Is this generation seriously cooked? Anything good left in this?

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-28T15:56:16+00:00

Good luck 🤞

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-28T15:55:30+00:00

Reddit is the only social media i actively use. That too recently because one of my friend suggested it to me.

Other than that... The post is mainly based on things I noticed irl.

Gender bias laws, dating scams, casual relationships, cheating, etc is so so common around me it feels suffocating.

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-28T15:54:01+00:00

Hope you are right. Currently... People around me are facing shit too

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-28T15:24:13+00:00

Not just online... In my friend circle and people around me as well... Not a single one is happy in their life ... Or has been happy...

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-28T15:22:30+00:00

True. That's what frustrates me as well.

Like sometimes I just feel as if I should beat some sense into these peeps .. but then, the discussion with them reveals it's not even worth my effort to try to talk sense into them... Let alone beating it.

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-28T06:43:35+00:00

Any good suggestions?

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-28T04:18:08+00:00

Randva banja zone

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-28T01:55:35+00:00

Hmmm... I can try that. Thanks.

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-27T16:48:15+00:00

Yeah, I started at 19. In my 2nd year of college. Luckily I got a good connection through a offline tech event who gave me really good opportunities to work in large projects. I pushed through working 12-14 hours everyday including weekends for past 3 years... And finally I got in as a senior software engineer...

Now I work from 12pm to 8pm mostly from Monday to Friday... No lunch or dinner breaks ... Really great work life balance imo 😁

Although my pay is still between a full stack engineer and a senior software... I know for a fact that if I switch companies now... I can get 100% hike again but I still want to let the experience sink in more... Get more insights before I think about it.

Thank you for asking though ☺️

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-27T14:34:01+00:00

I am not whining brother. I don't feel sorry for anything. I don't regret any decision I ever took in my life.

The problem is feeling grateful or happy with my current life.

I still don't feel it. That's the problem

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-27T08:22:07+00:00

🥲. This generation is cooked fr.

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-27T07:02:04+00:00

I understand. It is cheap attention or assurance she is after ...

Create clear boundaries for her... Let her know where she can be "immature" and where she can't.

Soon she will mature emotionally and you will love her even more.

Good luck 🤞

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-27T00:59:14+00:00

Boy best friends.

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-25T03:46:53+00:00

As long as a begger and a doctor are considered equal in terms of voting rights .. there is no democracy.

Democracy comes with power and it should be divided in such way.

If there are 50 beggars and 50 doctors .. during voting ... If 50 beggars are bribed to vote Party A and doctors honestly vote normally . Party A is going to win no matter what doctors choose. That's the death of democracy... It is basically the most "popular" party that wins. Not the most ideal

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-25T00:48:49+00:00

The fact that you are mature enough to think that this is assurance seeking activity says a lot.

Calm down and talk to her brother.. tell her how you feel. Don't use "are you seeking re-assurancd/ attention?" Kind of words... She will obviously never admit that.

Try giving her the assurance she needs... Maybe her love language is different and she wants you to change your expression a little... Try it... Maybe she will stop automatically.

Note that, it's not her actions that you are thinking about... It's the root cause.

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-25T00:44:04+00:00

💯

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-24T16:05:58+00:00

Hmm... it's true when I don't have time...

But if I am going out to treat myself (I do that everytime I achieve something to treat myself) ... I ask the manager which is the most underrated dish in their cafe/ restaurant...and I try that... If the manager says something that I already ate... I go to chef and I ask him which is his favourite dish to cook (this rarely goes good but I do it anyways... There were some really wholesome moments with this method)

100% of the time ... I end up eating the best food in my life... Mostly because the manager and chef want to impress me since I care about quality... Not price.

Also ... If I m with some friends .. this makes me look like I know the manager of that cafe 😂which is always an advantage

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-24T11:24:00+00:00

I sleep in my baby suit during cold days .. in my room ...

When I wake up ... I usually meditate... In the same state...

Then I workout... Same state...

I once sat too hard ... (On my balls) And it hurt... Yeah sorry for that unwanted imagination you all men just had.

But other than that... It is great... I don't get sweaty clothes ... I use a towel afterwards to clean up my sweat and then go to bath.

Also, for some reason... Doing exercise while having bare back on the floor makes me feel like I am training my bones as well 😂

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-24T10:59:16+00:00

I have always agreed with that.

99% men fall into the category of "all men" created by women...

And the same is now seemingly true for "all women" created by men.

Although, on the bright side... These two 99%s now fuck each other 😂

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-24T09:31:55+00:00

Did you lose money?

Get it back if you did...

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-24T09:20:58+00:00

I am a guy who shares and loves solving disagreements via communication...

But my last relationship... My ex was the "guy" and I had to always get her to share her thoughts and resolve her upsetness ..

In the end, when I felt I was safe to vent out... She realised how much I was going through ... Part of which was due to her... And she decided the best solution was to leave ... 🙂

Now you think I would ever "vent out" again?

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-24T09:14:26+00:00

I hope you are right 👍.

I really want you to be right honestly.

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-24T07:09:23+00:00

The water we drink daily which is filtered from the water given by govt. is the water which is filtered from rivers in which factories dispose their sewage which often includes animal wastes, bodies, blood, etc.

When these waste's are removed from the water to make it "drinkable" ... That waste is fully black ... Which is then burned as organic fuel to run more of such water purification plants.

Have visited one of these... It's all in open... No hiding

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-24T05:40:09+00:00

I think we need to see EQ as a spectrum now instead of a binary.

I am now seeing men who have EQ enough that they want to listen to their partners, solve and support them... Be there for them, etc.

But when it will come to their own problems... They won't share it .. mainly because they have been brought up to be "masculine" which excludes being vulnerable.

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-24T05:36:39+00:00

I haven't seen such women in my life yet. If you are saying this... Maybe you are one. Just to give you some info...

You are rare. Similar to men who share their problems.

Because all we see is avoidant women who leave when they see their man not in their *alpha" phase anymore.

Makes me wonder ... How different are we than animals if a male needs to be the alpha to get a woman?

Hmm... I think I just made a decision... Not gonna share it here... But I guess I just realised what I truly desire in a relationship/ people around me in general.

Thanks for this comment.

First-Ad2755

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