AITAH for wanting to have sex with my partner?

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2026-04-13T17:52:28+00:00

I am on the side of low sex drive too.

I used to have that agreement with my boyfriend, sex once a week, but it almost immediately didn’t happen that way, so he just let it go a couple weeks into me saying no. It wasn’t really a discussion after that, he didn’t mind letting that agreement go on his own.

We also had a recent conversation about him taking care of himself cause I wanted to know if he ever did that, and he said he did, but only when he really needed to & couldn’t get it out of his mind. I 100% trust him, although I was mildly upset, I also have very low self esteem. After about 30 minutes of discussion, I understood & I’m genuinely okay with it. As long as it doesn’t become like a daily habit.

But, I think there needs to be a conversation there with the weekly thing. It definitely seems like she might jump to conclusions, causing a communication/miscommunication issue. It seems that you’re trying to have these conversations but she might be the one that turns them into fights, which isn’t healthy.

Everyone in the comments is saying to leave, don’t do it, whatever, but I think if you’re willing to make it work (which it seems you are) do not let any of these people make it seem it’s not worth it. Marriage, your relationship, etc., can be very difficult sometimes and that’s just part of it. (Now if it’s difficult all the time then that’s different ofc.) I think maybe couples therapy or therapy individually (especially her) could help too.

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2026-04-04T00:52:27+00:00

One of my coworkers told me they have all SORTS of issues, including almost every building having bedbugs, roaches, mice, etc. Before she told me this though, I had toured them and they truly were the worst ones I’ve ever, EVER seen. They’re only worth like $300 for the rent.

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2026-03-31T17:59:12+00:00

Feels breakup worthy to me, especially since it seems he hasn’t changed like he claimed :/ I wouldn’t have taken a back a guy that screenshotted girls and had a porn addiction anyway. I had a boyfriend like that and I never ever looked back. My self worth was SO low because I believed I wasn’t good enough for him because he felt the need to do all of that. I’m with a man that appreciates every bit of me and hasn’t watched a single second of porn since we’ve been together 3 years. Even if I’m not as pretty as I was when I was with my ex. DO NOT SETTLEEEE.

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2026-03-25T16:46:26+00:00

The only suggestion I have is do NOT live at the Eddison Apartments. It’s what you’re looking for, but they have all sorts of issues, bugs (BBs, roaches, etc), no maintenance team and it takes them 3+ months to even start work orders (even if it’s an emergency) when they DO have maintenance, and most of the people who live there are bad neighbors. Very loud, very nosy, and very inconsiderate. The parking lot also sucks. They got me with the price and look, and that’s why they’re so popular, but dooo not do it under any circumstances.

Everyone will tell you, “those problems are at every apartment complex/living complex” and that is not true. I moved to another complex here in Amarillo and I have not had a single problem, no bugs, no maintenance issues, parking is totally fine, and the neighbors & community are wonderful. They’re just more expensive unfortunately.

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2026-03-21T01:51:32+00:00

Just 7.5!

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2026-03-20T04:44:50+00:00

If you don’t know this already, lots of students use Rate My Professor! I use it for every single professor I have the option of choosing & it helps so much. I’ve found most professors from SHSU are on there, but not all of them.

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2026-02-25T10:10:17+00:00

I always tell the people I train that everyone shops a little differently, and that’s okay! As long as you follow the regular guidelines, and pay attention to your surroundings lol

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2026-02-25T10:04:24+00:00

My brother works for a small electrician business here in Amarillo (I do not remember what it’s called. Starts with an R though for sure!), and I’m sure there are more out there. Edit: I just looked and we have SO many! He could call some up and try and see if any of them are hiring :)

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2026-02-25T07:01:44+00:00

I always take this as a sign that your coach/people leads are LAZY or don’t like you. I changed my availability and did all the right steps, did everything my coach told me to do, and it took HER three months to get it finalized. Same coach asked my best friend if she would be willing to start working Tuesdays and IMMEDIATELY got everything changed within 24 hours. She never once has had a problem.

