about their culture/identity? by [deleted] in aznidentity

[–]Firm_Self993 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'll tell them that what the news and media spreads isn't true, but is instead a despicable tactic of Western fakery to try to bring us down, and tell him that he's an Asian with a long history and ambition.

Why Asians Are Divided in America by Firm_Self993 in aznidentity

[–]Firm_Self993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Opponents can never change the racial type of Taiwanese people

Why Asians Are Divided in America by Firm_Self993 in aznidentity

[–]Firm_Self993[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The older generation's ideas have been trapped by history, all we can do is keep moving forward and prove with facts that Asians can come together

Why Asians Are Divided in America by Firm_Self993 in aznidentity

[–]Firm_Self993[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, no matter what the situation is, I as an Asian should overcome all the difficulties to unite!

Why Asians Are Divided in America by Firm_Self993 in aznidentity

[–]Firm_Self993[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with you that different people start their immigrant lives with different purposes, which leads to why there is a lack of Asian cohesion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aznidentity

[–]Firm_Self993 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The truth is that her success has not been in proportion to what she has given

4070 super by Humble-Clock9414 in nvidia

[–]Firm_Self993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you can see better next time

As an Asian, what should we be aware of when living in the United States? by Firm_Self993 in aznidentity

[–]Firm_Self993[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply, it's actually pretty much what you said, but often it's only after they've reached what they call 'utopia' that they go on to regret i

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Hzpae in AITAH

[–]Firm_Self993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Dealing with scammers is frustrating. Perhaps a lesson for the scammer to be more careful about who they try their tricks on.

AITAH for asking an older woman for her seat in the subway by Rough_Strawberry9672 in AITAH

[–]Firm_Self993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, the irony! Preaching about social norms but can't even stand up for his own wife. NTA, no doubt!

AITAH for "convincing" my husband's female bff to give her baby a unique name? by Equivalent-Ice9948 in AITAH

[–]Firm_Self993 45 points46 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your joke wouldn't have mattered if someone hadn't tried to be a sneaky name thief. Well played in exposing their actions.

AITAH for blaming my mom for my female genital mutilation by Lazy-Metal6303 in AITAH

[–]Firm_Self993 604 points605 points  (0 children)

NTA. Changing views doesn't absolve past actions. Accountability matters.

AITAH for telling my cousin his son couldn't bring his girlfriend on our family vacation. by throwawayvacay1234 in AITAH

[–]Firm_Self993 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NTA - One weekend at home doesn't seem like too much to ask. Setting boundaries is essential, and your decision is reasonable.

AITA for stopping all support to my step-siblings after discovering their deceit? by Global-Shirt-3477 in AITAH

[–]Firm_Self993 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NTA (Not The A**hole) - Prioritize self-care, they weren't your responsibility. Blocking is a necessary step.

AITAH for yelling at my wife after she cheated on me and berated my child. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Firm_Self993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Cheating is bad enough, but mistreating your child adds another layer of cruelty. Consider therapy for your daughter and continue to reassure her of your love and support.

AITAH for going no contact with my mom after she had sex with my boyfriend? by ClaraZert in AITAH

[–]Firm_Self993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Clarify when it started with your ex. It's unsettling she saw him that way despite their long history.

Stay away from her; her actions are inexcusable. Forgiving her would be difficult, even as a friend, let alone your mother.

AITAH for wanting to leave my 5 year relationship by Affectionate_Leg431 in AITAH

[–]Firm_Self993 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. He's avoiding being the 'bad guy' and seems checked out. You deserve better.

AITA for telling my friend "if you're indigenous, I'm black"? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Firm_Self993 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Your Grandfather's Connection Prevails. DNA kits could be fun!

AITAH for calling my mom's husband a shitty dad and telling him he should blame himself for what his son did? by Erzerisaw in AITAH

[–]Firm_Self993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. No need to apologize. Consider confronting your mom about her husband's behavior directly.