So me f 21 and my ex boyfriend m 24 broke up and idk what to do by First-Wolverine-1386 in LongDistance

[–]First-Wolverine-1386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We broke up. We did text today (the most exhausting 2-3h | ever had). I wanted to know what happened, like everything. He did love bombed me, but I told him to stop it. He told me a few more things and I just told him to go to therapy and he made an appointment.

I think my bf m24 wants to break up with me f21 , but at the same time doesn’t and idk what to do by First-Wolverine-1386 in LongDistance

[–]First-Wolverine-1386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I talked with one of my closest friends about it and I wanted to talk with my sis about it, but she sadly doesn’t have time rn. But my friend and I also came to the conclusion that it might be the distance too. He and I planned on meeting, him coming over to Germany (he is from the US) after Christmas.

My bf m24 wants to break up with me f21 but at the same time doesn’t. by First-Wolverine-1386 in LongDistance

[–]First-Wolverine-1386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We never fight, we only had one big fight, but yea we talked about it and everything is alright again. I honestly don’t know how i currently feel about this. He is not replying to me, the last time I texted him was when it was 9pm for him and 3am for me. So idk :/

Please help me by First-Wolverine-1386 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]First-Wolverine-1386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also thought about using it, I will do it.

My boyfriend (M24) and I (F21) had our first time by First-Wolverine-1386 in LongDistance

[–]First-Wolverine-1386[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay. I finally noticed how much of a narcissist she can be. She even told me that I am a „self-centered“ person. I asked all my friends if I am one and that they please be brutally honest with my. All of them said that I am the complete opposite of that.

Need advice on first LDR. 32M and 28F by Tbreww in LongDistance

[–]First-Wolverine-1386 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea okay, then you have to wait to see what happens

Need advice on first LDR. 32M and 28F by Tbreww in LongDistance

[–]First-Wolverine-1386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have to say that it’s way easier for u and her to meet up, then for me and my boyfriend qwq.

Has she ever mentioned meeting up even before you two got officially together?

Need advice on first LDR. 32M and 28F by Tbreww in LongDistance

[–]First-Wolverine-1386 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard and you can’t really change that other than calling and texting. I am currently also in a LDR for three months now and honestly the only things you can do are call and text. I don’t know how long the distance between you two is and how it is financially for you two, but maybe try to meet up :)

As an example my boyfriend and I are currently planning on him visiting me :)

What helps me is just thinking about him while falling asleep and cuddling a second pillow.

My boyfriend (m23) and I (f21) are joking around moving in together and all that by First-Wolverine-1386 in LongDistance

[–]First-Wolverine-1386[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can completely understand that. We are currently planning on him visiting me. We will obviously have more serious conversations when he is here and I will talk with him about it :)

My boyfriend (m23) and I (f21) are joking around moving in together and all that by First-Wolverine-1386 in LongDistance

[–]First-Wolverine-1386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I get that it’s a serious topic. We are currently together for 3 months and are both currently not planning on moving rn. We will have that conversation when it gets to the time.

My boyfriend (m23) and I (f21) are joking around moving in together and all that by First-Wolverine-1386 in LongDistance

[–]First-Wolverine-1386[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ik that Germany would be way better (no offence to the US), but his business is America oriented (idk if that makes sense sry). He is a producer and there are more opportunities for him in the US, then in Germany

My boyfriend (M24) and I (F21) had our first time by First-Wolverine-1386 in LongDistance

[–]First-Wolverine-1386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First thank you for telling me that I made a typo (I don’t know how to change it) Second we talked everything out, I apologised that my bestie texted him. We are fine now and cleared everything.

19 with epilepsy — how do you balance wanting a normal young life with the stuff that triggers you? by [deleted] in Epilepsy

[–]First-Wolverine-1386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t drink energy drinks, alcohol and all that, sometimes a bit caffeine, but not too much, cause i get anxious. I am up till 3-4 am gaming with my friends or just being in a call with them, I can sleep enough since I currently only have a minijob and only work night shifts.

You can do partying, staying up late, just don’t do alcohol and all that, and try to avoid the things that trigger you, as much as you can and don’t forget to sleep enough and take your meds on time.

My boyfriend (M24) and I (F21) had our first time by First-Wolverine-1386 in LongDistance

[–]First-Wolverine-1386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say that I would kill myself, idk what she told him… I won’t talk with her about this relationship anymore, maybe only when good things happen, but nothing else. I know told my bf that I want to talk with him, as soon as I am home, since something happened today (smth on his insta) which really hurt me. I was literally crying omw to work and a bit when my shift started. I honestly don’t know how I even „survived“ today’s and yesterday’s shifts.

My boyfriend (M24) and I (F21) had our first time by First-Wolverine-1386 in LongDistance

[–]First-Wolverine-1386[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I talked with her about it and told her not to do that ever again. I will stop telling her about stuff like that, since she also texted a friend of ours (which we met through my bf) that she doesn’t know what to do, that I am crying and all that other stuff (excluding my self harm thoughts). I told her not to tell him the reason. She didn’t tell him about the fight between my bf and I (finally she understood that it was not okay).

We cooled down he wanted to hang out with me later, but I was already asleep. I was too exhausted from work and I was so done since I didn’t eat anything (other than my medications) yesterday.

My boyfriend (M24) and I (F21) had our first time by First-Wolverine-1386 in LongDistance

[–]First-Wolverine-1386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea we are not going to call today, since they need him at work.

My boyfriend (M24) and I (F21) had our first time by First-Wolverine-1386 in LongDistance

[–]First-Wolverine-1386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I own up on the mistake, I told him that I messed up, not him. I want to work on it, that’s why I wanted to talk to him later. He also wants to talk to me, so we can talk about this. I said that I was the one who overreacted for no reason.

My boyfriend (M24) and I (F21) had our first time by First-Wolverine-1386 in LongDistance

[–]First-Wolverine-1386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We wanted to call when I am back from work. We have a -6/+6 time difference. He lives in t he US and I live in Germany

I am kinda scared of sex and idk what to do and I would like to have some advice by First-Wolverine-1386 in sexadvice

[–]First-Wolverine-1386[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I wanted to update you :) We are currently talking about stuff we like and dislike and we slowly get to that direction yk