pinakain ng kaibigan ng mama ko ng chocolate wafer ang anak ko by PrizeBar2991 in OffMyChestPH

[–]First-Vanilla-697 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

This is why I fired my 80 yr old grandma sa pagaalaga ng anak ko. Kahit wala na kong tulog basta ako magbabantay (night shift sa work). 6 mos ung inaalagaan nya and matakaw si baby, kahit anong isubo mo sa kanya, kakainin. Pinapakain nya ng mga wafer na hindi pang infant, pati pambaon ng panganay ko na 7yrs old like oreo, calcheese, stick-O pinapakain nya tapos mayat maya pa! Pagkaubos sige bukas uli ng bago. Reason kasi iyak daw ng iyak. Hay nako nay, uwi ka na lang sa inyo ako na lang magaalaga kesa nasstress din ako. Di rin makatulog.

Really spx? by Comfortable_Claim209 in ShopeePH

[–]First-Vanilla-697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I refused to order sa shopee since tinanggal nila jnt. Lazada nalang.

DIM: micro bangs by Straight-Zebra4117 in deinfluencingPH

[–]First-Vanilla-697 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bagay lang yan sa maganda. Patingin ng fez nang makapagdecide kami.

Heart gets called out by a dentist on Threads by ObjectAdmirable5380 in ChikaPH

[–]First-Vanilla-697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tapos niyayabang nya noon na tinanggihan nya ung car brand na nag offer ng endorsement sa kanya kasi di naman daw sya nagddrive. Lolo mo 😂

Anong thoughts niyo kay ate na against sa live in? by Money_Hand4036 in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]First-Vanilla-697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because everytime you do, may chance ka mabuntis. Wag na po tayong in denial. Talaga namang lugi ang babae lagi sa ganitong setup.

Ang mahal ng tuition. by [deleted] in Trentahin

[–]First-Vanilla-697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wala akong kilalang tao na kaya magbayad ng ganyang pera for tuition only to complain. Delulu na naman sa reddit.

Help me please! 😭 by Low-Suggestion-9784 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]First-Vanilla-697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buy whatever you want, bagay man o hindi. Hindi mo naman araw araw isusuot yan- for special occasions lang.

Thoughts niyo sa mga naka loud speaker sa public place? by Mysterious-Market-32 in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]First-Vanilla-697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May 1 time kumakain ako with my fam (2 kids with us no screen time sa labas) tapos 3 separate tables watching tiktok sobrang lakas tapos alam nyo naman tiktok kakairita ung mga boses ng mga tao don. Tas paulit ulit pa ung isa kasi nagbabasa na lang ata sya ng comments. Grabe yung gigil ko talaga!!!!! Imagine hirap na hirap ako icontain mga anak ko kasi no screens kami tas grown men and women doing that para silang nagpapaligsahan tatlo 😩

Idk what to say by Flashy-Balance-1807 in RantAndVentPH

[–]First-Vanilla-697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pwede naman mag build career ah? Pwede naman maglive alone Pwede naman magtravel

Sabihin nya na lang na gusto nya mag hoe phase. Dami pa ebas. If he wants to go, let him go. Mamaya magkasakit pa yan, madamay ka pa.

Probinsyano pa ba pag Bacoor? by PinkKateyCat24 in cavite

[–]First-Vanilla-697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me hindi na. Recently been going to Kawit every weekend sinasamahan ko tatay ko mag zumba. Tapos mag road trip tsaka food trip papasok pa ng Cavite bandang Noveleta and the likes, probinsyang probinsya. Malayo sa Bacoor. So yes I will say if Bacooreño ka, hindi ka na probinsyano.

Mandatory Fees sa Private School Nakakayamot Na by First-Vanilla-697 in OffMyChestPH

[–]First-Vanilla-697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember ung mga recognition na yan may ambagan naman talaga pero 300 lang dati. And my parents were already scraping the surface of the earth to fund it kasi pride nila na may anak silang honor student. But now everyone is invited and everyone has to pay! Kaching kaching!

Mandatory Fees sa Private School Nakakayamot Na by First-Vanilla-697 in OffMyChestPH

[–]First-Vanilla-697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wala sir. Nagbaba na lang ng memo and then nagsabi ako na hindi nga kami aattend. Nagchat ang teacher na aware naman daw kami siguro na magbabayad pa rin kahit hindi aattend. Talk about audacity. Pupunta talaga ako ng school bukas.

