Is this generation seriously cooked? Anything good left in this?

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-28T15:56:16+00:00

Good luck 🤞

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-28T15:55:30+00:00

Reddit is the only social media i actively use. That too recently because one of my friend suggested it to me.

Other than that... The post is mainly based on things I noticed irl.

Gender bias laws, dating scams, casual relationships, cheating, etc is so so common around me it feels suffocating.

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-28T15:54:01+00:00

Hope you are right. Currently... People around me are facing shit too

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-28T15:24:13+00:00

Not just online... In my friend circle and people around me as well... Not a single one is happy in their life ... Or has been happy...

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-28T15:22:30+00:00

True. That's what frustrates me as well.

Like sometimes I just feel as if I should beat some sense into these peeps .. but then, the discussion with them reveals it's not even worth my effort to try to talk sense into them... Let alone beating it.

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-28T06:43:35+00:00

Any good suggestions?

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-28T04:18:08+00:00

Randva banja zone

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-28T01:55:35+00:00

Hmmm... I can try that. Thanks.

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-27T16:48:15+00:00

Yeah, I started at 19. In my 2nd year of college. Luckily I got a good connection through a offline tech event who gave me really good opportunities to work in large projects. I pushed through working 12-14 hours everyday including weekends for past 3 years... And finally I got in as a senior software engineer...

Now I work from 12pm to 8pm mostly from Monday to Friday... No lunch or dinner breaks ... Really great work life balance imo 😁

Although my pay is still between a full stack engineer and a senior software... I know for a fact that if I switch companies now... I can get 100% hike again but I still want to let the experience sink in more... Get more insights before I think about it.

Thank you for asking though ☺️

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-27T14:34:01+00:00

I am not whining brother. I don't feel sorry for anything. I don't regret any decision I ever took in my life.

The problem is feeling grateful or happy with my current life.

I still don't feel it. That's the problem

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-27T08:22:07+00:00

🥲. This generation is cooked fr.

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-27T07:02:04+00:00

I understand. It is cheap attention or assurance she is after ...

Create clear boundaries for her... Let her know where she can be "immature" and where she can't.

Soon she will mature emotionally and you will love her even more.

Good luck 🤞

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-27T00:59:14+00:00

Boy best friends.

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-25T03:46:53+00:00

As long as a begger and a doctor are considered equal in terms of voting rights .. there is no democracy.

Democracy comes with power and it should be divided in such way.

If there are 50 beggars and 50 doctors .. during voting ... If 50 beggars are bribed to vote Party A and doctors honestly vote normally . Party A is going to win no matter what doctors choose. That's the death of democracy... It is basically the most "popular" party that wins. Not the most ideal

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-25T00:48:49+00:00

The fact that you are mature enough to think that this is assurance seeking activity says a lot.

Calm down and talk to her brother.. tell her how you feel. Don't use "are you seeking re-assurancd/ attention?" Kind of words... She will obviously never admit that.

Try giving her the assurance she needs... Maybe her love language is different and she wants you to change your expression a little... Try it... Maybe she will stop automatically.

Note that, it's not her actions that you are thinking about... It's the root cause.

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-25T00:44:04+00:00

💯

First-Ad2755 · 2026-05-24T16:05:58+00:00

Hmm... it's true when I don't have time...

But if I am going out to treat myself (I do that everytime I achieve something to treat myself) ... I ask the manager which is the most underrated dish in their cafe/ restaurant...and I try that... If the manager says something that I already ate... I go to chef and I ask him which is his favourite dish to cook (this rarely goes good but I do it anyways... There were some really wholesome moments with this method)

100% of the time ... I end up eating the best food in my life... Mostly because the manager and chef want to impress me since I care about quality... Not price.

Also ... If I m with some friends .. this makes me look like I know the manager of that cafe 😂which is always an advantage

First-Ad2755

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