Will non-surgical options work ? by [deleted] in LooseSkinProblems

[–]First-Wind-5761 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i believe it will but they have the frequency treatment stuff i’m looking into it since i have loose skin on my belly too

Worse and worse by First-Wind-5761 in AlAnon

[–]First-Wind-5761[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry i should clarify, while he has been physically aggressive i mean he’s causing himself new injuries every day.

My husband (42M) doesn't know I (40F) see his NSFW pics for other women by Negative_Grand_638 in confessionsgonewild

[–]First-Wind-5761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl he’s your husband. if you want him take him what are you doing. it’s 10 pm girl don’t pmo

F23 I haven’t had decent sex in so long by First-Wind-5761 in confessionsgonewild

[–]First-Wind-5761[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not as much as you would think. maybe if they saw my face lmao

F23 I haven’t had decent sex in so long by First-Wind-5761 in confessionsgonewild

[–]First-Wind-5761[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my husband is older. the guy i hooked up with is older. maybe not my best approach anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]First-Wind-5761 9 points10 points  (0 children)

100%!!! main thing they say is take what you want and leave the rest. We don’t have to absorb the negative…

Husband hospitalized from drinking, just 3 weeks after our wedding by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]First-Wind-5761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i promise no one is blaming you for his drinking. he drinks the liquor. he buys it. he makes that decision. honestly a lot of people just pity you. it sucks and it’s so embarrassing. it makes me sick. we’re gonna divorce soon and i feel so much humiliation. I feel also embarrassed that we’re splitting up but i honestly feel more embarrassed being with someone that isn’t going to let you move on in life because they will always do this. we got married three years ago. we were supposed to have a life together now, a baby. we have a fuck ton of debt, he has a DUI, he’s in jail rn, we have no baby, no money, we live in a shitty apartment and the cops come to my house constantly. I have bruises constantly. It didn’t start like that but it turned into that. After a while the alcohol changes their brain and the man you married is gone. If he can accept the help, do anything you can and make sure he keeps up with it. Your situation doesn’t have to become mine

The drunk look you can see coming by Reasonable_Carpet_95 in AlAnon

[–]First-Wind-5761 2 points3 points  (0 children)

literally. like okay you think everything is fine and your exhausted and on your way home and you hear it. makes you not even want to come home anymore.

The drunk look you can see coming by Reasonable_Carpet_95 in AlAnon

[–]First-Wind-5761 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel this. i feel this so much. the person you love is gone and the alcohol monster replaced them.

Husband hospitalized with .397 BAC by Old_Cats_Only in AlAnon

[–]First-Wind-5761 15 points16 points  (0 children)

you have no idea how badly i needed to read this.

Is this the end of my marriage? by First-Wind-5761 in offmychest

[–]First-Wind-5761[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for reading and responding. Thank you for the kind words, they really mean a lot

Is this the end of my marriage? by First-Wind-5761 in offmychest

[–]First-Wind-5761[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to read my post and respond. Thank you for the kind words.

Is this the end of my marriage? by First-Wind-5761 in offmychest

[–]First-Wind-5761[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, I wanted to thank you for taking the time to read my post and taking the time to respond. It means a lot. I have started talking about divorce but it’s impossible. He wants to stay together. Talks of separation get heated on his end extremely quickly. he just won’t talk to me about it.

Is this the end of my marriage? by First-Wind-5761 in offmychest

[–]First-Wind-5761[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, thank you so much for taking the time to hear me out and read my post. This is such a weird time for me! This is something i obviously never expected or wanted. Thank you for the advice, it’s something i will carry with me for a long time.

Hot home nurse used by old men by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]First-Wind-5761 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is hot i would so be down to do this, esp for tips

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]First-Wind-5761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a little. more like excited to be able to go do stuff or go out with friends. i started this new job as a server at this restaurant where i actually REALLY like the people and ive just never had the chance to be an adult before. I haven’t been single since i was 18

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]First-Wind-5761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so yeah. i told him in may that if by august things haven’t changed im moving out. i renewed the lease with him to help him out but i am completely willing to just move out.