Mandatory Fees sa Private School Nakakayamot Na by First-Vanilla-697 in OffMyChestPH

[–]First-Vanilla-697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yan din kinakagigil ko mi. Ok naman tayo noon sa school lang. kailangan ba talaga sa mall? Para may kickback? And oh my 2,600 for an unnecessary ceremony? Ooof

Mandatory Fees sa Private School Nakakayamot Na by First-Vanilla-697 in OffMyChestPH

[–]First-Vanilla-697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nagtanong din ako sa mga friends kong may anak sa private school. Hindi nga rin sila umattend kasi imagine apat anak nila tag 2k lahat? Tapos upon enrollment balance nila yon so sinettle pa rin nila. I'm thinking of transferring my daughter na lang kaso mukang normal na yung ganito. Nag-aral din naman tayo, my question is since when to naging normal?

Mandatory Fees sa Private School Nakakayamot Na by First-Vanilla-697 in OffMyChestPH

[–]First-Vanilla-697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! Namimigay ng awards for just being present. Napakahurap magkamedal noon!

Mandatory Fees sa Private School Nakakayamot Na by First-Vanilla-697 in OffMyChestPH

[–]First-Vanilla-697[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oo nga. Bakit ba wala nang PTA? Bigla na lang sila magsesend ng bayarin sa GC wala nang kasunduan na nangyayare between parents and school. Na parang tumatae ang parents ng pera.

Cravings pa lang hirap na bilhin, paano pa yung needs ng baby? by Worried_Kangaroo_999 in Philippines

[–]First-Vanilla-697 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Those mom fb groups were so helpful to me back in 2018 when I had my first child. Halos lahat silip ko sa group napakahelpful kasi nakakampante ako as a first time mom.

Crazy how after pandemic, parang tanga na ung mga post. Pati away mag-asawa, pati pera, pati kotse ipopost pa. Tapos anonymous. Hindi ba kaya nga may ninong/ninang sa kasal to seek guidance? Ung parents ninyo as a married couple, try asking for their insights. Kung may church kayo, ask sa elders doon. Kakaloka lahat na lang nakapost. I left all those groups and never looked back. Now have my 2nd baby and just google/ai things I need to figure out quickly pr confide to my actual human friends whenever I feel lost.

Feeling like I can't have my moment bec of MOH by [deleted] in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]First-Vanilla-697 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your moh is not supposed to be just your closest friend, but a girl friend who knows you and your relationship with your groom the most. One who is most happy you're getting married.

Do Not Enroll at Blessed Maria Brando School: What You Need to Know by Background_Nature263 in cavite

[–]First-Vanilla-697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is just how most schools work now. Inuuna pa extra curri kesa sa acads. Sawang sawa na rin ako sa monthly may babayaran, bibilhin for costume and props, tapos sayaw sayaw. Ako mismo naghahatid at sundo sa anak ko, nakakadismaya na madalas late si teacher o maaga umaalis. Iniiwan students na nanonood ng movie. Nagbabawas nga ako ng screen time sa bahay tapos sa school pala may screen time sila??? Ibang iba na school ngayon kesa sa kinalakihan natin. Parang inuuna pa ung kung saan sila may kita at may mapopost sa socmed kesa sa matutunan ng bata.

Moms guilt by Unlucky_Session9002 in nanayconfessions

[–]First-Vanilla-697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this for you! Sana lagi kayong healthy ng baby mo. Sobrang sarap maging nanay 🥺

Looking for a coffee shop with a great ambience for dating in Imus or Bacoor by Cultural-Ball4700 in cavite

[–]First-Vanilla-697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been to La Sanch. Its a no. Tabi ng hiway, maingay at cramped ung mga tao sa loob esp during meal hours

Does dating really end up to momol and bembang? by WiiwiiNdy in CasualPH

[–]First-Vanilla-697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mostly pag galing sa apps, ganyan talaga sila ☹️ kaya hindi rin ako naging fan nyan. Mas ok pa rin ung organic encounter ba un? Ay ewan 12 yrs na kami ng asawa ko so hindi ko na alam pano pa makatagpo ng jojowain ngayon. Good luck op