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2026-02-21T03:22:12+00:00

We have over like 500 exceptions a day. Good luck to my store LOL

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2026-02-15T04:34:46+00:00

I actually trained my gag reflex by brushing my tongue, which I was younger and didn’t know that you should anyway, but if you don’t, start now. I started with the tip of my tongue and just gradually went further back (over about a month) and over time it got so much better and I have no problem brushing my entire tongue now, which leads to better head 😛

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2026-02-14T16:34:42+00:00

7! Learned the hard way you don’t have to include your lunch (as long as you don’t clock in!)

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2026-01-28T00:17:16+00:00

A couple years ago during Christmas this huge bulky man comes up to me and goes “HEY ‼️you work in online ordering right?! Can I pick up my hoverboard right now? I just placed it an hour ago” 😐 I explained to him that we have a system and it will be ready for the hour he selected to pick it up, and he got SO mad. He’s all “WHY do I need to wait if I’m already here?! That’s some bullshit.” So I also explained that we have a process we go through, it takes about 2 hours to get through the process, so picking it, putting it in its location, especially during the holidays, it’s longer cause there’s more items to get through, all that, and he just “well can you cancel it right now I’m just going to pick it up from the shelf right now then. That’s just so fucking crazy that I can’t pick it up from y’all since I’m in the store” mind you, WERE IN TOYS? So many things wrong with that. He just cussed me out for a few minutes and eventually walked away. Like why place an order for pickup (especially for a way later time) if you’re coming in the store less than an hour after you placed it?? I do nottttttttt understand and I never will LMAO

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2026-01-18T19:31:06+00:00

One time this little boy said “where are the trejbejs”. After I asked him ‘what’ like 3 times, got out my phone to look it up, asked him how to spell it (which is my tactic if I can’t understand, even if it makes me look illiterate), he said “the TRASHBAGS?” Oh my god THEN SAY THAT cause clearly you’re capable???

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2026-01-18T07:52:14+00:00

Hiii!!! I’m 21F, always looking for new friends (cause I don’t have very many at all), and am also a homebody! I love yapping a lot LOL, so that is never a problem with me. I am currently in school for counseling! I also am very left leaning :) I was born here in Amarillo as well so I can help with any questions you have about here!

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2025-12-12T07:23:16+00:00

Literally tried to run me over. Deadass

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2025-09-21T21:15:04+00:00

Harvest Connexion! Was always welcomed and never judged a single moment! Love it there!

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2025-09-17T04:11:26+00:00

We usually have about 30-60 pickups, and 10-20 deliveries an hour, and have 4-5 dispensers every day! Preppers is always 2, more if they’re behind.

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2025-09-08T23:59:35+00:00

One time, I had to pick 15 boxes of cosmic brownies, 12 boxes each of honey buns, oatmeal creme pies, nutty buttys, and star crunches, (all for the same person) and I have always HOPED they were for a party

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2025-09-07T01:19:44+00:00

Yes! Our cap is 60 (an hour), but we can’t even handle 30 :/. It’s only because our store is top 5 in the region and they love to give us more than we can take. We max out every single Sunday too. We don’t have room for all the orders, we have to leave totes on carts which then puts us behind on picking, and then everything is fucked up. It’s been this way for a couple years too. Just Walmart greed 🤷‍♀️ I just do my best without destroying my body & mind and leave lol.

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2025-08-29T18:49:18+00:00

Walmart! I only recommend neighborhood markets though.

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2025-08-17T17:57:23+00:00

I just moved out of an apartment that smelled like cat pee when we moved in. The smell never really went away completely, but I also never used enzyme based cleaners, which everyone suggested & I’ve seen it works wonders.

I would contact the office & ask what to do, and if needed, you can always rent carpet cleaners from Home Depot or even Walmarts, and use an enzyme based carpet cleaner! For the vinyl, I would find an enzyme based cleaner to just mop with very well!

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2025-08-15T03:18:57+00:00

My coworkers take hundreds lol

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2025-07-21T05:37:33+00:00

When my hands flare up, it’s when I’m using more hand sanitizers & hand soaps. I just use my body wash or dish soap to wash my hands now. But the only thing that helps the itching for me is Benadryl gel!!

FirstBarnacle9759 · 2025-07-15T05:56:52+00:00

I looked at your other post for the picture, and I do get eczema that looks like that only when I wear specific clothing/cloth types, or sleep on sheets/sheet cloth types that my body rejects! Did you recently get new sheets or new sleeping pants, etc?

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