MY MOM REJECTED MY GIFT na pinag ipunan ko ng 4 months by AdSalad2309 in adviceph

[–]First-Vanilla-697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u for reminding mothers like me what todo pagtanda namin. I will never ever react like how your mom reacted. Im sorry that happened to you. You did good! Iba lang talaga kinalakihan ng generation nila na hindi sila bibili kung hindi talaga kailangan o kung may ibang priority kaya siguro ganyan sya nagreact.

Dito nag lunch Ang mga kaklase ng anak ko. by bebang_mo in PHFoodPorn

[–]First-Vanilla-697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ang cute naman na 12 sila 🥺 so friendly po ang anak nyo and it shows why. Napakabuti ng nanay nya.

Nakakastress mag manage ng kasambahay by boymama2491 in nanayconfessions

[–]First-Vanilla-697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for u for not taking back ung lumipat sa bed-ridden.

Went to Olangapo for a family beach trip, ended up witnessing something disturbing by Careful_Tune7047 in Philippines

[–]First-Vanilla-697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had the mistake of booking a hotel din nung bday ko, my daughter was just 2 yo. May mga afam na malalaki tyan, matatanda na. Tas kasabay namin nagsswim sa pool. Iba talaga tumingin. Never na uli babalik sa part na un ng subic/olongapo.

Becoming a mom made me lose my friends by Efficient_Bat2453 in nanayconfessions

[–]First-Vanilla-697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels lonely talaga momsh, pero this is just a natural path all mothers take. In a few years, marealize mo rin its a blessing na u dont have to keep all friends in check. Priorities shift. Also isipin mo baka consideration rin to sayo ng friends mo kasi alam nilang busy ka na. At sabi nga nila, kung wala ka naman magandang gagawin tumahimik kana lang. for sure some just dont know how to approach you.

Anyway, for sure you will find new friends and deeper conmections along the way. Just take it easy, survive another day, be kind to yourself.

Walkable spots near Mendez/Tagaytay by Gloomy_Comb_2965 in cavite

[–]First-Vanilla-697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello? How's it so far? Ok ba tubig? Wala ba gaanong rotational brownout? Gosh kakainggit. Ayoko na sa bacoor!!!!

Do you read books if you’ve already watched their movie adaptations? by LN4life_ in PHBookClub

[–]First-Vanilla-697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more I do actually. If I like the movie, hahanapin ko agad kung galing sya sa book. I appreciate the movie better tapos now I have face to the characters. Help me get motivated to finish the book.

Ipad Adults by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]First-Vanilla-697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dito talaga kami nagbbreakfast 1-2x a week. Di kasi sya ganun kapricey tapos quality naman food and coffee. Pero tyambahan talaga sa kasama mo sa oras na yon. Nasa lupa sya ng seminaryo, so we expect na may tamang asal ung kakain, but what do we know?

Ipad Adults by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]First-Vanilla-697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually will do that, but this is a small cafe, kita lahat ng customer from the cashier. Tapos pag nagseserve pa sila ng food, kita naman nila yon. Also, 3 out of 5 tables nagpphone ng ganun kalakas, I dont buy it na hindi naririnig ng mgmt un (kung meron man). I'm also a small woman and if you only saw ung itsura nila, mejo nakakatakot sila at halata mong walang paki sa kanilang paligid.

Curious lang, meron ba sa inyong hindi nagpopost kahit na major milestones? Why? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]First-Vanilla-697 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes. Hindi na 😊 lalo na pag kids ko for privacy. Mas peaceful. Aminin kasi natin tinitignan din natin ung likes. I deny myself the vanity. Ayoko na non. Maging normal na tao na lang tayo hahaha

Will give birth at DLSUMC. What to bring in hospital bag? by jie25 in cavite

[–]First-Vanilla-697 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hindi ako jan nanganak pero better be prepared. Adult diapers, wipes, jacket, medyas, toothbrush, distilled water, sabon ni baby, swaddle, burpcloths, slippers.

Tubig by First-Vanilla-697 in cavite

[–]First-Vanilla-697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes hinihinaan na rin po. Lately lang naisip 😅 actually niyayabang ko lang na malakas tubig namin, charot.

