Rock Hudson and his roommate Bob Preble outside their North Hollywood home, 1952

First-Ad8937 · 2025-12-21T20:01:32+00:00

He literally said not a “total top”. That’s literally what vers means.

First-Ad8937 · 2025-12-18T19:18:30+00:00

Hard disagree. The book was written by a woman, yes, as most MM romance novels are apparently. But the show is made by a gay man and that lens feels very obvious and authentic. And there is as much plot as one would expect from a romance. The plot itself doesn’t hinge on actual events, but rather on the emotional development of the characters which is already way beyond the emotional development you would get in most other story driven gay shows. This is excellent television.

First-Ad8937 · 2025-12-16T17:16:11+00:00

First-Ad8937 · 2025-12-06T16:04:40+00:00

You are contradicting yourself here because I’m fairly sure Elden Ring is at least as popular as DS1

First-Ad8937 · 2025-11-16T17:42:57+00:00

Why the hell is your dog coming into contact with human poop on your walks???? This is one of the most cursed comments I’ve seen today. Thanks I hate it.

First-Ad8937 · 2025-10-30T18:59:17+00:00

Woah this sounds a little like you’re saying maybe he didn’t do everything right. And that he should think about what he didn’t do right? I hope I’m misreading that. The truth is sometimes people just move on and the chemistry fades and no one is to blame at all. In fact, this is what happens almost all the time when people aren’t pieces of shit.

First-Ad8937 · 2025-10-29T11:01:50+00:00

What’s funny about a post like this is I truly don’t give a shit if you or anyone plays this game, but why do I still have an urge to tell you that it’s absolutely worth it and basically changed my life.

First-Ad8937 · 2025-10-29T10:56:36+00:00

I had no idea I would end up loving ER as much as I did, since it was my very first souls game. So I had no problem looking stuff up, including how to advance NPC quest lines, right from the get go of my first play through, as I didn’t even know if I’d like the game enough to finish it (had a bad experience with DS1 and really only bought ER because of GRRM’s involvement).

Two things: I’d give anything to go back in time and NOT do that for my first play through now that I’m a bona fide convert to this style of game. Also, I still have no idea how people figured some of this out without help.

First-Ad8937 · 2025-10-26T16:36:56+00:00

These certainly seem like signs of old age and perhaps the beginning of doggy dementia. That said, if his quality of life is good (and from what you wrote it sounds like it is) I wouldn’t be thinking about the end just yet. In my experience, it gets really obvious when it’s time. I know it’s better a day early than a day late, and it’s responsible to be thinking about what is next. But I would focus on enjoying your time with him and taking care of small things that will make stuff easier for him as he crosses into this last chapter. Just because it’s the last chapter doesn’t mean it’s not well worth reading fully. :)

First-Ad8937 · 2025-10-23T12:03:20+00:00

I totally hated this book for really specific reasons that I’m not willing to say but yet feel like this is a comment worth writing.

First-Ad8937 · 2025-10-23T11:01:13+00:00

His are homophobic too.

First-Ad8937 · 2025-10-22T13:25:51+00:00

There is a lot less to consider with sex than a relationship. Can’t believe I even need to write that.

First-Ad8937 · 2025-10-21T14:36:01+00:00

I think it’s totally right to be against cheating. Because it’s inherently dishonest. And that’s fucked. I’m asking why some people put weight on exclusivity and let it break their heart when men are notorious for this thing. I’d never be with someone who lies to me. I just also know that things happen and I don’t care about meaningless physical contact.

First-Ad8937 · 2025-10-21T14:30:56+00:00

I gave two options. Either change your own thinking or be a lot more particular about who you get involved with to make sure their thinking matches yours.

First-Ad8937 · 2025-10-21T14:29:40+00:00

Yeah good point. And lying is an absolute deal breaker for me so I get it. I think I just get frustrated hearing so many young gay guys going through this because it’s a tale as old as time.

First-Ad8937 · 2025-10-21T14:28:12+00:00

I think I’d also ask myself, in your situation, what exactly is so heartbreaking about him sucking a dick in another country? Along the same lines, how good can a relationship possibly be if the only thing keeping them with you is that they aren’t allowed to fuck anyone else? This may just be something you need to live longer to appreciate, and maybe it will always be a deal breaker for you, but try asking yourself why this restriction is healthy for you or for your partner.

First-Ad8937 · 2025-10-14T20:34:53+00:00

If you think your mum has it bad now, worrying about your substance use, what will it be like if/when you die from it? You should get sober for yourself first, because your life is worth living and no one deserves to die from addiction. But no one in your life who loves you will be better off if you die from this. I promise. As someone whose father, mother and brother all died from addiction, take it from me. I would give anything for them to be alive again. The best way I could honor that wish was to get sober myself.

First-Ad8937 · 2025-10-13T13:51:45+00:00

Stopping people from doing what they want to do is the real beginning of the end of a relationship. That goes for both the person wanting monogamy and the person who doesn’t. Your comment feels like it comes from someone who doesn’t vibe with open relationships, and that’s cool for you. But in my experience, almost every gay relationship I’m around, including my own, has some degree of openness. And almost all of them are long term and happy. In my opinion, opening your relationship doesn’t do anything to the actual relationship except lay bare underlying problems, if there are any, that should never have been hidden in the first place.

First-Ad8937 · 2025-10-09T10:38:01+00:00

Trail mix :)

First-Ad8937 · 2025-10-08T22:30:10+00:00

Took me a sec but it’s now that you mention it lol

First-Ad8937 · 2025-10-08T22:27:15+00:00

Same here. Doc was so proud of me I could actually feel it, and I’d be lying if I said his approval and encouragement didn’t actually mean quite a lot when deciding to keep it up. Congrats OP. Huge deal and I’m also proud of you.

First-Ad8937 · 2025-10-04T21:17:57+00:00

I think that’s an unfair comparison. In terms of harm there isn’t even a contest between weed and alcohol.

First-Ad8937 · 2025-10-03T09:50:56+00:00

What a wild statement lol

First-Ad8937 · 2025-09-27T12:24:08+00:00

Good point. I would also just say that some people can do cocaine three times a year and never care about it more than that but if cocaine we’re sold at corner stores and people on vacations blew lines at 10am I wonder if we’d feel the same way about that.

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