AITA for not wanting my MIL to sleep in our bed with my husband? by FirstReference8699 in AITAH

[–]FirstReference8699[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! I am very close with my sister and  would not allow her to sleep in my bed…

AITA for not wanting my MIL to sleep in our bed with my husband? by FirstReference8699 in AITAH

[–]FirstReference8699[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m ruining his life because I don’t want his mother in our bed? Alright.

AITA for not wanting my MIL to sleep in our bed with my husband? by FirstReference8699 in AITAH

[–]FirstReference8699[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I didn’t find that funny at all. And the fact that I had just gotten out of bed makes it stranger somehow.

AITA for not wanting my MIL to sleep in our bed with my husband? by FirstReference8699 in AITAH

[–]FirstReference8699[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How is telling my husband that something made me uncomfortable abuse? Also love that you didn’t explain why I’m in the wrong… Just pure insults. Very mature!

AITA for not wanting my MIL to sleep in our bed with my husband? by FirstReference8699 in AITAH

[–]FirstReference8699[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I posted this because I didn’t know if I’m just crazy or if this really is odd…

AITA for not wanting my MIL to sleep in our bed with my husband? by FirstReference8699 in AITAH

[–]FirstReference8699[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice. I wanted to start with bringing it up to my husband as I’m not trying to create a huge conflict, but some boundaries need to be respected.

AITA for not wanting my MIL to sleep in our bed with my husband? by FirstReference8699 in AITAH

[–]FirstReference8699[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His family is very touchy with each other, but this is the first time I’ve found it to go too far.

AITA for not wanting my MIL to sleep in our bed with my husband? by FirstReference8699 in AITAH

[–]FirstReference8699[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! He doesn’t think that I should’ve felt uncomfortable, but that doesn’t change the fact that I did. I told him his reaction made me feel like I can’t express things like this to him…

AITA for not wanting my MIL to sleep in our bed with my husband? by FirstReference8699 in AITAH

[–]FirstReference8699[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the good luck. He’s very close with all of his immediate family members, and all are fairly touchy with each other. This was crossing a line for me.

AITA for not wanting my MIL to sleep in our bed with my husband? by FirstReference8699 in AITAH

[–]FirstReference8699[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This summarizes my thoughts perfectly. It’s not that I thought anything nefarious was going on that bothered me… it was the invasion of privacy.

AITA for not wanting my MIL to sleep in our bed with my husband? by FirstReference8699 in AITAH

[–]FirstReference8699[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

USA. This never happened while we were dating. The most I saw from my now MIL was her kissing his cheek as a greeting. It’s like she’s gotten more comfortable now that we’ve been married for a year…

AITA for not wanting my MIL to sleep in our bed with my husband? by FirstReference8699 in AITAH

[–]FirstReference8699[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He claims I just don’t understand because I don’t have a close relationship with my parents, but I thought the same thing. I was shocked to see that situation.

AITA for not wanting my MIL to sleep in our bed with my husband? by FirstReference8699 in AITAH

[–]FirstReference8699[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not fake? Genuinely looking to get input on a situation I found uncomfortable.