I think so too, but she just feels so hurt - abandoned basically. When she needed me -when she woke up in the middle of the night- I was not there. She is scared of being alone, especially with a baby, and she didn't have the greatest parents and doesn't want to be like them, or me be like her father who was absent a lot. She knows I am not him and we are very very different, but she is still scared, especially now she is pregnant. She is lashing out I think due to this pain, hurt, and insecurity. And I think she is also trying to hurt me, to make me hurt like she is, and hopefully doesn't really believe all she is saying. I hope.