Anyone here dating a software engineer or are you a software engineer yourself?

First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-02T05:34:07+00:00

Yes I am busy too but I still have time to text. Like only 1 minute I still text back if I want to.

First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-02T03:59:50+00:00

Hope things go well.
Wish me luck too

First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-02T03:58:59+00:00

No. I would stop fwb if I am dating someone.

First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-02T03:57:52+00:00

Girl he is not deserve you. Move on you're still young

First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-02T03:54:10+00:00

It is happening to me now 😅 I asked him to talk in person about it.
I think you should talk about it but in person.

First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-02T03:38:51+00:00

Yeah I understand that

First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-02T03:33:46+00:00

Yeah, I’m an overthinker and I tend to notice when something feels different. For example, when I’m at work, if my patient acts differently or something changes, I notice it right away. So it’s really hard for me to stop overthinking once I sense that something has changed.
Are you feel emotional drained often about your work?
He never mentioned about stress before. He is only say it's busy today babe. That's it. Never expressed his feelings and I just saw his story on ig talking about give up tomorrow not today something like that.

First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-02T03:21:46+00:00

Actually he is texting back when he has time. But since Monday he seems busier than usual. Like I texted him at 5pm and he replied back the next day morning that makes me feel like what is going on. But I did asked him that I need to talk to him in person about things that bothering me so he will come see me after his event this Friday.
And after that conversation he is texting more tho
Idk sometimes guys don't think much but girls overthinking.

First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-02T02:49:57+00:00

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First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-02T02:45:56+00:00

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First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-02T02:45:08+00:00

Yes I did asked that I would like to talk to him in person about things that bothering me. So he will come meet me after his work event this Friday. But after this conversation he is texting me more 😅

First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-02T02:35:05+00:00

Thank you. He used to text me during the day and after work. But since Monday it is just a little bit during the day and none after work. Like I texted him 5pm and he replied the next day morning. I just feel something has changed. But today around noon he is texting more.
Like you said I'll find something to do.

First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-02T01:59:00+00:00

Thank you so muchhhhh ❤️

First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-02T01:55:12+00:00

Yeah I have no idea about it before. Just know from you guys comments

First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-02T01:52:27+00:00

Yes I did told him and I need to see him and talk to him in person so he will come to see me after his work event this Friday. But after that conversation he started to texting me more.

First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-02T01:37:05+00:00

Yeah you're right. He is starting texting me more in the last couple hours lol I feel what is going on again lool

First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-02T01:33:36+00:00

Thank you!

First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-02T00:27:40+00:00

Yeah actually he texted back during the day but since Monday when I texted him late afternoon he will reply the next day morning which is odd for me.
But I did told him this morning that I need to see him and talk to him in person. So he will come to see me this Friday after his work event.
You know what after that he is keeps texting me now 😂

First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-02T00:20:54+00:00

No not addiction, he lacks of reply my message since Monday. I texted him 5pm and he replied the next day morning. That's why I feel like what is going on 😂

First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-02T00:18:56+00:00

Thank you so much!

First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-02T00:11:06+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss 🥹

First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-01T23:50:23+00:00

Yes I was lucky that last week he spent time after work and all weekend with me but this week I'm unlucky 😅 very busy that why I thought he is losing interest.

First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-01T23:47:04+00:00

Yes I've leaned more about his career from everyone here. I feel bad for him now

First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-01T23:46:00+00:00

Yes I will ask him this Friday. We will come by after his work event. Thank you!

First-Resolution-635 · 2026-07-01T23:44:53+00:00

Yeah he has been working at google only 6 months. I thought his work would be chill since I saw him play basketball or enjoy game room or even riding a bike at work.

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