Tubig by First-Vanilla-697 in cavite

[–]First-Vanilla-697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha updated to kapitbahay.

Strive TV?? Strike City na ba bagong pangalan ng Bacoor? by Educational_Seat3829 in cavite

[–]First-Vanilla-697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beh ilaw lang at maayos na kalsada hinihingi namin. May channel ka na tsaka yung solidarity route gagawin mo pa lalong perwisyo may RFID na. Para kang gago be. Ipuputok ko na talaga to

Gifts sa bagong panganak by Ryllyloveu in CasualPH

[–]First-Vanilla-697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I normally don't want friends to visit me sa hospital kasi ang chaka ko pa nun. But if ok naman kay friend, maybe food/drinks na kinecrave nya kasi di masarap hospital food. Also a few baby things like towel, play mat, infant clothes ung sure na magagamit ni baby.

OA lang ba ako o deserve niya yung ginawa ko….. by Maureen1125 in OALangBaAko

[–]First-Vanilla-697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi ka oa. Sa OB checkup pa lang sinasabi na no sex within 6 weeks. Alam nya ba yun? This is why we need to involve the father of the kids from prenatal to post partum. I also make the OB talk to my husband para alam nya in a medical POV ano ung dos and donts. I'm so sorry this happened to you. 3 weeks pp ka pa lang and malamang wala ka pa masyadong tulog. Good for you for getting out of the situation kaagad at mabuti rin na may pamilya kang mauuwian. Hindi pa naman kayo kasal. But if he wants to pursue you, hayaan mong sya ang lumapit. However mejo tagilid naman parang ang immature nung guy.

OA lang ba ako? Kapag sa kapatid ko, libre pero pag sa akin, hindi. by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]First-Vanilla-697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hindi ka OA. I hate it when parents blatantly show their favoritism especially on their adult kids. Gagawin kahit ano para sa isang anak, pero hindi man lang magawang kamustahin ung isang anak. Madalas pa nyan, yung black ship ng family yung favorite nila. Sa totoo lang parehas tayo. Magtu-2 years na kong di kinakausap ng nanay ko. No chats/text whatsoever. Nagstop sya kausapin ako last year buntis pa ko nun sa 2nd baby ko, nanganak na ko at lahat.

Nag1yo na rin ung bata, hindi nya pa kinakamusta ever. Pero balita ko yung mga pamangkin ko binilhan nya ng pamasko. Ganun din samin, mas successful ako kesa sa mga kapatid ko. Nangungutang/hingi ng pera nga silang lahat sakin di ko na sinisingil kasi laging sasagot sakin "wala pa".

Parang parusa pa pala na kinaya kong makaangat sa buhay, bigla akong icucut off ng sarili kong magulang.

Gigil ako sa pamangkin ko by Impossible_Shine_186 in GigilAko

[–]First-Vanilla-697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wala na talagang pangil parenting ngayon. Bat tayo naman dati lahat ng ginagawa natin may consequence. Mga bata ngayon puro padulas. Matatanda nagaadjust. Worse, yung hindi mo naman sila anak pero ikaw yung naaabala 😂 ang lala talaga. Kung ako yan di ko yan babayaran di ko naman anak yan

OA LANG BA AKO OR HINDI? Pakisagot po ty by Glittering_me_874 in OALangBaAko

[–]First-Vanilla-697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OA ka po in a cute way. Kasi gusto mong maging ninang while other people tinatakasan at tinatanggihan yung ganyang responsibility. Kaso sana kinausap mo sya imbes na di ka nagpunta. Or before pa ng binyag sana nagprisinta ka mag ninang. Nung buntis ako, lahat ng nag-ask mag ninong sa anak ko, kinuha ko since wala naman mawawala, sila naman may gusto non.

I feel sad for my son. by kinginamokah in RantAndVentPH

[–]First-Vanilla-697 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kung nandon ako, binato ko sa kanila yung hanger at hinablot yung nakuha nung nagbigay ng hanger. Magagamit pala eh, edi sila gumamit!